I tweet regularly on issues of men, masculinities, gender, and violence, at https://twitter.com/MichaelGLFlood. On this page, I list many of my recent tweets. So if you don't use Twitter or follow me on Twitter, then you can find most of my recent tweets here. If Twitter ceases to exist or be functional, I may continue posting at Mastodon, at @MichaelGLFlood@mastodon.au.
(Note that the text below does not include items I re-tweet. Also, while I often use graphics in my tweets, I have not added the graphics here.)
Tweets in May 2023
One in four young men agree with Andrew Tate’s views on women, poll finds
Campaigners say the influencer is a ‘legitimising force’ for misogynistic ideas.
https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/andrew-tate-women-mascu…
Alpha Males Are A Myth That Has Hijacked Modern Masculinity
In "Are Men Animals?" anthropologist Matthew Gutmann explores how modern ideas of masculinity repress and harm men.
by Lizzy Francis
https://www.fatherly.com/life/myth-alpha-male-vs-beta-male-hijacked-mas…
How to be a man? Josh Hawley has the (incoherent) answers.
In “Manhood,” the senator joins a long tradition of those who bemoan masculinity’s endangerment and offer advice for saving it. https://www.washingtonpost.com/books/2023/05/18/manhood-josh-hawley-rev…
Manhood review: Josh Hawley, moraliser, neo-Confederate and Tucker Carlson of the US Senate
The Missouri Republican senator thinks something is amiss with American men. Something is definitely up with him
https://www.theguardian.com/books/2023/may/13/manhood-review-josh-hawley-book-tucker-carlson
Depp comes up smelling of roses despite defamation trial’s catalogue of misogyny
The actor who joked about drowning and burning his then wife Amber Heard has been the toast of Cannes and has snagged $20m to hawk perfume
By Arwa Mahdawi
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/may/20/johnny-depp-sauva…
Why is Johnny Depp forgiven and celebrated while Amber Heard is blacklisted?
The redemption arc is underway.
https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/johnny-depp-cannes-2023
"ample evidence has shown that socially constructed gender norms that socialize men to value hierarchy, aggression, power, respect, and emotional suppression may be a primary root cause of violence-related disparities"
Fleming et al.'s paper, here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Fleming%2C%20Men%27s%20violence%20against%20women%20and%20men%20are%20inter-related%202015.pdf [Plus graphic, Fleming, Men's violence against women and men are inter-related 2015 – Abstract]
Flexible work is feminist–and women won’t return to a system that hasn’t served them well to spare the feelings of powerful men
https://fortune.com/2023/05/14/flexible-work-feminist-women-return-office-power-men-careers-erin-grau/
Can We Reclaim “Mama’s Boy?”
Maybe it’s time to stop using “mama’s boy” to describe unhealthy mother-son relationships. Perhaps it’s more effective to locate the problems in the specific behaviours — like a lack of boundaries or independence. @acalltomen
https://www.nextgenmen.ca/blog/can-we-reclaim-mamas-boy
The Australian Government’s family law bill is a big step forward. But it doesn’t do enough to address family violence
https://theconversation.com/governments-family-law-bill-is-a-big-step-f…
Higher unemployment and less income: how domestic violence costs women financially
https://theconversation.com/higher-unemployment-and-less-income-how-domestic-violence-costs-women-financially-204688
Building Gender Equality For Young People: This resource, by White Ribbon UK, helps professionals working with children and youth to nurture positive gender traits that foster healthy and respectful relationships.
https://www.whiteribbon.org.uk/learning-resources @WhiteRibbon_UK
[Plus graphic, White Ribbon UK, Building Gender Equality for Young People 2023 – Cover]
Trump’s sexual assault verdict marks a rare moment of accountability. And women are noticing
AP News, May 12
https://apnews.com/article/trump-sex-assault-verdict-womens-rights-3999…
At times devastating, always powerful: new SBS drama Safe Home looks at domestic violence with nuance, integrity and care https://theconversation.com/at-times-devastating-always-powerful-new-sb… via @ConversationEDU
Online predators target children’s webcams, study finds
There has been a tenfold increase in sexual abuse imagery created with webcams and other recording devices worldwide since 2019.
https://theconversation.com/online-predators-target-childrens-webcams-s…
Women should help design UK parks to tackle safety fears, says study
West Yorkshire research shows women and girls affected ‘on daily basis by misogyny and harassment’
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/may/10/women-should-help-desig…
Addressing gender norms key to promoting peace, finds International Alert
New research by peacebuilding organisation International Alert shows how patriarchal gender roles contribute to violent conflict and prevent pathways to peace.
https://reliefweb.int/report/world/breaking-gender-trap-challenging-pat…
Josh Hawley’s New Book on Manhood Is Wrong on Everything, Everywhere, All at Once
By Rob Okun, Ms Magazine
https://msmagazine.com/2023/05/16/josh-hawley-book-manhood/ @MsMagazine @voicemalemag
Are You There, God? My Nude Photos Are All Over the Internet.
Slut-shaming has become more rampant and acceptable than ever before in our surveillance-saturated culture. Girls deserve better.
By Leora Tanenbaum
https://msmagazine.com/2023/05/12/are-you-there-god-girls-sex-internet-… @MsMagazine
Abortion Bans are Gifts for Abusive Men
Men who want to control women lending a hand to men who want to control women.
By Jill Filipovic @JillFilipovic
https://jill.substack.com/p/abortion-bans-are-gifts-for-abusive
Anna was 10 when a boy first showed her porn on his iPad
Exposure to violent porn is adversely affecting teenagers’ sexual experiences. But how can we restrict their access to such websites?
By Jordan Baker
https://www.smh.com.au/national/anna-was-10-when-a-boy-first-showed-her… #Porn
Lost in a Sea of Pixels: Men, Pornography, and the Illusion of Control
Is pornography sabotaging men’s emotional connections and ability to experience authentic intimacy?
By Professor Robert Jensen
https://publicsquaremag.org/health/mental-health/porn-impact-men-intima…
What Are Gender Trainers Struggling With When They Work With Men?
Trainers working on masculinity bring up all the complications of the good men vs bad men approach.
By Juhi Jotwani, India
https://thethirdeyeportal.in/praxis/is-gender-training-supposed-to-make…
Gender and prison: Women are generally charged with low-level and non-violent offences, and most women in prison have gendered experiences of trauma and victimisation.
Facts about the criminal justice system, by the Centre for Innovative Justice
https://cij.org.au/cms/wp-content/uploads/2023/03/community-attitudes-t… @RMIT
Healing our children and young people: a framework to address the impacts of domestic and family violence
For working with Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander children who have experienced DFV and have come into contact with child protection systems.
https://www.anrows.org.au/resources/healing-our-children-and-young-peop…
Rejecting Violence: A Necessary Response to Toxic Masculinity
"He had to respond with violence. If he didn't, it would've threatened his manhood and his standing."
https://goodmenproject.com/ethics-values/rejecting-violence-a-necessary…
Youth Guide To End Online Gender-Based Violence: A 48-page guide, written for young people, on ending violence enabled or perpetrated by using technology or online. From the UN Women Regional Office for Asia and the Pacific (ROAP).
https://asiapacific.unwomen.org/sites/default/files/2022-12/Youth-Toolk… @UN_Women @unwomenasia [Plus graphic, UN Women ROAP, Youth Guide To End Online Gender-Based Violence 2022 – Cover]
'He is always there to listen': friendships between young men are more than just beers and banter
By Professor Damien Ridge and Professor Alex Broom
https://theconversation.com/he-is-always-there-to-listen-friendships-be… via @ConversationUK
The right-wing Proud Boys organisation is focusing its violent tactics on policing the borders of traditional masculinity.
Far-right ideology contains a dangerous mix of racism, misogyny, homophobia and anti-trans bigotry.
By Jackson Katz
https://msmagazine.com/2023/05/09/proud-boys-trump/ @MsMagazine
What if Your Job is to Teach Men and Boys to be Better Men and Boys?
How does training in masculinity work exactly? Juhi Jotwani on healthy masculinities work in India
https://thethirdeyeportal.in/praxis/what-if-your-job-is-to-teach-men-an…
Why should men embrace feminism? First, for justice: it’s the right thing. If we take seriously the values of dignity, solidarity, and equality, we should support feminism. Second, out of self-interest. Yes, patriarchy gives men various advantages. But they come at a cost.
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Feminists offer men a gift. “Feminism gives men a chance to be fully human, to strive for richer and more meaningful lives than patriarchy could ever offer.”
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https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/men-and-feminism-kpkn/
Improving gender balance at conferences: Good tips and strategies for invited speakers, responses to common excuses for common imbalance, and more
https://toolbox.brusselsbinder.org/gender-balance/
[Link to The Brussels Binder, Improving Gender Balance at Conferences 2020]
Why can't we believe that "kind" and "gentle" men can be abusers and murderers?
Eulogising violent white men must stop.
https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/marelle-sturrock-misogyny
Looking for the perfect Mother’s Day gift? Why not smash the patriarchy
While Mother’s Day is often surrounded by cloying sentiment, Australian mums have a long history of political activism and forcing social change.
https://theconversation.com/looking-for-the-perfect-mothers-day-gift-why-not-smash-the-patriarchy-159335 #MothersDay #MothersDay2023
Trump symbolized powerful men’s impunity for sexual abuse – until now
By Moira Donegan
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/may/11/donald-trump-liab… #Trump #TrumpIsACriminal
I took anger management classes. Here’s what they get wrong about the world
The course focuses on taming a ubiquitous emotion. But what about addressing its root causes?
by Olivia Watson
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/may/11/anger-management-c…
'Three friends of mine have been killed by their partners': Are we on track to end violence against women?
Advocates question federal government's $194 million to address domestic violence in First Nations communities
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-05-12/federal-budget-funding-for-first… @ChayBrown1
Mother’s Day’s origins are in activism. Today’s saccharine version is suffocating
In its early guises, Mothers’ Day was about fighting for a better world for women, not breakfast in bed
Jennifer Zeven
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2021/may/09/mothers-days-orig… #MothersDay #MothersDay2023
We need boys and adult men "to not just ask for consent, but to want to and more importantly to care about what their partner desires. We need to teach boys to desire mutuality and reciprocity as much as they want sex.”
By Daniel Principe @_DanielPrincipe
https://www.sbs.com.au/news/insight/article/porn-taught-me-to-disrespec…
‘The more women accuse him, the better he does’: the meaning and misogyny of the Trump-Carroll case
Being found liable for sexual assault would normally leave your career in tatters. But the cult of Trump means nothing is out of the question.
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2023/may/10/the-more-women-accuse-h…
The incomplete revolution for equal work
Even though men and women are reaching a convergence in the household division of labor, childcare remains predominantly a woman’s responsibility.
Research Brief, Gender and the Economy
https://www.gendereconomy.org/the-incomplete-revolution-for-equal-work/
Why professional women may enact intentional invisibility
How women manage their paid and unpaid work responsibilities by purposely remaining 'invisible' at work, allowing them to prioritize caring for their families.
Research Brief, Gender and the Economy
https://www.gendereconomy.org/why-professional-women-may-enact-intentio…
Work-life balance as a household negotiation
We should think of “work-life balance” as a household negotiation rather than an individual balancing act.
https://www.gendereconomy.org/work-life-balance-as-a-household-negotiat…
How all men can join the fight to end violence against women
Not all men commit violence against women, but all men can help prevent and address it
https://www.bigissue.com/news/social-justice/not-all-men-how-to-join-th… @EvieBreese @BigIssue
‘How to Use Statistics in Primary Prevention’ aims to support a greater understanding of the importance, uses and limitations of statistics within the context of primary prevention and family violence.
@safe_and_equal
https://safeandequal.org.au/resources/how-to-use-statistics-in-primary-…
Consent and violence prevention: “a focus on consent will be ineffective if we don’t address the cultural drivers that embolden male sexual entitlement and the dehumanisation of women.” By Daniel Principe @_DanielPrincipe
https://www.sbs.com.au/news/insight/article/porn-taught-me-to-disrespec… @CollectiveShout
Sixty-five countries have banned smacking children – why isn’t Australia one of them?
Research overwhelmingly links physical punishment with later involvement in violent domestic relationships
https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2023/may/07/sixty-five-count…
62 dating green flags that shout ‘this one’s a keeper’
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jan/28/62-dating-green-fl…
Emotional abuse is a pattern of hurtful messages – building parenting skills could help prevent it
https://theconversation.com/emotional-abuse-is-a-pattern-of-hurtful-mes…
Ninety years since the first Tampax, why aren’t there better menstrual products?
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/may/03/tampons-pads-period-pro…
Feminism 101: What is Himpathy?
“the inappropriate and disproportionate sympathy powerful men often enjoy in cases of sexual assault, intimate partner violence, homicide and other misogynistic behavior" (Manne)
Lara Washington, April 13, 2019
https://femmagazine.com/feminism-101-what-is-himpathy/
Learning brief: Learning from the Men and Women for Gender Equality programme
Men and Women for Gender Equality (MWGE) programme, implemented in Egypt, Lebanon, Morocco, Palestine, Jordan and Tunisia over 2015-2022.
https://www.itad.com/knowledge-product/men-and-women-gender-equity-un-w… @UN_Women
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Learnings:
1) Rapid attitudinal and behavioural change is achievable despite entrenched societal views on concepts of masculinity.
2) Ensuring programme accountability to feminists movements is a vital part of developing allies and mitigating risks.
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3) Engaging men and boys for gender equality requires a broad understanding of societal drivers and enablers.
4) All implementation partners need to have understood and internalized core feminist principles and approaches.
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5) Given emerging best practice on masculinities-oriented programming, broad knowledge exchange is crucial.
UN Women Learning Brief, here: https://www.itad.com/knowledge-product/men-and-women-gender-equity-un-w…
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Slap fighting: The next big thing in combat sports or the quickest route to brain damage?
Slap fighting sees competitors try to slap each other in the face as hard as possible, sometimes causing knockout. Experts worry about the potential for brain damage.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-03-12/slap-fighting-the-next-big-thing…
Love in the time of incontinence – why young people don’t have the monopoly on love, or even sex
https://theconversation.com/friday-essay-love-in-the-time-of-incontinen… via @ConversationEDU
A nascent men's movement eschews orgasms for health reasons. Experts say the science behind "NoFap" doesn't add up
How an online community became obsessed with the idea that ejaculation was hurting their mental and physical health
https://www.salon.com/2023/02/26/nofap-movement-science/
‘No one is talking about this’: What happens when men age
What’s eating men over 50? A host of serious physical and emotional issues.
https://www.smh.com.au/national/no-one-is-talking-about-this-what-happe…
Consent Education In Schools, Explained
By Claire Keenan, for Our Watch
https://junkee.com/new-australian-curriculum-for-consent-education-in-s… @OurWatchAus
Also see:
Best practice in consent education: https://xyonline.net/content/best-practice-consent-education
Consent: Notes on fostering affirmative consent and challenging sexual violence: https://xyonline.net/content/consent-notes-fostering-affirmative-consen…
NSW man charged over siege believed feminism and ‘cultural Marxism’ threaten white race, court hears
Simon Fleming has pleaded not guilty to multiple charges, including using a fake bomb to create a false sense of danger
https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2023/may/03/nsw-man-charged-…
Everything you need to know about consent on dating apps
A great guide to keeping things consensual and respectful (and sexy) on dating apps, by Our Watch @OurWatchAus
https://punkee.com.au/consent-dating-apps-everything-to-know/158424
Engaging men in building workplace gender equality: barriers and gender norms. 7-page report from Catalyst. Use these five strategies to eliminate barriers and successfully engage men. 1. Identify and eliminate apathy; 2. Don't frame gender equity as a zero-sum game 1/2 [Plus graphic, Kerr, Engaging men - barriers and gender norms 2022 – Cover]
3. Include men in discussions of gender; 4. Highlight respected men who advocate for gender equity; and 5. Provide men with learning opportunities.
Catalyst report, free here: https://www.catalyst.org/research/engaging-men-barriers-norms/ 2/2
How ‘gym bro’ culture is harming young men
The pressure to get jacked is sparking a male mental health crisis and driving men into the arms of the far-right. https://www.dazeddigital.com/life-culture/article/59789/1/how-gym-bro-c…
Adolescent boys and young men face distinct risks in relation to sexual and reproductive health, violence, and other issues. They are vulnerable to rigid norms of masculinity. Programs that question patriarchal gender norms and inequalities are invaluable. https://xyonline.net/content/adolescent-boys-and-young-men
How to Engage Men in Nurturing Care Across the Life Stages
This infographic (with links to further resources and guides) shows how men can be supported to provide nurturing care for their children from pregnancy to early childhood.
https://usaidmomentum.org/resource/how-to-engage-men-in-nurturing-care-… @USAID
Emerging concepts in male contraception: a narrative review of novel, hormonal and non-hormonal options
This review looks into current and emerging male contraceptives, including hormonal and non-hormonal options
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9996746/
Practice and policy in engaging men and boys for gender equality: Excellent resources, including a Practice Brief, Policy Brief, and Evidence Review, from this groundbreaking two-year project. See https://xyonline.net/content/emerge-engendering-men-evidence-routes-gen… @equimundo_org @SonkeTogether @IDS_UK
Shifts in Gender and Sexual Identities in the U.S., 2023 Update
Fascinating data on proportions of people in the US who identify as LGBT, breakdowns among LBGT-identified people by sexual and gender identification, etc. By Tristan Bridges @tristanbphd
https://inequalitybyinteriordesign.wordpress.com/2023/05/01/shifts-in-g…
MenEngage Alliance supported feminists making bold steps for women’s rights and gender justice at this year’s Commission on the Status of Women (CSW67). The session agreements included concrete recommendations around men and masculinities. @MenEngage
https://menengage.org/stories/how-engaging-men-and-boys-is-framed-in-th…
Men dominate conference Q&A sessions — including online ones
‘Question and manswer’ sessions are the norm at both in-person and virtual events, even when there’s a good gender balance.
https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-022-04241-y
How Women Are Being Increasingly Screwed Over by Modern Technology
On the prevalence of tech-facilitated violence, abuse and sexual harassment
https://medium.com/the-no%C3%B6sphere/how-women-are-being-increasingly-…
The pandemic deepened gender inequality in dual-career households
Canadian research on gendered divisions of labour among dual-career heterosexual couples
https://theconversation.com/the-pandemic-deepened-gender-inequality-in-… via @ConversationCA
Censorious sadism: We are never far away from abuse and ostracism
Victoria Smith on cancel culture and Umut Özkirimli’s "Cancelled: The Left Way Back from Woke".
https://thecritic.co.uk/censorious-sadism/ @glosswitch
Good Practice Indicators Framework for Preventing and Responding to Workplace Sexual Harassment
A new resource by the Respect at Work Council, at https://www.respectatwork.gov.au/resource-hub/good-practice-indicators-…
It’s Time To Take Seriously The Connection Between Domestic Violence And Gun Violence
Health Affairs Forefront, April 27, 2023
https://www.healthaffairs.org/content/forefront/s-time-take-seriously-c…
3 reasons you should never view or share videos showing children being assaulted – even if you think it helps 'raise awareness'
https://theconversation.com/3-reasons-you-should-never-view-or-share-vi… via @ConversationEDU
What it’s like to be in the minority at a conference
Female and Black researchers describe the impacts of sexism and racism at conferences
https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-023-01467-2
Love ≠ Control
New campaign on coercive control, by the Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Council (Queensland). Includes profiles of ten personal stories, a 7-page factsheet on domestic violence and coercive control.
https://www.qld.gov.au/about/newsroom/love-not-equal-control
[Plus graphics, Love does not equal control - We had a whirlwind relationship.png; Love does not equal control - I started to understand that he had no right]
Toxic masculinity is so rife I’m terrified for my son’s future
https://metro.co.uk/2023/04/28/toxic-masculinity-is-so-rife-im-terrified-for-my-sons-future-18686754/
The Rise of the 'Sigma Male', a New Kind of Toxic Masculinity
How memes of a fictional serial killer turned into an un-ironic personality and lifestyle.
https://www.vice.com/en/article/dy7bxq/sigma-male-toxic-masculinity
Why we need to talk about porn when we talk about Andrew Tate
https://theconversation.com/why-we-need-to-talk-about-porn-when-we-talk-about-andrew-tate-201059
Tweets in April 2023
The film "Ghosted" is not romantic – it’s a walking red flag
The drama is really not a love story; at best it shows an entitled man who won’t take no for an answer. From "Love Actually" to "10 Things I Hate About You" this is sadly nothing new.
https://www.theguardian.com/film/2023/apr/26/ghosted-is-not-romantic-it…
In 'Air,' Michael Jordan's silence speaks volumes about the marketing of Black athletes
https://theconversation.com/in-air-michael-jordans-silence-speaks-volum… @ConversationUS
Nearly one out of every three (29%) women around the world has been a victim of sexual violence in their life. That’s the finding of a systematic assessment of the global prevalence rate of sexual violence against women.
https://bmcwomenshealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12905-023-02338-8 [Plus graphic, Li, Sexual violence against women remains problematic and highly prevalent around the world 2023 – Abstract]
Striving for a world where boys and men feel less pain and cause less harm: That’s one of the aspirations of Next Gen Men, an inspiring Canadian nonprofit organisation that works with boys and men. Check them out at https://www.nextgenmen.ca/ @NextGenMen
Around 90 per cent of adolescent girls and young women do not use the internet in low-income countries, while their male peers are twice as likely to be online, according to a new UNICEF analysis.
https://www.unicef.org/press-releases/90-cent-adolescent-girls-and-youn… @UNICEF
A self-identified men’s rights activist is on trial for his harassment of academic and women's rights campaigner Dr Charlotte Proudman in November last year. And carrying a knife.
https://www.shropshirestar.com/news/crime/2023/04/28/man-urged-to-get-l…
Treasurers call to increase male participation in the care workforce
Targeting more men to work in the care sector is one proposal the Australian board of treasurers has submitted to challenge gender stereotypes and address workforce shortages.
https://womensagenda.com.au/latest/treasurers-call-to-increase-male-par…
How is Masculinity related to Climate Justice?
Blog piece, NextGen Men, Canada
https://www.nextgenmen.ca/blog/masculinity-and-climate-justice-in-alber… @NextGenMen
“We stand for women’s rights and gender justice." "We work to disrupt and end patriarchy." "We believe in the capability of men and boys to actively support gender, social, and climate justice."
Some of the MenEngage Alliance principles. See https://menengage.org/about/core-principles/ @MenEngage
The Chilling: A global study on online violence against women journalists.
Report on the challenges faced by female journalists dealing with prolific and/or sustained online violence around the world, including how disinformation deepens the problem.
https://www.icfj.org/our-work/chilling-global-study-online-violence-against-women-journalists
Violence against women in universities: is facilitated by organisational characteristics, including male-dominant hierarchies, a neoliberal managerialist ethos, and leadership that perpetuates male entitlement and toxic masculinities.
https://www.mdpi.com/2076-3387/11/4/138
Men: if your wife or girlfriend only has sex with you because you get angry or give her the silent treatment if she doesn’t; if you have sex with her when she is too drunk/high to consent or she is asleep; if you pressure her into sex... Then you are raping her. You are a rapist
Instead, make consent the bedrock of your sexual practice. Respect others' bodily autonomy. Discuss expectations. Ask check-in questions. Seek verbal consent. See p. 11 of this report, “Men Speak Up”, at https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-11/Flood%2C%20Men%20…. And more on consent here: https://xyonline.net/content/consent-xy-collection [Plus graphic, Flood, Men Speak Up 2011 - p. 11 consent]
Speaking of rape and the cultural norms of *male sexual entitlement* that facilitate it: 22% of men and 6% of women in Australia agree that “It’s a woman’s obligation to have sex with her boyfriend or husband even if she doesn’t feel like it.”
Report: https://www.ipsos.com/en-au/one-five-australians-thinks-women-who-say-t…
#NotAllMen? “Good men care about oppression. They care about the lived experiences of women. They understand that, without listening to women, they cannot learn what women experience. They believe women." 1/4
https://www.zawn.net/blog/hello-youve-reached-the-not-all-men-hotline
"When women share their experiences and your responses is, "But not all men!" you undermine those experiences. You show no concern for oppression. You are not behaving as a good guy." 2/4
“If you think a woman hates men because she hates rapists/abusers/assholes, then you think that all men are rapists/abusers/assholes, and the real person who hates men is you." 3/4
"To claim that a woman hates men because she hates some things some men do is a failure of reading comprehension." 4/4
For more critiques of #NotAllMen, see https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-violence-prevention-key-resou…
Ending Domestic Violence Requires Working With Those Who Harm, Too. Account of the Healing Together Campaign by the Alliance for Boys and Men of Color, USA (launched in Oct. 2019). Including, promoting community healing through accountability. https://www.yesmagazine.org/social-justice/2019/10/30/men-domestic-viol…
The music industry: It’s time for men / people with power in the music industry to step up! Great primer on what men and others in music can do to prevent and reduce sexual violence and harassment. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1ZkPjL-WoabYD8-JZrjo3ybwfwJj_Ft_J8KE…
‘Not all men’ is an astonishingly selfish reaction to women’s pain
Dec. 14 2018. https://www.newshub.co.nz/home/new-zealand/2018/12/opinion-not-all-men-is-an-astonishingly-selfish-reaction-to-women-s-pain.html 1/3
“You’ve decided how you feel is more important than how women live their lives. You’ve decided your desire to feel like a good person trumps your desire to hear what men do to women - and what men can do to stop it.” 2/3
For other responses to #NotAllMen, see the XY collection here: https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-violence-prevention-key-resources#NotAllMen 3/3
How to reduce backlash and build support in engaging men in violence prevention and gender equality work:
This toolkit provides practical strategies for violence prevention practitioners, advocates, and educators.
See https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-reducing-resistance-and-building-support @easternhealthau
Pornography: One in every eight titles on the front pages of the UK’s most popular porn websites described sexual acts that fit the World Health Organization’s definition of sexual violence. Violating their own terms and conditions. https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/porn-website-tcs_uk_5d132febe4b09125ca466358
Why is pornography so prevalent? Why are themes of domination and subordination so common in pornography? And why do so many people defend or celebrate it, even in progressive and feminist circles? By Professor Robert Jensen. https://merionwest.com/2021/06/24/why-porn-why-this-porn-why-so-little-… @merionwest
Pornography, young people and preventing violence against women. Background paper by the national violence prevention organisation @OurWatchAus, 2020. https://www.ourwatch.org.au/resource/pornography-young-people-and-preventing-violence-against-women-background-paper-2020/
Cool your heels
Cool your heels: Victoria Smith on men in suits wearing pink heels in the name of ending violence against women. And how women are expected to be grateful when men "lower themselves" by temporarily associating themselves with femininity.
https://thecritic.co.uk/Cool-your-heels/
@glosswitch
Working with Men and Boys for Social Justice Assessment Tool: This issues paper describes this tool for assessing and guiding work with men and boys to support #gender and #socialjustice.
Free here: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5d48cb4d61091100011eded9/t/6445e… @CRISconsortium
[Plus graphic, Keddie, The Working With Men and Boys for Social Justice Assessment Tool Issues paper 2023 – Cover]
Preventing sexual violence: Initiatives should include a focus on changing behaviour, particularly violence perpetration, and the social and sexual relations and institutional and cultural conditions that perpetuate violence.
Review of best practice: https://xyonline.net/content/best-practice-prevention-sexual-violence-a…
Preventing sexual violence: There should be greater use of more intensive and comprehensive ‘prevention packages’ that incorporate multiple approaches. Whole-of-institution approaches. And more use of community-level strategies.
Review of best practice: https://xyonline.net/content/best-practice-prevention-sexual-violence-a…
The Futures of Feminism: Bryson’s book makes the case for an inclusive socialist feminism. Demystifies terms like patriarchy and intersectionality. Argues that most women's needs will not be met in an economy based on the pursuit of profit.
In full text: https://xyonline.net/books/bibliography/4-introductory-and-general-writ…
Post-separation abuse and the devastation it causes
When coercive controllers continue to abuse long after the victim-survivor has separated from them
By Dr Emma Katz
https://dremmakatz.substack.com/p/post-separation-abuse-and-the-devasta… @DrEmmaKatz
For Centuries, Boys Used To 'Dress Like A Girl.' Here's When Everything Changed.
Many parents have a strong reaction against gender-neutral clothes, but American kids dressed like "sexless cherubs" before capitalism and more rigid gender norms took over.
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-history-of-gender-neutral-clothing_l…
Evidence Digest: Why partnering with local women's organizations for gender-based violence programming is crucial.
Here is the evidence of the value of partnering with local women's organizations for gender-based violence programming in humanitarian settings.
https://www.sddirect.org.uk/sites/default/files/2023-04/GBV%20AoR%20HD%…
This new “Don't Be That Guy” PSA hopes to help men understand why saying things like "hey, baby" to people they don’t even know can make them feel uncomfortable or even threatened.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffomohgd68g&t=59s @WithoutViolence
Achieving Gender Equity Depends on Boys, And How We Raise Them
This op-ed unpacks the latest research findings on the need to include boys and men in dismantling inequitable gender and social norms to build an equitable world for everyone.
https://msmagazine.com/2022/03/07/gender-equity-raise-feminist-boys/ @MsMagazine
Men’s willingness to use novel male contraception is lined to gender-equitable attitudes: Results from an exploratory online survey
Men with supportive attitudes towards gender equality are more willing to use a novel male contraceptive.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36924819/
When men lose their Diamond Dogs it can have a dramatic impact on their health
This op-ed discusses the evolving male support groups boys and men need throughout their lifetime for emotional intimacy and social support to combat negative health outcomes.
https://medium.com/@dominickshattuck/when-men-lose-their-diamond-dogs-it-can-have-a-dramatic-impact-on-their-health-662a97503b4c
Educational Underachievement Among Boys and Men
This report underscores educational underachievement among boys and men, unpacks the contributing factors, and explores what has been done to address this phenomenon around the world.
https://openknowledge.worldbank.org/server/api/core/bitstreams/491fdd77-2799-5961-a1c5-96a0d6d6b00f/content
Like father, like son: new Australian research shows how young men ‘copy’ their fathers’ masculinity.
Sons whose fathers support more traditional forms of masculinity are more likely to do so themselves. Fathers can foster healthier masculinities...
https://theconversation.com/like-father-like-son-new-research-shows-how…
Trans people aren’t new, and neither is their oppression: a history of gender crossing in 19th-century Australia
https://theconversation.com/trans-people-arent-new-and-neither-is-their-oppression-a-history-of-gender-crossing-in-19th-century-australia-201663
What exactly is – and isn't – sexual consent?
SBS explainer piece on consent: https://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/what-exactly-is-and-isnt-sexual-consent/xlfrhq2gp
Also see my piece giving notes on fostering affirmative consent: https://xyonline.net/content/consent-notes-fostering-affirmative-consent-and-challenging-sexual-violence
Pornography and sexual choking / strangulation: US research among university students finds that consuming pornography more frequently leads to more exposure to pornographic depictions of sexual choking, which leads to a higher likelihood of choking sexual partners. [Plus graphic, Wright, Pornography consumption and sexual choking 2021 – Abstract]
Asking For It is urgent, difficult viewing on Australia’s consent crisis
Rape, deepfake porn and misogyny in schools: Jess Hill’s new SBS documentary examines how Australians’ attitudes towards sex and consent are being shaped
https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2023/apr/20/asking-for-it-is-u…
The Danger of Incels—and How We Shift the Thinking of Men Attracted to These Groups
By Chuka Emezue, Ms Magazine
https://msmagazine.com/2023/04/09/incel-violence-women-misogyny-white-s…
Girls and women should not be the collateral damage for someone else’s right to a second chance
A rapist gets a 270-hour community service order for raping a 13-year-old girl. A rapist's future prospects are held more dear than a teen's broken childhood.
https://www.holyrood.com/editors-column/view,girls-and-women-should-not…
What happened to the Senate inquiry into missing and murdered Indigenous women?
https://theconversation.com/what-happened-to-the-senate-inquiry-into-mi…
People in NSW may soon be allowed to check if their partner has a history of violent assaults as part of The Right To Know scheme, but the move is more complicated than it seems.
https://www.pedestrian.tv/news/right-to-know-scheme/
Ineffective policies for gender-based violence in sports result in a lack of accountability
https://www.brookings.edu/blog/how-we-rise/2023/04/04/ineffective-policies-for-gender-based-violence-in-sports-result-in-lack-of-accountability/
Pride, Respect, Equality: Campaign by Respect Victoria, highlighting the important role that families can play in supporting and celebrating LGBTIQ+ loved ones.
https://www.respectvictoria.vic.gov.au/campaigns/pride-respect-equality
@Respect__Vic
What is Primary Prevention?: This resource aims to promote understanding of work across the continuum from prevention to response, as well as provide practical suggestions to improve connection. By Safe and Equal (Victoria).
https://safeandequal.org.au/resources/what-is-primary-prevention/
@safe_and_equal
Get Off Your Damn Phone
A call for a universal social norm of actually socializing.
By Jill Filipovic @JillFilipovic
https://jill.substack.com/p/get-off-your-damn-phone
Body dysmorphia in boys and men can fuel muscle obsession, doctors say
The Washington Post, April 2024
https://www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/2023/04/14/male-body-dysmorphia…
Social media misogyny: The new way Andrew Tate brought us the same old hate
By Luc Cousineau
https://theconversation.com/social-media-misogyny-the-new-way-andrew-ta… #AndrewTate #Manosphere
Australian study finds risk of sexual assault and violence significantly higher for trans women of colour
ABC News report: https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-06-26/study-finds-high-sexual-assault-rates-for-trans-women-of-colour/12395226
@ANROWS full reports: https://www.anrows.org.au/project/crossing-the-line-lived-experience-of…
Intimate partner violence in transgender relationships: Useful overview by Aaron Sylvian, Queensland Centre for Domestic and Family Violence Research newsletter, 2022: https://noviolence.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/Aaron-Sylvian-1.pdf
Porn and the ‘manosphere’: SBS series is tough to watch, but it’s must-see TV
On the new documentary "Asking For it", by Jess Hill
https://www.theage.com.au/culture/tv-and-radio/jess-hill-wants-her-seri…
MGTOW: Despite the official narrative of MGTOW as a separatist community of men “going their own way,” #MGTOW’s central goal is in fact the fight against gender equality. MGTOW communities promote violence against women and feminism. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/14680777.2022.2137829
Challenging Stereotypes: Afghanistan’s Male Advocates for Gender Equality
There are many male allies in Afghanistan who work alongside women activists for gender equality in the country, often facing threats and danger.
https://www.wilpf.org/challenging-stereotypes-afghanistans-male-advocat… @Peace_Women
Masculinity is structured in powerful ways by homophobia, fear and hostility towards gay men and other non-heterosexual people. Homophobia keeps men in line – it’s “the dragon at the gates of an alternative masculinity”. A talk, dated (1997), but useful. http://goo.gl/B9ovJb
The social science explaining why Fox News wants you to believe masculinity is under threat (Things aimed at helping men and promoting healthy masculinity -- such as the APA guidelines or the Gillette ad -- are twisted into attacks on male identity.) https://www.mediamatters.org/tucker-carlson/social-science-explaining-w…
Men and disaster: Men’s experiences of the Black Saturday bushfires and the aftermath. (Based on interviews with men, this report explores the harmful effects that social expectations of masculinity can have on coping mechanisms and decision-making.) https://knowledge.aidr.org.au/resources/ajem-jul-2016-men-and-disaster-mens-experiences-of-the-black-saturday-bushfires-and-the-aftermath/
From a father to the young men dating his daughter: “If You Ever Hurt My Daughter, I Swear to God I’ll Let Her Navigate Her Own Emotional Growth.” (Humour) https://www.newyorker.com/humor/daily-shouts/if-you-ever-hurt-my-daughter-i-swear-to-god-ill-let-her-navigate-her-own-emotional-growth?verso=true [Plus graphic, Kohn, If You Ever Hurt My Daughter, I Swear to God I’ll Let Her 2018 Jaxsen]
Men and HIV: how poverty, violence and inequality play a part. (As Andrew Gibbs argues, men’s lives are shaped by both privilege and disadvantage, and addressing both is vital in tackling pandemics such as HIV, or indeed COVID-19.) Jan. 2019 https://theconversation.com/men-and-hiv-how-poverty-violence-and-inequality-play-a-part-120613? via @TCAfrica
Men, boys, and masculinity: There is actually enormous diversity among men and boys in how they ‘do’ gender, their attitudes and behaviours. Let’s open up models of manhood, affirm diversity, and promote gender multiculturalism. See https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-06/Flood%2C%20Men%20and%20the%20Man%20Box%20-%20report%20excerpt_0.pdf, p. 52. [Plus graphic, The Men’s Project and Flood, The Man Box - Full report 2018 p. 52 volume]
Work to address violence against women fits into 3 broad approaches that exist along a continuum: primary prevention, secondary prevention (early intervention) and tertiary prevention (response). Here is a handy 1-page explanation: https://safeandequal.org.au/resources/primary-prevention-early-interven… @safe_and_equal
Use proper names for body parts, don’t force hugs: how to protect your kids from in-person sexual abuse. By Divna Haslam, Ben Mathews, and Kerryann Walsh. https://theconversation.com/use-proper-names-for-body-parts-dont-force-hugs-how-to-protect-your-kids-from-in-person-sexual-abuse-139970 via @ConversationEDU
Addressing resistance to domestic and family violence responses in CALD communities: New publication from the @ANROWS Culturally and Linguistically Diverse Projects initiative. E.g., on resistance from communities, and service providers, and what to do. https://d2rn9gno7zhxqg.cloudfront.net/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/210934…
What Works to Prevent Violence Against Women and Girls Global Programme. World-leading program of review and impact evaluation. Now an extraordinary collection of evidence reviews, reports, toolkits, videos, and curricula, here: https://www.whatworks.co.za/. My fave: the Evidence Hub [Plus graphic, What works to prevent violence – Logo]
Engaging bystanders in sexual violence prevention: Tabachnik’s guide (2009). “Bystanders represent a web of people surrounding a progression of inappropriate behaviors, harassment or violence, including those who make a choice to speak up or intervene...” https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2018-11/Tabachnick%2C%20Engaging%20Bystanders%20in%20Sexual%20Violence%20Prevention%202008.pdf [Plus graphic, Tabachnick, Engaging Bystanders in Sexual Violence Prevention 2008 – Cover]
The Woman Paradox: Misogyny and Women In the Far-Right
By Anet McClintock, 2022
The threat of right-wing extremism is accelerating, and understanding the gendered element of the threat is essential to countering radicalisation.
https://www.internationalaffairs.org.au/australianoutlook/the-woman-par…
The Duluth Power and Control Wheel — the Model for Domestic Violence Intervention and Prevention
And why men’s rights activists want it abolished.
By Matilda Fairholm, The Good Men Project
https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/the-duluth-power-and-contro…
Self-perceptions as masculine: US survey finds that older men are more likely than young men to say they are very manly or masculine. Republican men are far more likely than Democratic men to identify as traditionally masculine.
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/ @pewresearch
Being viewed as masculine is generally more important among Americans with conservative views. Most conservative men (55%) say it is at least somewhat important that they are viewed as masculine, compared to only 30% of liberal men. https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/ @pewresearch
44% of Americans agree that White men are too often blamed for problems in American society today. Most Americans (55%) reject this statement. Support is higher among White than Black or Hispanic people.
75% of Republican men believe White men are .., vs 26% of Democratic men. [Plus graphic, Cox, Politics, Sex, and Sexuality - The Growing Gender Divide in American Life April 2022 - White men blamed]
45% of Americans believe American society has become “too soft and feminine”. 54% reject this idea. More men than women (52% vs 40%). Sharp partisan differences in views. 78% of Republican men and 65% of Republican women, vs 25% of Democratic men and 20% of Democratic women.
The Alpha Wolf Idea is a Myth
The idea that wolf packs are led by a merciless dictator, or alpha wolf, comes from old studies of captive wolves. In the wild, wolf packs are simply families.
Scientific American, 2023: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/is-the-alpha-wolf-idea-a-myt… @sciam
Engaging men in violence prevention in the Pacific
This new collection describes initiatives in the Asia Pacific, principles for engaging men and boys in ending violence against women and girls, and relevant scholarship. See:
https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-violence-prevention-pacific @unwomenpacific @CommsFWCC
Bring up respect: Lovely video ad for raising our sons to be non-violent, emotionally expressive, gender-equitable boys and young men.
https://www.facebook.com/FamiliesInAustralia/videos/3296458480607285/ @OurWatchAus
For more on raising boys, see this XY collection: https://xyonline.net/content/raising-feminist-sons-xy-collection
Why arts degrees and other generalist programs are the future of Australian higher education
By Professor Catharine Coleborne
https://theconversation.com/why-arts-degrees-and-other-generalist-progr… via @ConversationEDU
Violence Against Women and Girls: Snapshot Report 2022-23.
This UK report, by the End Violence Against Women Coalition, sets out the state of violence against women and girls (VAWG) in the UK as of January 2023.
https://www.endviolenceagainstwomen.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/S…
Men and women in the US: A whole series of fascinating comparisons in this 2022 survey. Young men play video games far more than young women. Men are far less likely than women to read a book for pleasure. Men are far more likely than women to watch porn.
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/
Transforming Masculinities: Towards a Shared Vision: Exploring international and cross-regional perspectives on engaging men and boys in gender equality and women’s rights. Valuable report by MenEngage (2019). http://menengage.org/resources/transforming-masculinities-towards-a-collective-vision/ [Plus graphic, MenEngage, Transforming Masculinities - Towards a shared vision 2019 – Cover]
Changing Congo Men’s Attitudes on Gender Begins at Home. “I couldn’t accept my share of my father’s will if my sisters were to receive nothing,” Bahati Leomard says. He convinced his father and brothers to share the inheritance with his sisters. (2017) https://voicemalemagazine.org/changing-congo-mens-attitudes-on-gender-begins-at-home/
Engaging men to support women in science, medicine, and global health. Requires working with male researchers and leaders to critically consider masculinities, change men’s gender power and privilege, shift unequal power relations, and act as advocates. https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(19)3003…
Profeminist men seek to divest themselves and other men of unfair privileges. Common traps in ally politics: selves as different from other men, making only rhetorical change, taking up undue space, using feminism as an alibi for sexism. Chapter, pp192-93: https://xyonline.net/content/mens-experiences-agents-feminist-change
Feminist Left: a group of radical / gender-critical and leftwing feminists campaigning on women’s issues. 2 interesting articles on Kellie-Jay Keen’s tour of Australia.
One criticising KJK’s right-wing links: https://feministleft.wordpress.com/2023/03/06/are-you-thinking-of-going…
Another on the fallout: https://feministleft.wordpress.com/2023/04/12/who-won-who-lost-the-fall…
'Parents have never had this education.' There’s a reason talking about sex with kids seems hard – but it doesn't have to be
Conversations about sex can be hard but providing good information leads to better health outcomes for kids. Here's how to start:
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-04-14/sex-educators-cory-silverberg-an…
Also see the resources for parents, on talking to children about sexuality, relationships, consent, and respect, towards the bottom of this page: https://xyonline.net/content/raising-feminist-sons-xy-collection
Evidence-led violence prevention: Principles and guidelines for practice (2020). This 8-pp policy brief presents lessons from the South African Violence Prevention Forum on how to design a multisectoral violence prevention intervention for communities. https://www.violence-prevention.org/pdf/pb139.pdf [Plus graphic, Violence Prevention Forum, Evidence-led violence prevention 2020 – Cover]
Trying to prevent domestic and sexual violence in a workplace, a sporting code, the military, or a university? Change is stymied by institutional inertia, systemic gender inequalities, institutional distinterest, staff resistance, and sexist and masculine cultures. 1/2 [Plus graphic, Flood, Making change in organisations – Challenges]
Preventing domestic and sexual violence in an institution? You need a whole-of-institution approach: comprehensive strategies, senior leadership, dedicated resources, effective education & training, reporting processes etc. See Chapter 9 of this free book: https://xyonline.net/content/new-book-engaging-men-and-boys-violence-prevention [Plus graphic, Flood, Key elements of whole-of-institution change]
Sexual consent: Efforts to promote consensual, equitable sexual relations must challenge powerful ideologies of gendered sexuality: of male sexual entitlement, uncontrollable male sexuality, female sexual passivity and subservience, and a double standard.
https://xyonline.net/content/consent-notes-fostering-affirmative-consen…
Workplaces and men’s violence against women: Workplaces themselves may contribute to the problem. 1) Workplace gender inequalities – including unfair divisions of labour and power and norms of male dominance – contribute to women’s economic and social disadvantage.
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So they can can intensify the wider gender inequalities in which violence against women flourishes.
2) The cultures of some workplaces involve violence-supportive social norms. Women in these institutions or in contact with their members face greater risks of victimisation.
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And the men in these workplaces are more likely than other men to tolerate and perpetrate violence.
3) Workforces can contribute to violence against women through ineffective or inappropriate responses to employees who are victims of violence or its perpetrators.
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Workplaces are a key setting for violence prevention. And men in workplaces have a vital role to play in prevention.
See the White Ribbon Australia report here: https://xyonline.net/content/genders-work-exploring-role-workplace-equa…
See further references on violence prevention in workplaces here: https://xyonline.net/books/bibliography/27-violence-and-responses-viole…
4/4 [Plus graphic, Holmes & Flood, Genders at work 2013 – Cover]
Fears for tears: Why men need the freedom to cry
For men and boys, the pressure to not show emotion in public is crushing, even in supposedly progressive circles – and it hurts everyone. Rachel Giese asks how we can make room for male vulnerability.
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/article-fears-for-tears-why-men…
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Sports are one place where the social prohibitions against men crying are relaxed. But men must cry in the ‘right’ way: eyes brimming, a single tear, but no sobbing or bawling.
These norms reflect an overarching anxiety about signs of weakness in men.
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How much people cry, why, and when are shaped by social norms.
Including for boys and men, the social expectations to be tough, rational, and remain calm under pressure.
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Among babies and toddlers, there are no sex differences in crying. But boys and girls learn differing expectations about crying, parents and peers respond differently to them, and their own responses shift in turn.
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“As long as emotion is equated with both femaleness and weakness, women and girls will be perceived as irrational and incapable, while men and boys will continue to repress their feelings of sadness and vulnerability.”
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/opinion/article-fears-for-tears-why-men…
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We Need To Talk About Toxic Gay Masculinity
Jeffry J. Iovannone criticises gay male culture’s “adulation of conventional masculinity and muscularity, the rejection of femininity as undesirable, and the sexual objectification of black and Latino men"
https://medium.com/the-establishment/we-need-to-talk-about-toxic-gay-ma…
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“Gay male toxicity contributes both to the oppression of queer men and to the pervasive culture of violence against women […] and anyone outside of the gender binary.”
“Gay culture, like the dominant culture, creates a hierarchy based on norms of masculinity.”
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“The implications of gay toxic masculinity extend beyond gay male culture and contribute to our general culture of misogyny in which women, femmes, genderqueer people, and others who don’t or can’t perform mainstream masculinity are consistently devalued and undermined"
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Stopping misogyny shouldn’t just be about Andrew Tate
Schools and parents must do more than respond to the influencer after the fact.
https://www.ft.com/content/3ccea7db-9692-41f9-b1c8-ea73d3d8e5ea
"Far from being a champion of boys, Tate exploits and denigrates them for his own financial gain. Learning that the only way to be a man is to own, control and exploit women is a recipe for a sad and lonely life, not one full of relationships and success."
As Long as We Associate Leadership with Masculinity, Women Will Be Overlooked
By Tomas Chamorro-Premuzic
So long as we associate leadership with masculine features, female leaders will be evaluated more negatively even when their performance is higher.
hbr.org/2019/03/as-long-as-we-associate-leadership-with-masculinity-women-will-be-overlooked
Why do many heterosexual men hide their porn use from their wives and girlfriends? Because they know many women dislike it. They know the aggression & sexism in porn is offensive to many women. The shame some men feel tells something important. https://www.feministcurrent.com/2018/05/28/men-hiding-porn-use-anyway/
Men: Are We Willing to Examine Pornography’s Impact? By Rus Funk (2019). Embedded within pornography are a host of values and norms that may well conflict with the values and norms of the men viewing pornography. https://voicemalemagazine.org/men-are-we-willing-to-examine-pornographys-impact/ @voicemalemag
Hate speech against women: addressing a democratic crisis. Policy Brief by Anjalee de Silva, Melbourne School of Government.
https://apo.org.au/node/314053
Sexism and covid: People with more sexist beliefs are less likely to be worried about covid, less likely to protect themselves and others, less likely to support policies that aim to stem the spread of the disease, and more likely to get sick themselves. https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/politics-and-gender/article/masculine-norms-and-infectious-disease-the-case-of-covid19/730D3884492AEF9F9CCD2AD8B5E429E8 [Plus graphics, Reny, x 2]
Sexism (a feminist definition): Sexism = prejudice + power. Sexism refers to attitudes and behaviours that perpetuate the gender inequalities that privilege men and disadvantage women and/or that reinforce narrow patriarchal roles for men and women. 1/3
Common definitions of sexism refer to ‘prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination based on a person’s sex or gender’. But this is a weak, non-feminist definition. Instead, sexism is directed towards women and girls and tied to systems of oppression that disadvantage them. 2/3
For more on sexism, and especially on everyday forms of sexism (comments, jokes, etc.) and what men can do to challenge them, see https://xyonline.net/content/challenging-everyday-sexism. For books on sexism and feminism, see https://xyonline.net/books/bibliography/4-introductory-and-general-writing-gender/introductions-and-overviews 3/3
What proportions of women, and men, identify as feminists? In the US, 61% of women and 40% of men (Pew, 2020). Across 27 countries, 57% of people (Ipsos, 2018). In Australia, 69% of women and 34% of men. Proportions are lower when no definition is given. https://xyonline.net/content/womens-and-mens-identification-feminists
Why Are Women Not “Heard” In A Court Of Law?
Founding attorney Patricia Fersch explores biases towards women in court. Read her #Forbes article here: https://forbes.com/sites/patriciafersch/2022/06/15/why-are-women-not-he… #DomesticAbuse #womenincourt #SocialMedia #misogyny #familylaw #divorcelawyer #divorcedwomen
The evidence to support medicalised gender transitions in adolescents is worryingly weak
The effectiveness and side-effects of the most common treatments are not well understood
The Economist, April 5, 2023
https://archive.md/IaCvu
Gender Bias In The Courts: Women Are Not Believed
The justice system systematically discounts women’s credibility. What can be done?
https://www.forbes.com/sites/patriciafersch/2023/04/05/gender-bias-in-t… @FerschLLC
No matter the content of her story, women are considered unreliable narrators of their own experiences. The assessment of women’s personal trustworthiness suffers from skepticism rooted in (1) uneducated expectations regarding a survivor’s “appropriate” demeanor;
(2) prejudicial stereotypes regarding the false motives of women seeking material assistance; and (3) the long-standing cultural tendency to disbelieve women simply because they are women.
Surveys of gender identity: Strange and implausible findings from the recent England and Wales census highlight problems with how questions about gender and gender identity are being asked in surveys.
https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/why-does-the-census-say-there-are-m…
The Anti-Abortion Movement Will Sacrifice Anything to Control Women
The shocking ruling outlawing Mifepristone shows just how far they're willing to go.
By Jill Filipovic @JillFilipovic
https://jill.substack.com/p/the-anti-abortion-movement-will-sacrifice
Gender equality: Men and boys have a vital role to play in ending violence and gender injustice. Let's shift from men's mere involvement, to men’s accountability for dismantling systems of male privilege.
UN paper, in 5 languages: https://www.ohchr.org/en/special-procedures/wg-women-and-girls/mens-acc… @UN @LizBroderick
Marcos Jr. and the Dangers of Virtual Hypermasculinity
On how gendered disinformation, in this case by Philippines President Ferdinand Marcos Jr., is a threat to national and global security.
By Maria Tanyag
https://fulcrum.sg/marcos-jr-and-the-dangers-of-virtual-hypermasculinity/
Self defence and violence prevention: Despite the numerous studies supporting the efficacy of women’s verbal and physical resistance against sexual assault, much of the literature on sexual assault prevention fails to include self defence.
Article: https://www.dropbox.com/s/h56fyxsbyr09kfm/Cermele%2C%20Self%E2%80%91Defense%20as%20an%20Effective%20and%20Neglected%20Form%20of%20Sexual%20Assault%20Prevention%202022.pdf?dl=0 [Plus graphic, Cermele, Self‑Defense as an Effective and Neglected Form of Sexual Assault Prevention 2022 abstract]
Violence prevention: Community-level approaches, intended to change characteristics of the community (structural, economic, political, cultural) are vital in reduce risks for violence perpetration and victimisation. CDC report on the future of prevention: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/sv/Continuing-The-Dialogue-5… [Plus graphic, Dills, Continuing the Dialogue 2019.pdf – Cover]
LGBTQ+ People’s Experiences and Perceptions of Sexual Violence Report
ACON report on LGBTQ+ people’s experiences and perceptions of sexual violence, here: https://sayitoutloud.org.au/learn-more/learn-more/research-and-resource… @ACONhealth
Grooming gangs: the rape and pimping of vulnerable girls by men that escaped justice, and the myth that fascists cracked the case By Julie Bindel
https://juliebindel.substack.com/p/grooming-gangs-the-rape-and-pimping
Talking To Teens about Andrew Tate: Guidance & Lesson Plans for Parents & Teachers Materials by Dr Brendan Kwiatkowski
https://remasculine.com/resources
Analysis: Why are men having more orgasms than women in heterosexual relationships?
(The reasons are social and cultural, not biological.)
https://brighterworld.mcmaster.ca/articles/analysis-why-are-men-having-…
Feminist rape resistance training empowers (rather than blaming) potential victims, contributes to primary prevention, and addresses the social and political causes of rape. Hollander’s review answers common misperceptions or criticisms, pp9-10, in full: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-06/Hollander%2C%20Wo… [Plus graphics, Hollander, Women’s self‐defense and sexual assault resistance - The state of the field 2018 – Abstract; Hollander, Women’s self‐defense and sexual assault resistance - The state of the field 2018 - That not prevention]
Be an active bystander. Interrupt acts of sexual harassment, sexism and sexual violence. Japanese PSA emphasises “Turning away creates a society in which it’s easy for sexual violence to happen”. The young man asks, “What would you do if you were me?”. https://savvytokyo.com/japanese-anti-sexual-violence-ad-activebystander-becomes-online-hit/
For more on bystander intervention, including tipsheets and guides, see the XY collection here: https://xyonline.net/content/bystander-intervention-xy-collection
Consent toolkit, for young people, parents, and educators, and others. The 101-pp guide contains 3 modules: consent, communication and confidence. Plus worksheets and resource list. By Rape & Sexual Assault Research & Advocacy (RASARA) @RapeReform. Free at https://rasaraorganisation.squarespace.com/consent-toolkit-home
‘No More Excuses’ – Primary Prevention of Violence Against Women with Disability
Building the evidence to prevent violence against women with disability.
https://www.respectvictoria.vic.gov.au/no-more-excuses-primary-preventi…
Mass shootings and masculinity: This expert report provides data on mass shootings and explores the social-psychological and cultural links between mass shootings and masculinity. By Tristan Bridges and Tara Leigh Tober
https://masscasualtycommission.ca/files/commissioned-reports/COMM0055671.pdf?t=1651007558
Also see this XY collection on gun, violence, and masculinity: https://xyonline.net/content/guns-violence-and-masculinity-xy-collection
Karen Whybro: "Why is TikTok platforming misogynistic influencers, but censoring women's rights activists?"
https://www.marieclaire.co.uk/reports/karen-whybro
Is biological sex a binary or a spectrum? If you’ve heard it’s a spectrum, here’s the counter-argument, by Colin Wright.
https://www.city-journal.org/understanding-the-sex-binary @SwipeWright
The Myth That Coercive and Controlling Domestic Abusers Can Be Adequate Parents
By Dr Emma Katz
https://dremmakatz.substack.com/p/the-myth-that-coercive-and-controlling @DrEmmaKatz
War on women: The link between white supremacy, "men's rights" and anti-abortion politics
Anthony DiMaggio's research finds a strong connection between white supremacy, support for "men's rights" and anti-abortion views
https://www.salon.com/2023/04/01/on-women-the-link-between-supremacy-mens-rights-and-anti-abortion/
'I started walking the long way': many young women first experience street harassment in their school uniforms
By Bianca Fileborn and Jess Hardley
https://theconversation.com/i-started-walking-the-long-way-many-young-w… via @ConversationEDU
#Men4Change toolkit: A new workshop resource for youth leaders, activists and other professionals who work with young men to reflect on issues relating to gender, masculinity and what it means to be a man
Download the toolkit here: https://datacat.liverpool.ac.uk/2185/1/%23Men4change%20toolkit.Final..pdf
[Plus graphic, O'Rourke, #Men4change - Tackling and transforming harmful gendered norms and behaviours 2023 – Cover]
For other curricula for working with men and boys in community settings, see the XY collection here: https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-preventing-mens-violence-against-women-and-or-building-gender-equality-practical-guides.
Stopping sexual violence: This CDC ‘technical package’ is a handy 48-page guide to prevention strategies, based on the best available evidence, for reducing sexual violence and its consequences (2016).
Available here: https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/SV-Prevention-Technical-Pack… [Plus graphic, Basile, STOP SV - A Technical Package to Prevent Sexual Violence 2016 – Cover]
He texted Holly that he’d done ‘the most heinous thing possible’. A jury disagreed
Sexual assault complaints have skyrocketed in recent years, but convictions remain low and the legal process is brutal for complainants. It’s time for an entire rethink.
https://www.smh.com.au/national/he-texted-holly-that-he-d-done-the-most…
Violence prevention: Programs often seek only to change knowledge or attitudes. They should also focus on changing behaviour, particularly perpetration, and the social and sexual relations and institutional and cultural conditions that perpetuate violence.
https://xyonline.net/content/best-practice-prevention-sexual-violence-a…
Violence against women, but woke
Anti-feminist aggression is exactly what it looks like
(Victoria Smith argues that recent acts of violence by males at Let Women Speak and lesbian events share commonalities with a long history of anti-women violence.)
https://thecritic.co.uk/Violence-against-women-but-woke/
“These men ... threaten [women] if they’re right wing. They threaten them if they’re left wing. They threaten them if they’re Mumsnet mummies. They threaten them if they’re lesbians.”
@glosswitch
What Do We Really Want From Chris Brown?
Since assaulting Rihanna in 2009, the singer has been accused of more than 20 acts of aggression, violence, or crime — and has remained incredibly popular. Many demand better. This is what that could look like.
https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-commentary/chris-brown-wha…
Guns recently became the number one cause of death for children and teens in the United States. In no other similarly large or wealthy country are firearm deaths in the top 4 causes of mortality let alone the number 1 cause of death among children & teens.
https://www.kff.org/global-health-policy/issue-brief/child-and-teen-fir…
Masculinity and men’s bodies: As the media ideal of women’s bodies has grown thinner and thinner, the media ideal of men’s bodies has grown bigger and bigger. Documentary “Tough Guise 2” examines American media’s glamorization of violent masculinity. https://shop.mediaed.org/tough-guise-2-p45.aspx [Plus graphic, Tough Guise 2 - Infographic men’s bodies]
Parenting and social change: Fathers with daughters are more in favour of gender equity policies than fathers with both daughters & sons, and fathers with sons are least supportive (Warner & Steel 1999). Fathers’ connections to daughters may undermine their support for patriarchy [Plus graphic, Warner, Child rearing as a mechanism 1999]
"Let’s be very clear: Strong men - men who are truly role models - don’t need to put down women to make themselves feel powerful. People who are truly strong lift others up. People who are truly powerful bring others together." Michelle Obama, 2016: https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2016/oct/14/michelle-obama-speech-transcript-donald-trump [Plus graphic, Obama, Let’s be very clear 2016]
You Can’t Unsee What It Looks Like When You Photoshop Men Out of Politics. (ElleUK shows what it looks like when you remove all the men from pictures of politicians and celebrities. It’s a stark glimpse at a world that is wildly out of balance.) 2017. https://www.boredpanda.com/no-men-politics-video-elle-uk-alex-holder-alyssa-boni/ [Plus graphics, You Can’t Unsee What It Looks Like When You Photoshop Men Out of Politics x 2]
Tweets in March 2023
Digital devices can become weapons in relationships Technology-facilitated abuse in relationships weaponises digital devices. To prevent it, we must engage with its perpetrators https://pursuit.unimelb.edu.au/articles/how-digital-devices-can-become-weapons-in-our-relationships @rfiolet @DrBridgetHarris @Kobotic @sallymarsden22 @cynthia_l_brown
#MeToo has changed how the media portrays rape
A Norwegian study finds that media reporting on sexual violence has improved, at least in some ways, in the wake of #MeToo
https://kjonnsforskning.no/en/2023/03/metoo-has-changed-how-media-portr…
#MRAs #Mensrights: Here is a collection of handy critiques, both academic and accessible, of anti-feminists groups and ideologies: http://www.xyonline.net/content/mens-rights-and-mras-mens-rights-activists-academic-critiques
Beating the backlash: Here are some key strategies in responding to men’s rights / #MRAs. Offer an alternative analysis of male disadvantage. Critique and discredit MRAs. Show they’re harmful for men themselves. See pp. 338-343 of my book, FREE here: https://xyonline.net/content/new-book-engaging-men-and-boys-violence-pr… [Plus graphic, Flood, Engaging Men and Boys in Violence Prevention 2018 p. 339]
#MRA / men’s rights strategies on domestic violence, health, and other issues in fact are harmful to men themselves. They’re driven by anti-feminist political agendas rather than a genuine concern for suffering men. See pp. 275-77 of http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Flood%2C%20Backlash%20-%20Angry%20men.pdf [Flood, Backlash - Angry men’s movements p. 276 Attacking services]
Who perpetrates domestic violence and who are their victims?
https://www.abc.net.au/everyday/who-perpetrates-domestic-violence/102034306
(Includes commentary from the State of Knowledge Report on Violence Perpetration: find it here: https://research.qut.edu.au/centre-for-justice/wp-content/uploads/sites…)
@ChayBrown1 @theEQI @DLulabele
Conversations with your kids about relationships, harassment, consent, and other issues related to dating violence: useful “Car Conversations Guide” for parents and caregivers, from Valor.Us
https://www.valor.us/2023/03/07/car-conversations-guide/
Also see the resources on raising boys, and parenting, in gender-equitable and anti-sexist ways, towards the bottom of this page on XY:
https://xyonline.net/content/raising-feminist-sons-xy-collection
Do you spank or smack your kids? What does the evidence tell us about physical punishment?
This resource outlines what physical punishment is, how common it is in Australia, and what current evidence says about physical punishment's effects on children.
https://aifs.gov.au/resources/short-articles/what-does-evidence-tell-us…
‘The reporting process was more traumatising than the assault itself’: LGBTQ+ survivors on accessing support after sexual violence
https://theconversation.com/the-reporting-process-was-more-traumatising… @ConversationEDU @ACONhealth @snappyalligator @Dr_AngelaDwyer
#sexualviolence #LGBTQ
Saving our boys: Teen boys are bombarded by toxic, misogynist messages online. How can they shut out the noise and become good men?
By Elissa Lawrence, QWeekend (Courier Mail), March 11-12 2023.
Original: https://couriermail.com.au/lifestyle/qweekend/aussie-men-battling-to-sa…
PDF download: https://www.dropbox.com/s/eu93v6au9z8ih6k/Lawrence%2C%20The%20battle%20…
@elissalawrencejourno @WhiteRibbonAust @GlennAzar_Coach @AndrewTateOff @DrJoshuaRoose #andrewtate
Women’s accounts of unwanted and nonconsensual anal sex with men show that:
-- Traditional norms of men’s sexual entitlement to women still persist, along with
-- Expectations of women to please a male partner even if that implies undesired, unpleasurable, and painful sex.
[Plus graphic, Faustino, "You feel like normal sex is not enough anymore" 2022 – Abstract]
Instead of saying, “Women slept their way to the top,”
We say, “Men withhold promotions until they receive sexual favours.”
Gender socialisation – children’s internalisation of gender norms and stereotypes through interpersonal and social processes – has impacts on their political interests and aspirations. With age, girls increasingly express lower levels of interest & ambition in politics than boys
[Plus graphic, Bos, This One’s for the Boys - How Gendered Political Socialization Limits Girls’ Political Ambition and Interest 2022 – Abstract]
As they internalise gender roles and gendered traits with age, girls are pulled toward “feminine” roles and move away from politics. While boys' interest in politics and political careers stays steady as they age, girls' interest drops.
https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/american-political-science-revi…
How world sport got into a mess over trans athletes – and how it can get out of it
Jon Pike notes, for example, that what matters about male advantage is not just its size but the *kind* of advantage it is: a category advantage, not a competition advantage
https://theconversation.com/how-world-sport-got-into-a-mess-over-trans-…
How 'misogyny influencers' cater to young men's anxieties
By Dr Emily Setty
https://theconversation.com/how-misogyny-influencers-cater-to-young-mens-anxieties-201498
‘TERF’ stands for ‘trans-exclusionary radical feminist’. But feminist criminologist Burt argues that the term should be avoided, as it is both inaccurate and derogatory. 'TERF' is a misnomer for both the TE and RF aspects. And 'TERF' is a slur.
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First, the measures the term ‘TERF’ criticises are not trans-exclusionary but *male*-exclusionary. They involve sex-separation as a proportionate means to a legitimate aim (safety, psychological well-being, fairness).
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Defining female-only provisions as anti-trans is deceptive, Burt argues. Providing female-only spaces need not involve any negativity whatsoever towards trans women (or males for that matter). Like having adult-only swim lessons is not 'anti-child'.
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Second, regarding radical feminism, ‘gender critical’ feminism is neither coterminous with nor a subclass of radical feminism, says Burt.
'TERF' "continues to be used not despite the fact it is derogating but because it is”. To signal a shared contempt
https://www.dropbox.com/s/586gb6a4nw0vpz2/Burt%2C%20Feminist%20Lesbians… 4/4
[Plus graphic, Burt, Feminist Lesbians as Anti-Trans Villains- A Comment on Worthen and Elaboration 2022 - on TERF]
MrBeast is an American YouTuber and philanthropist, with the 4th most popular channel on YouTube. Two interesting articles on the kind of philanthropy MrBeast practises and its pros and cons. @MrBeast
1) https://www.abc.net.au/religion/mrbeast-and-the-problem-of-philanthropy…
2) https://whyphilanthropymatters.com/article/good-for-ratings-mrbeast-phi…
Patriarchy: can be defined as “a system of social structures and practices in which men dominate, oppress and exploit women” (Walby, 1990: 20). Waldby’s influential account in ‘Theorizing Patriarchy’ (1990). Chapter 1 here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-04/Walby%2C%20Theorizing%20patriarchy%20%281990%29%20-%20Chap%201.pdf
Gender equality strategy for workplaces: WGEA’s strategy suite helps organisations to achieve workplace gender equality, including the ‘Gender Equality Strategy Guide’ and the ‘Gender Equality Diagnostic Tool’ (2019). Download both at https://www.wgea.gov.au/topics/gender-strategy @WGEAgency
The Practical Guide to Love, Sex, and Relationships – an excellent resource for young people and parents. From the Australian Research Centre in Sex, Health and Society, La Trobe University, exploring relationships, consent, equity and sexual health. https://www.lovesexrelationships.edu.au/
The Myth That Gets Men Out of Doing Chores. They’re just as good at recognizing messes as women — they just don’t feel the same pressure to clean them up. The Atlantic: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2021/01/boys-men-messy-chore… @leahruppanner
The evidence, from a whole stack of studies, is that having feminist beliefs and identities is *good* for women. Empowering. Feminist attitudes and identities are associated with greater personal agency, mental health, and better sex and relationships: https://xyonline.net/content/feminism-good-women-response-some-common-m…
If the ‘Man Box’ (rigid masculine norms) is unhealthy for men and boys and those around them, what’s the alternative? ‘Healthy masculinities’, based on gender equality, non-violence, respect, empathy, nurturance, etc. They must be ethical, gender-equitable, and inclusive.
In the first report on the Man Box survey (2018), I argued that whatever vision we have for men and boys, it must be a) feminist – based on equality, b) diverse and multiple, and c) non-essentialist. See p. 53 of https://jss.org.au https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-06/Flood%2C%20Men%20and%20the%20Man%20Box%20-%20report%20excerpt.pdf [Plus graphic, Flood, Men and the Man Box - report excerpt Vision]
Porn as sex education: a cultural influence we can no longer ignore | Maree Crabbe, 2016. (Not only does pornography commonly portray a particularly concentrated and toxic version of gender inequality, it suggests that it is sexy.) https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/aug/04/porn-as-sex-educa… @MareeCrabbe
“the more pornography is viewed, the more preference for and reliance on the pornographic sexual script users will exhibit during dyadic sexual encounters... In other words, pornography is... an easily accessible template for actual sexual behavior.” Sun: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2018-03/Sun%2C%20Pornogra… [Plus graphic, Sun, Pornography and the male sexual script 2014 – Abstract]
Engaging Fathers – Professionals’ Toolkit. A practical guide for support services working with dads and families. Aims to improve opportunities for dads to access support services, and support services’ approach to working with dads. https://supportforfathers.com.au/working-with-dads/professionals-toolkit/ @relaustvic
Working with Men in the Law Enforcement and Justice Sectors to Promote Women’s Access to Justice. This 2018 report by @AbaadMENA & @Oxfam describes work with men in the Middle East and North Africa in police, justice, etc. to build gender equality. http://www.abaadmena.org/documents/ebook.1528796781.pdf [Plus graphic, ABAAD, Working with men in the law enforcement – cover]
Engaging men in building gender equality: Different feminisms dominate in different streams of work with men. More radical feminism in the work on violence against women, more liberal feminism in the work on workplace gender equality, but little socialist https://xyonline.net/content/which-feminism-dilemmas-profeminist-mens-p…
For women’s economic empowerment we need more caring men. @MenCareGlobal. 1. Show children that care is everyone’s responsibility. 2. Teach fathers to challenge caregiving stereotypes and do the hands-on care. 4. Offer equal parental leave. Etc. https://men-care.org/2016/08/26/womens-economic-empowerment-need-caring…
XYonline is one of the biggest websites on men, masculinities, and gender in the world. I’m pleased to see it had 11K+ unique visitors last month. This pro-feminist site has wide-ranging content and is a rich resource for personal growth and social change. https://xyonline.net/
On XYonline, see here for a handy guide to its content on men’s roles in building gender equality: https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-guide-xys-con…. And see here for a handy guide to its content on men’s roles in ending violence against women: https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-violence-prevention-key-resou…. XY covers lots of other areas too.
Violence prevention and respectful relationships: Great library for practitioners and educators who work with young people and want to prevent violence against women and promote gender equality and respect, part of The Line. See https://www.theline.org.au/educators-and-practitioners/ @OurWatchAus
Community activism approaches to shift harmful gender attitudes, roles and social norms: What are the elements of effective approaches? This useful review, examining 5 interventions in the Global South, identifies key elements. See https://www.whatworks.co.za/resources/item/693-a-rigorous-global-evidence-review-of-interventions-to-prevent-violence-against-women-and-girls [Plus graphic, Kerr-Wilson, A rigorous global evidence review of interventions to prevent 2020 - Box 8 p30]
Pride in Prevention: A guide to primary prevention of family violence in LGBTIQ communities. Launched by Rainbow Victoria, 2020. Seeks to address evidence gaps, strengthen understanding of the drivers of violence, and build expertise. See https://rainbowhealthvic.org.au/news/launch-pride-in-prevention-evidenc… @RainbowHVic
Respectful relationships education in schools: What does good practice look like? This 40-pp. evidence paper from @OurWatchAus identifies 7 core elements. 1) Address drivers of gender-based violence. 2) Have a long term vision, approach and funding. Etc. https://www.ourwatch.org.au/resource/evidence-paper-respectful-relationships-education-in-schools/ [Plus graphic, Our Watch, Respectful relationships education in schools - Evidence paper 2021 TOC standards]
Calls for more open sex discussions to help combat intimate partner sexual violence
Advocates are urging people to have more conversations about sex – the good, the bad and the ugly – in a bid to help recognition of intimate partner sexual violence
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-03-25/partner-violence-sex-assault-int…
6 Steps Everyone Can Take To Become An Ally In White, Male-Dominated Workplaces
If fair treatment for all is something that’s important to you, here’s how you can help level an uneven playing field.
https://medium.com/starts-with-a-bang/6-steps-everyone-can-take-to-beco…
Step 0: You have to care.
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Step 1: Listen to women/people of color/ underrepresented minorities (URMs) when they discuss the problems they face.
Step 2: Resist the urge to compare your own experiences with theirs.
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Step 3: Recognize that “treating everyone the same” can magnify, not erase, pre-existing inequalities.
Step 4: When you learn about one way that URMs experience inequality, look at your own actions.
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Step 5: When you witness someone in the “in-group” saying something unacceptable about women/PoC/URMs, speak up.
Step 6: Don’t stop striving to improve your allyship.
https://medium.com/starts-with-a-bang/6-steps-everyone-can-take-to-beco…
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For plenty more on men’s positive roles in building workplace gender equality, including tipsheets, guides, and reports, see https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace
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How To Teach Young Boys To Be Feminists
I’m not raising my son to be a ‘man’. I’m raising my son to be a human being.
By Victoria Richards, 2019
https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/raising-good-men-15-ways-to-teac…
Also see this XY collection on raising gender-equitable, feminist sons: https://xyonline.net/content/raising-feminist-sons-xy-collection
Financial abuse: the weaponisation of child support in Australia
This report documents how the Australian Child Support Scheme is used and abused to jeopardise the financial safety of recipient parents and their children, largely by men against mothers.
https://apo.org.au/node/321973 [Plus graphic, Cook, Financial Abuse- The Weaponisation of Child Support in Australia 2023 – Cover]
Indictments and Incitements: Threats of Violence Surround Possible Prosecution of Trump
From the start of his political career, Trump has legitimized and encouraged violence by his supporters in the service of his ambitions.
By Jackson Katz
https://msmagazine.com/2023/03/22/trump-arrest-violence-men/ @MsMagazine
March 21 is known around the world as the International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination, a solemn reminder of a brutal massacre that took place on this day more than 60 years ago. In Australia, it's called "Harmony Day".
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-03-21/harmony-day-apartheid-south-afri…
Feminism’s dangerous new allies
The Left may have let women down, but be wary of false promises from the Right, writes Julie Bindel (October 2020)
https://unherd.com/2020/10/feminisms-dangerous-new-allies/ @bindelj
Very Young Adolescence 2.0: A curriculum to promote gender equality and sexual and reproductive health. A 12-week program aimed at students aged 11-14, developed by Promundo-US and the College of Medicine Malawi. Available in full at https://promundoglobal.org/resources/young-adolescence-2-0-curriculum-p… @equimundo_org
Discussing gender justice issues with young people. Tips, strategies, and resources, compiled by Maria Delaney, for the Association of Women Educators http://www.awe.asn.au/drupal/sites/default/files/Discussing%20gender%20justice%20issues%20with%20young%20people%20-%20guidelines%20and%20resources.pdf
Gender inequalities in care and pay in the EU: There is a direct link between the unequal division of unpaid care in households and gender inequalities in the labour market. New report by the European Institute for Gender Equality. https://eige.europa.eu/publications/gender-inequalities-care-and-pay-eu
Remembering the giants whose shoulders we stand on: the power of local women’s movements. By Fatima Saeed and Zainab Sulaiman, COFEM Blog. https://cofemsocialchange.org/remembering-the-giants-whose-shoulders-we… via @COFEM_EVAW
The Racial Dynamics Between American Women Are Flipped in a Disorienting Photo Series. https://getpocket.com/explore/item/the-racial-dynamics-between-american… via @Pocket
The pleasure gap: How a new program is revolutionizing sexual health education for young women. (In a bid to shield high school-age women from poor, coercive relationships, a new mode of teaching in Canada prioritizes safety, assertiveness – and desire.)
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/canada/article-the-pleasure-gap-how-a-n…
What’s destroying democracy around the world? At least in part, misogyny and sexism
The worldwide rise of authoritarianism is a direct result of men’s profound unwillingness to share power with women. By Amanda Marcotte, Sept. 2019. https://www.salon.com/2019/09/10/whats-destroying-democracy-around-the-world-at-least-in-part-misogyny-and-sexism/
Gender Toolbox: Sida’s Gender Toolbox provides knowledge, tools and inspiration on how to operationalize gender equality in development work and other fields. Includes Tools, Briefs and Thematic Overviews. See https://www.sida.se/en/for-partners/methods-materials/gender-toolbox @Sida
Women Don’t Owe You Pretty – This new book by Florence Given looks like a great book for women looking to challenge patriarchy in their own lives. Feisty, readable, and punchy. Give it to your friends. I did. https://www.bookdepository.com/Women-Don-t-Owe-You-Pretty/9781788402118 [Plus graphic, Given, Women don’t owe you pretty - Bought a copy]
Capital is Intersectional; Radicalizing Piketty’s Inequality. Zillah Eisenstein offers a feminist intersectional critique of Thomas Piketty’s Capital in the Twenty-First Century (2014). https://thefeministwire.com/2014/05/alert-capital-intersectional-radicalizing-pikettys-inequality/
Women often are aware of themselves as existing under the judgement of a male-dominated society. Women learn to live in a world where sexism is commonplace. And saying no to men’s unwanted advances can be threatening or dangerous. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2019/jul/17/women-fear-say-no…
The Futures of Feminism: This new book by Professor Valerie Bryson makes the case for an inclusive form of socialist feminism that puts women with multiple disadvantages at its heart. Chapters on sexism, patriarchy, intersectionality, trans, capitalism etc https://manchesteruniversitypress.co.uk/9781526138514/
What terms should we use to describe oppressions and inequalities? Feminist Deborah Cameron examines the widespread shift from ‘isms’ to ‘phobias’. https://www.troubleandstrife.org/new-articles/minding-our-language/#.YT… 1/2
We need a language that "does not reduce every form of oppression to a single cause or mechanism. We need a political language that does not mystify the workings of power and inequality, or pathologize prejudice, or obscure whose interests a given form of oppression serves." 2/2
Boys and young men coercing girls and young women into sex: "We need to move beyond thinking “what if this was our daughter?” and start considering “what if this was our son?” Parents must talk to their sons about consent - earlier, and more explicitly. https://www.smh.com.au/national/nsw/parents-must-talk-to-their-sons-abo…
Also see this XY collection on raising gender-equitable sons: https://xyonline.net/content/raising-feminist-sons-xy-collection
Men, if you want to help stop violence against women, start with *yourself*. Put your own house in order. Take responsibility for violent behaviour and attitudes and build respectful relations with the women and girls in your life. See pp. 11-13 of http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Flood%2C%20Men%20Speak%20U… 1/2
But as well as doing the personal work, contribute to wider social change. Talk to other men, challenging sexism and building gender-just norms. Give your time, energy, and money to women’s rights and prevention networks. Work in partnership with women. https://xyonline.net/content/mobilising-men-build-gender-justice-strate…
Engaging Men and Boys in the Primary Prevention of Sexual Violence: This new book chapter explores sexual violence prevention work with men and boys. It identifies key principles and explores key debates and tensions. Free in PDF at https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-and-boys-primary-prevention-sexual-violence-book-chapter @the_daily_panda
Sex: Women are still expected to prioritise their male partners’ sexual desires over their own. Women now have the “sexual freedom” to go along with porn-inspired acts – strangulation, slapping, aggression – that are unwanted if not harmful and dangerous. https://unherd.com/2020/04/what-sort-of-sex-do-women-really-want/?=refi…
Coercive control: a repeated pattern of control and domination in a domestic relationship, used to maintain dominance over a partner, to restrict their freedom and autonomy. Dr Marilyn McMahon’s useful primer, SBS news, here: https://www.sbs.com.au/topics/voices/relationships/article/2021/03/31/what-coercive-control
‘Women are routinely discredited’: How courts fail mothers and children who have survived abuse. Burdened by the high cost of legal help and penalized by courts that favor fathers, women risk losing children to abusive partners. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/aug/14/courts-fail-mothers-children-abuse
What is ‘DARVO’ and how is it used against survivors of violence? (DARVO stands for ‘Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender.’ Perpetrators often use DARVO to shame victims into believing they are responsible for the abuse.) https://www.sbs.com.au/topics/voices/relationships/article/2021/04/13/what-darvo-and-how-it-used-against-survivors-violence
Addressing men's harassment of women at music festivals: These mock festival posters replace lineup with copy highlighting harassment, and invite men to call out sexism, abuse or assault when they see it. https://www.thedrum.com/news/2021/08/27/ad-the-day-mock-festival-poster… via @thedrum
How do rigid and patriarchal gender roles and constructions of masculinity and femininity feed into men’s violence against women? Our Watch’s world-leading ‘Change the Story’ framework spells it out, pp. 41-42. See https://www.ourwatch.org.au/change-the-story/ @OurWatchAus
No public outrage, no vigils: Australia’s silence at violence against Indigenous women. By Browyn Carlson, April 16 2021.
https://theconversation.com/no-public-outrage-no-vigils-australias-sile… via @ConversationEDU
Violence against men is a serious problem. And it is overwhelmingly *by other men*. E.g. in a 4-year study of admissions to the Emergency Department of a US hospital, 8,000+ men had been assaulted and injured. 1/2
Of these 8,217 men, only 45 men had been injured by their female partners or ex-partners, representing only 0.55% of male assault visits (Muelleman & Burgess 1998). And, these men themselves also had a high rate of domestic violence *perpetration*. 2/2
Women’s experiences of men’s abuse: For powerful first-person accounts of the realities of women’s experiences of domestic and sexual violence, I recommend the Insight Exchange ‘Voices of Insight’. Commissioned with dignity, safety and respect. See: https://www.insightexchange.net/voices-of-insight/
Perpetrators are *made*, not born. When a man assaults a woman, this is the predictable result of lessons about manhood as he grew up, the sexist cultures in which he participates, and the gender inequalities woven into his everyday life.
https://research.qut.edu.au/centre-for-justice/wp-content/uploads/sites… @DLulabele
Evidence shows children who are smacked are more likely to be involved in partner violence in adulthood. https://theconversation.com/evidence-shows-children-who-are-smacked-are… via @ConversationEDU
Women are harmed every day by invisible men | Rebecca Solnit. (When men harm women, we obscure their role. Instead, we blame women for the injustice that happens to them.) March 2021. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2021/mar/19/women-harmed-ever…
Sexual violence by an intimate partner: Excellent collection of analyses and reports. What it means to be assaulted by a partner. What drives it. Intimate partner sexual violence in the courts. And more. See https://pursuit.unimelb.edu.au/special_reports/3331#/find-out-more
Engaging men in the Pacific in ending violence against women: Shamima Ali, Fiji Women’s Crisis Centre, describes the pioneering Male Advocacy Program (2017). Recruits, trains, and mobilises men as advocates for violence prevention. See pp. 8-9 of http://www.fijiwomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/beneath-paradise-2… [Plus graphic, Pacific Women’s Network Against VAW, Beneath Paradise July 2014 Clipping]
‘Working with Men as Parents: Becoming Father-Inclusive to Improve Child Welfare Outcomes in Domestic Violence Cases’. This is one of the pieces by David Mandel and colleagues at the Safe & Together Institute, available here: https://safeandtogetherinstitute.com/evidence-resources/articles-chapters-david-mandel/ @SafeandTogether
Women don’t feel safe in public spaces — and it’s up to men to do something about it (ABC Life, 2019).
On what men can do (and avoid) to help women feel safer in public spaces.
https://www.abc.net.au/life/how-men-can-help-women-feel-safer-in-public-spaces/11365306
Reflecting on male engagement in anti-violence work: Maddie Brockbank writes of the challenges of moving men from ambivalence to accountability. Pro-feminist website XY, here: https://xyonline.net/content/beyond-ambivalence-reflecting-male-engagement-ant-violence-work @maddiebrockbank
Men preventing men’s violence against women: What we know, what we’ve done, and what to do next. Time for a fresh approach. Men have to make it personal. Scale it up. Focus on ending gender inequalities. Be intersectional. And mobilise men. Speech, 2014. https://xyonline.net/content/men-preventing-mens-violence-against-women…
Men taking action to end sexual harassment: there are at least six barriers to men’s action.
Men: 1) Typically have lower levels of understanding and recognition of sexual harassment than women.
2) May feel that sexual harassment is a “women’s issue”.
https://xyonline.net/content/mens-positive-roles-ending-sexual-harassment-overcoming-barriers-and-taking-action 1/4
Men: 3) May respond with defensiveness and hostility to efforts addressing violence and sexual harassment.
4) Often overestimate other men’s comfort with harassment.
5) Fear others’ reactions to intervention.
6) May lack knowledge of or skills in intervention. 2/4
Each of these barriers to action can be overcome. Increase men’s knowledge of sexual harassment and empathy for victims. Show how harassment and violence are a ‘men’s issue’. Use positive, strengths-based messaging. Show that many other men also oppose sexual harassment. 3/4
Men have vital roles to play in preventing and reducing sexual harassment. First, start with ourselves and our own behaviour. Second, speak up and take action. Third, alongside women, help build safe and respectful workplaces and communities.
https://xyonline.net/content/mens-positive-roles-ending-sexual-harassme… 4/4
Engaging men in the Pacific in ending violence against women: Shamima Ali, Fiji Women’s Crisis Centre, describes the pioneering Male Advocacy Program (2017). Recruits, trains, and mobilises men as advocates for violence prevention. See pp. 8-9 of http://www.fijiwomen.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/beneath-paradise-2… [Plus graphic, Pacific Women’s Network Against VAW, Beneath Paradise July 2014 Clipping]
‘Working with Men as Parents: Becoming Father-Inclusive to Improve Child Welfare Outcomes in Domestic Violence Cases’. This is one of the pieces by David Mandel and colleagues at the Safe & Together Institute, available here: https://safeandtogetherinstitute.com/evidence-resources/articles-chapters-david-mandel/ @SafeandTogether
Women don’t feel safe in public spaces — and it’s up to men to do something about it (ABC Life, 2019).
On what men can do (and avoid) to help women feel safer in public spaces.
https://www.abc.net.au/life/how-men-can-help-women-feel-safer-in-public-spaces/11365306
Reflecting on male engagement in anti-violence work: Maddie Brockbank writes of the challenges of moving men from ambivalence to accountability. Pro-feminist website XY, here: https://xyonline.net/content/beyond-ambivalence-reflecting-male-engagement-ant-violence-work @maddiebrockbank
Men preventing men’s violence against women: What we know, what we’ve done, and what to do next. Time for a fresh approach. Men have to make it personal. Scale it up. Focus on ending gender inequalities. Be intersectional. And mobilise men. Speech, 2014. https://xyonline.net/content/men-preventing-mens-violence-against-women…
The monster myth: Tom Meagher on the myths about the men who assault and rape women, myths that allow us to ignore that most rapists are normal guys, guys we might work beside or socialise with, our neighbours or even members of our family.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2014-04-18/meagher-the-danger-of-the-monste…
Engaging male allies in supporting gender equality is essential and timely. To support this, we need measures of their involvement. Support for Gender Equality Among Men is a measure that assesses support for gender equality among men in the public and in the domestic sphere. 1/2
For other measures of attitudes towards masculinity or conformity to stereotypical masculine norms, see the collection I have put together here: https://xyonline.net/content/measures-assessment-violence-and-or-gender…. Plus other measures on gender, violence, etc. 2/2
Is ‘engaging men’ the game changer for gender equality? I was part of a public debate on this question. Although I have been cheerleading for engaging men for 30+ years, I was put on the “No” side. And I raised cautions about this work. 1/4
I argued that engaging men is hard work, as it involves engaging members of a dominant group in challenging their own dominance. And I noted that this work does not easily or quickly produce substantial change in patriarchal gender inequalities. 2/4
I also noted that engaging men sometimes is the same old patriarchal game: some efforts set the bar too low, appeal only to paternalism, or water down our feminist principles, and men get disproportionate praise and attention for our efforts. 3/4
But I concluded: Changing men *is* the true game-changer. If men can change, in large numbers and in substantial ways, yes, that will be a real change in the game.
See my speech, and more on the debate, here: https://xyonline.net/content/debate-engaging-men-game-changer-gender-equality 4/4
Community Activism Toolkit to Prevent Violence Against Children
This toolkit, from Raising Voices (Uganda), provides organizations and individual community activists with ideas and practical tools to mobilize communities for VAC prevention. https://raisingvoices.org/resources/community-activism-toolkit-to-preve…
Women politicians pay too high a personal cost for their leadership
https://theconversation.com/women-politicians-pay-too-high-a-personal-c… via @ConversationUK
International Women’s Day: The exclusion of Afghanistan’s women
Eighty percent of school-aged Afghan girls and young women – totalling 2.5 million people – continue to be out of school.
https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2023/3/8/international-womens-day-the-exclusion-of-afghanistans-women
Scientific conferences: Why meeting face-to-face still matters
In person meetings are still vital in creating and sustaining academic communities.
https://blogs.lse.ac.uk/impactofsocialsciences/2023/03/13/scientific-co…
Confronting Far-Right Masculinities - Implications for NGOs. A piece on how the far right uses masculinity in its narratives, and how non-government organisations can challenge the far right. http://turkishpolicy.com/article/985/confronting-far-right-masculinitie…
Improving heterosexual men’s sexual skills and communication: *Reading* about women’s bodies and sexual satisfaction makes a difference. Experimental study: young men who read from “Becoming Cliterate” showed improved sexual beliefs and communication compared to a control group. [Plus graphic, Warshowsky, Cliteracy for him - effectiveness of bibliotherapy – Abstract]
As Fathers, We Must Commit to Dismantling the Patriarchy. The power structure in place, the white patriarchy, has benefitted many fathers, but it is actually standing in the way of things being OK for our children. rewire.news/article/2019/06/14/as-fathers-we-must-commit-to-dismantling-the-patriarchy
“Men can be amazing carers. When they actively care for their children, they become more emotionally open and nurturing. They better role model gender equality at home by sharing the parenting load, [...] and supporting their partner.” https://www.broadagenda.com.au/2021/how-do-we-father-in-the-era-of-metoo/ @BroadAgenda5050
Consent is more than a hurdle you clear to Get The Sex. Friedman on what real consent requires… “the very things required for a deep moral sexual consent practice are the things forbidden by our dominant, toxic ideas about what it means to be a man”. https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/sex-consent-laws-yes-means-yes-jaclyn-friedman [Plus graphic, Friedman, Sex and consent – Summary]
Preventing sexual violence: Programs / interventions must be long and intensive enough to make change. 1-hour, 1-session efforts won’t change behaviour or have lasting effects. Degue’s “systematic review of primary prevention strategies” – full text here: https://xyonline.net/content/university-and-campus-based-prevention-sexual-and-domestic-violence-xy-collection [Plus graphic, DeGue, A systematic review of primary prevention strategies 2014 p. 357]
Men and boys have a vital role to play in preventing and reducing men’s violence against women and girls. Massive collection of resources here: readings, speeches, manuals, discussions of key debates, bibliographies, my book, etc. http://www.xyonline.net/content/violence-walking-tour-some-xy%E2%80%99s-content
One key reason many men don’t recognise our roles in preventing and reducing rape is that we fail to realise that most rapes are by men known to the victim, in a familiar location, without serious physical injury, and that rapes are common. Many men have a mistaken idea of rape. 1/6
Men often imagine some crazed guy, in a park, violently raping a passing woman. Men often don’t think of what’s far more common: A man pressuring his date into sex. A man expecting that his wife will have sex whenever he wants to. A man taking advantage of a drunk woman. Etc. 2/6
Men, and to a lesser extent women, often believe, mistakenly, that most rapes are by strangers, in a public place, & involving severe physical force, contributing to the neglect of the reality of sexual violence and to victim-blaming. Report, p. 54: http://ncas.anrows.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/NCAS-report-2018.p… 3/6 [Plus graphic, ANROWS, Australians’ attitudes to violence against women and gender equality NCAS Findings 2018 Real rape script]
This ‘real rape’ myth means that we underestimate the real rate of rape, make problematic distinctions between ‘deviant’ men and the ‘normal’ majority of men, and make women themselves responsible to prevent and/ or counter the threat of rape. 4/6
Incidents that do not fit the ‘classic’/’real’ rape scenario – most rapes - tend to be dismissed or denied. Harder for women to name their experiences as rape when these occur in private spaces, by normal men who they know and have a relationship with, & without extreme force 5/6
Men must learn about the realities of men’s sexual violence against women. It’s common, by ordinary men, and supported by widespread cultural norms about gender and sexuality. And men must, with women, work to foster cultures of consent and equality. http://xyonline.net/content/what-men-can-do-stop-sexism-and-male-violen… 6/6
Sexual assault and harassment in the beer industry: Here’s a valuable piece on the individual, workplace and societal scale change needed to tackle the issues of sexism, sexual assault and gender inequality, by The Crafty Pint. @Matt_B_Tyler @TheCraftyPint https://craftypint.com/news/2674/our-story
Young Australians’ attitudes to violence against women: There are areas for real concern. Some young men think control is a normal part of a relationship. Some endorse male dominance in relationships. Some have poor understandings of sexual consent. https://www.anrows.org.au/NCAS/2017/youth-report-findings/ 1/2
Among 16-24 year-olds, males have narrower definitions of violence and abuse and are less likely than females to recognise non-physical forms. They’re less aware that DV and SV are common. And they have poorer knowledge, e.g. less aware that SV is most often by someone known. 2/2
National Domestic and #FamilyViolence Bench Book: A rich resource for understanding domestic and family violence and legal responses to these. 2020 edition has 220 new resources, including section on victims as (alleged) perpetrators. See http://dfvbenchbook.aija.org.au @UQLaw
Victims’ and survivors’ experiences of domestic and family violence: It’s vital to understand these, as part of understanding DFV. The National Domestic and #FamilyViolence Bench Book provides summaries of victims’ stories, linking to info & research. See https://dfvbenchbook.aija.org.au/victim-experiences/
When men have close male friendships and male peer groups based on sexist and patriarchal norms and behaviours, they are more likely to perpetrate domestic and sexual violence. Our Watch’s influential ‘Change the Story’ framework spells it out, p. 28. See https://www.ourwatch.org.au/change-the-story/ [Plus graphic, Our Watch, Change the story - Male peer relations p.28]
Conservatives hate wokeness. Don’t trigger them by asking what it means The right’s use of "woke" is amorphous by design. It is to be a loaded catch-all for things they don’t like and a stand-in for slurs they can’t say in public. https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2023/mar/16/woke-definition-conserv…
What YouTube hustle gurus are really selling you YouTube and TikTok are plagued with 20-something “passive income” bros who want your attention — and your money. By Rebecca Jennings @rebexxxxa https://www.vox.com/culture/23640192/sebastian-ghiorghiu-youtube-hustle… via @voxdotcom
Data 'silos' giving inaccurate picture of domestic violence prevalence across Australia Better data is needed to set successful targets for the reduction of domestic violence. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-03-16/domestic-family-sexual-violence-…
A manly divorce Straight men rarely write about the end of their marriages. Our enduring ideas about gender explain this silence. https://aeon.co/essays/women-write-about-their-divorce-experience-why-d…
New data shows 1 in 3 women have experienced physical violence and sexual violence remains stubbornly persistent By Kate Fitz-Gibbon and Bridget Harris https://theconversation.com/new-data-shows-1-in-3-women-have-experience… via @ConversationEDU
In military academies, 1 in 5 female students and 1 in 23 male students said they experienced sexual assault
https://www.npr.org/2023/03/12/1162861309/military-academies-sexual-assault-survey
What is the manosphere and why is it a concern?
Introductory piece by Jessica Aiston, October 2021
https://www.internetmatters.org/hub/news-blogs/what-is-the-manosphere-and-why-is-it-a-concern/
Ending ‘Gender Wars’: Why Dismantling Patriarchy isn’t Anti-Male
Blog entry, Next Gen Men, Canada
https://www.nextgenmen.ca/blog/ending-gender-wars-dismantling-patriarch… @NextGenMen
Understanding and Preventing Incel Violence in Canada
Includes evidence-based recommendations to identify risk and respond to incel-related violence
Summary: https://moonshotteam.com/resource/understanding-and-preventing-incel-violence-in-canada/
Full report: https://moonshotteam.com/wp-content/uploads/Public-Report_Understanding-and-Preventing-Incel-Violence-in-Canada_Moonshot-2.pdf
[Plus graphic, Moonshot, Understanding and Preventing Incel Violence in Canada 2021 - Incels summary]
The “manosphere” is getting more toxic as angry men join the incels
Men from the less extreme end of the misogynistic spectrum are drifting toward groups that espouse violence against women, a new study suggests.
By Tanya Basu
February 7, 2020
https://www.technologyreview.com/2020/02/07/349052/the-manosphere-is-getting-more-toxic-as-angry-men-join-the-incels/
One-third of childhood sexual abuse is perpetrated by another child. Shannon Molloy tells his story – and urges us not to look away
https://theconversation.com/one-third-of-childhood-sexual-abuse-is-perp… via @ConversationEDU @HigginsDaryl
What can state and federal governments and community organisations do to build a movement of men and boys committed to violence prevention and gender equality? This Canadian report provides clear and actionable strategies. https://preventdomesticviolence.ca/building-a-movement-of-men-and-boys-… @wells_lana [plus graphic, Wells, Building a movement of men and boys committed to violence prevention and gender equality in Alberta 2022 – Cover]
Men &: An initiative connecting with men who are looking for help to improve their mental health and relationships. Includes guides, resources, articles, and tips.
Based in Canada, but relevant for a wide variety of men.
See https://menand.ca/
Andrew Tate is an example of a new wave of explicitly sexist, anti-feminist, and misogynist social influencers. They overlap with the “manosphere”, the online ecosystem of anti-women websites. Their teachings harm girls and women, *and* boys and men.
Notes https://xyonline.net/content/andrew-tate-and-other-male-supremacist-inf…
Using data on gender-related attitudes and behaviours: What are effective ways to use this data to inform policy, programming, and advocacy? What should you do, and not do? Useful discussion in this Equimundo ‘research to action toolkit’: https://www.equimundo.org/resources/research-to-action-toolkit-how-to-a…
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There is good discussion in the toolkit on *how* to present gender-related data. For example, simply presenting the ‘bad news’, e.g. on young men’s support for Andrew Tate, can *intensify* this support. Other messages can stigmatise vulnerable groups.
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@equimundo_org
Recent media stories on young men’s support for Andrew Tate sometimes have made this mistake.
Some of the tips in the toolkit:
Use data to uplift, inspire, focus, and advance the movement for gender equality, violence prevention, care equality, and public health
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“find the balance between highlighting social ills and injustices on the one hand, while on the other hand, keeping a strong pro-equality analytical voice and a principled, aspirational tone”
Draw upon positive attitudes that are widely held to demonstrate public support
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Build the good kind of social norms
E.g., highlight situations where there is more widespread agreement with positive pro-equality ideas than people think.
Don’t put forward high rates of agreement with harmful ideas without context or complexity
https://www.equimundo.org/resources/research-to-action-toolkit-how-to-a…
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How the media represent men’s murders of women influences how they are perceived. When the crime was labeled as “love killing” rather than a “murder”, male readers in particular saw the male perpetrator more as a loving person and had higher levels of victim-blaming. [Plus graphic, Schnepf, “Domestic Drama,” “Love Killing,” or “Murder” - Does the Framing of Femicides 2023 – Abstract]
A friend tells you that she has been raped or assaulted. What should you do and say? 3 key elements: (1) Listen. (2) Believe. (3) Respect. See this toolkit for violence prevention in men’s daily lives, “Men Speak Up”, p. 16, http://xyonline.net/content/men-speak-toolkit-action-mens-daily-lives [Plus graphic, Flood, Men speak up 2011 p. 17 - Support victims]
Engaging men in preventing men’s violence against women: What are the implications of scholarship on men and masculinities for this work? Journal article in The Lancet by Jewkes, Flood, and Lang, here: http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Jewkes%20Flood%20Lang%2C%20From%20work%20with%20men%20and%20boys%202014.pdf [Plus Lancet graphic, Jewkes Flood Lang, From work with men and boys 2014 p 6]
Violence against women: Why do many men stay silent in the face of domestic & sexual violence against women? What stops men from taking action to prevent & reduce this violence and being part of the solution? See pp 126-136 of my book, FREE in PDF here: https://xyonline.net/content/new-book-engaging-men-and-boys-violence-pr… [Plus graphic, Flood, Engaging Men and Boys in Violence Prevention 2018 p. 126]
Pornography: Of course it's fake. But it is also real people having real sex; real gender inequality and aggression; and real implications for young people who are navigating sexuality with porn as default sex educator.
https://www.griffithreview.com/articles/the-money-shot/
Andrew Tate and other male supremacist influencers are popular because they: Tap into longstanding sexist norms. Tap into some males' sense of aggrieved entitlement. Sell a traditional image of 'alpha' masculinity. Make effective use of marketing. Etc.
https://xyonline.net/content/andrew-tate-and-other-male-supremacist-inf…
The dark side of fantasy
If you are outraged by Andrew Tate, why aren’t you outraged by online porn?
https://thecritic.co.uk/The-dark-side-of-fantasy/ @BareReality
Where Women’s Leadership Development Programs Fall Short
"for every woman you send to a leadership development program, send a proportional number of male leaders for inclusive leadership, allyship, or cultural humility development to improve their gender intelligence."
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Without any broader effort to advance women or accountability from managers and leaders, women’s leadership development programs can signal that women are deficient and need fixing, that the problem is women’s inability to compete with men, and can amplify gender stereotypes. 2/3
@davidgsmithphd
@HChristensenPhD
https://hbr.org/2023/03/where-womens-leadership-development-programs-fa… 3/3
Radical feminism: Here's an interesting graphical summary of radical feminism's typical or defining positions.
https://twitter.com/glumirror/status/1633222269810929664?s=43&t=XMNE8wTvskaiG2-_wmX_Nw
Also see the introductions to radical feminism, some in full text (PDF), here: https://xyonline.net/books/bibliography/4-introductory-and-general-writ…
The times they aren’t a-changin (enough)
Examination of the sex pay gap in Australia, by the Australia Institute and the Centre for Future Work. Highlights sex disparities across income levels, occupations and ages, and in unpaid work. 47 page report.
https://apo.org.au/node/321773
Men across the globe may be profoundly affected by a core belief about manhood, according to study of 62 nations
Men tend to die earlier in life in countries where the belief that manhood is “hard won and easily lost” is more widespread.
https://www.psypost.org/2023/03/men-across-the-globe-may-be-profoundly-…
Are you addressing suicide, drug and alcohol abuse, or risky driving? Then part of your work should be addressing masculinity, as conformity to stereotypical masculine norms is an important influence on men’s involvement in these behaviours. Report: https://xyonline.net/content/unpacking-man-box [Plus graphic, JSS, Fact-sheet-2-Impact-of-Man-Box-attitudes - Impact diagram]
Sexist white men are the super spreaders of climate denialism
Research finds that there is a tight relationship between harmful forms of masculinity, right-wing extremism, and the refusal to deal with the climate crisis.
https://www.nationalobserver.com/2023/03/07/news/white-men-super-spreaders-climate-denialism
Andrew Tate says he is suffering in a prison cell "because the general structure of the world I was brought up in allowed and encouraged me to dehumanize women and gave me the entitlement to manipulate and use them for my own gain."
Satire, The Onion
https://www.theonion.com/the-misogyny-interwoven-into-our-patriarchal-s…
"Unfortunately, the patriarchy has impressionable young men believing that a guy who hides his insecurities with surface-level wealth and abuses vulnerable women to make himself feel more powerful has the answer to how to be the “ideal man."
How Upper Lips Got Stiff
The truism that “boys don’t cry” is a Western social convention. Colonialism and imperialism made sure it spread East.
https://daily.jstor.org/how-upper-lips-got-stiff/
Happy International Women’s Day! As a man I say: Here’s to strong feminist girls and women. May we know them. May we raise them. May we support them. May we join in advocacy with them. #IWD2023 (For more on IWD, see https://www.unwomen.org/en/news-stories/in-focus/2023/03/in-focus-international-womens-day.)
On a more personal note: I am deeply grateful for the feminist women I have known: friends, partners, colleagues, allies, and others. My connections with them, and my involvements in pro-feminist advocacy and scholarship, have been profoundly enriching and inspiring. So, thankyou
Laura Bates wrote the definitive book on online misogyny – which led to the police installing a panic alarm in her home. Bates explains how the ‘manosphere’ radicalises boys, how the media feeds the problem – and why she is still hopeful.
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/mar/07/laura-bates-for-teenage…
Mass Shootings, Violence Against Women, and the Amendment That Could Forge a Path Forward.” Careful analysis of the links between mass shootings, men’s violence against women, and masculinity, in the California Law Journal (2019). https://lawcat.berkeley.edu/record/1129003?ln=en
Guns: The American fantasy of the ‘good guy with a gun’, stopping criminals, is not matched by the evidence. Those who carry guns often have their own guns used against them. And a civilian with a gun is more likely to be killed than to kill an attacker. https://qz.com/1638381/the-good-guy-with-a-gun-is-a-deadly-american-fantasy/ [Plus graphic, Lee, How the ‘good guy with a gun’ became a deadly American fantasy 2018 Quote]
Four Reasons Why Catcalling is Not a Compliment. (Women often hear the retort that the harassment we face in public spaces should be viewed as nothing more than complimentary. Dr Bianca Fileborn outlines why this attempt at dismissal doesn’t cut it.) https://itsnotacompliment.org/blogs-posts/four-reasons-why-catcalling-is-not-a-compliment
Stereotypical and sexist attitudes towards gender contribute to domestic and sexual violence. Useful account in the @ANROWS report on attitudes. E.g., socialisation of men to be sexually dominant, callous, etc. See section 9, p63-76 of http://ncas.anrows.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/NCAS-report-2018.pdf. [Plus graphic, ANROWS, Australians’ attitudes to violence against women and gender equality NCAS Findings 2018 p65 Attitudes]
Male sexuality isn’t brutal by default. It’s dangerous to suggest it is. Feminists reject the idea that men are inherently dangerous or predatory, explain violence as social, and believe that things can be better. Jessica Valenti, 2018. @JessicaValenti https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2017/nov/28/male-sexual-assau…
Men: Show up for International Women's Day
Show up, lean in, and listen
Check out this great invitation to men from the group Fck the Cupcakes: https://www.fckthecupcakes.com/showupforiwd @fckthecupcakes
It's full of good, accessible advice on how men can show up, educate ourselves, and be an ally.
How to fight toxic masculinity
‘Toxic masculinity’ is a rigid set of narrow ideals about being a man, that limit men’s lives and feed into harms to others. So, some tips on challenging toxic masculinity
By Ellen Hendriksen, 2019
https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2023-03/Hendriksen%2C%20H…
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Offer a reality check. Men consistently overestimate the sexism of other men. So give men a reality check about men’s actual levels of support for sexism
Be vocal about opting out of the man box. When men see other men making healthy choices, it gives permission to do so.
Make clear that any activity is manly if a man is passionate about it.
Because when men feel that their masculinity is threatened, they may respond with masculine over-compensation, including in destructive ways.
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Encourage multiple roles and relationships. (Rather than all men relying entirely on one relationship and defining their lives only in terms of their provider roles.)
https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2023-03/Hendriksen%2C%20H…
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For four key strategies for shifting narrow, patriarchal models of masculinity and fostering healthier, equitable masculinities among boys and men, also see pp. 50-52 of my discussion on the 'Man Box', here: https://xyonline.net/content/men-and-man-box-commentary
Deepfake pornography involves fake sexual videos and images where women’s faces are artificially edited into porn. These are often weaponised to tarnish women’s reputations, silence them, or extort money.
https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/deepfake-ai-qtcinderella-atrioc-b2276802.html
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But there is a widespread unwillingness to see deepfake pornography as abuse, and a troubling lack of empathy for the women subject to it. Some say that ‘women are fair game' because they are rich, popular, pretty, or simply online. This indicates our culture’s pervasive sexism.
Racism is the root cause of the current issues around Alice Springs
Alcohol restrictions are back in the Northern Territory, but they're the easy option. Governments time and time again turn their heads away from the real issues and fail to hear our voices
https://www.sbs.com.au/nitv/article/opinion-this-is-another-externally-…
Domestic violence and gender: Apparent findings that men and women are using DV at similar rates must be interpreted with caution, for 4 reasons. 1) Most studies are just ‘counting the blows’, measuring any use of a set list of violent acts. False positives and over-reporting 1/3
2) There is evidence that men are less likely than women to report their own use of violence. 3) More of women’s than men’s violence is in self-defence. 4) Even where overall rates of the use of various violent acts are similar among males and females, males’ use of violence...
4) Even where overall rates of the use of violent acts are similar among males and females, males’ use of violence is more frequent, severe, fear-inducing, injurious, and harmful than females’ use of violence.
Summary: https://theconversation.com/who-is-perpetrating-domestic-sexual-and-fam…
Report: https://research.qut.edu.au/centre-for-justice/wp-content/uploads/sites…
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Femicides: the undeclared war on women in Europe
This cross-border investigation sheds light on femicides and rising violence against women at the time of the pandemic in Europe, as well as on the staggering shortage of up-to-date data on these phenomena.
https://www.europeandatajournalism.eu/eng/News/Data-news/Femicides-the-…
Hags: the demonisation of middle-aged women
A new book by Victoria Smith is an angry defence of the right of middle-aged women to be heard without being demonised.
https://www.workingwise.co.uk/gendered-ageism/ @glosswitch
Gun availability and suicide: A study of state firearm regulations in the US over 1995-2004 finds that, “firearms regulations which function to reduce overall gun availability have a significant deterrent effect on male suicide” (Andres and Hempstead, 2011). [Plus graphic, Andres, Gun control and suicide 2011 – Abstract]
Guns and suicide: When guns are available, ‘successful’ suicides are more likely. Thoughts of suicide are often impulsive, and can pass if the means to try suicide are not available. Limiting access to *means* of suicide is an effective prevention strategy https://ajph.aphapublications.org/doi/full/10.2105/AJPH.2012.300964?jou… [Plus graphic, Lewiecki, Suicide, Guns, and Public Policy 2013 1st page]
Harmful Masculine Norms and Bullying: Bullying behaviors often share common root causes: the perpetrator’s desire to demonstrate power and control over the victim, and the use of bullying to enforce gender conformity. Short brief by @equimundo_org https://www.equimundo.org/making-the-connections-harmful-masculine-norm…
When women live with violence by a male intimate partner, there are powerful obstacles to them leaving. Fear. Lack of alternative housing or income. Others’ unhelpful responses. Concerns for children’s safety. Etc. Useful account, p.83: http://ncas.anrows.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/NCAS-report-2018.p… @ANROWS @VicHealth
Teenage boys with progressive attitudes about gender are less likely to be violent, study finds. (Teenage boys with progressive attitudes about gender are much less likely to bully or use violence than peers with rigid, traditional views of masculinity.) https://www.minnpost.com/second-opinion/2020/01/teenage-boys-with-progressive-attitudes-about-gender-are-less-likely-to-be-violent-study-finds/
Healthy masculinities and the wellbeing of young men and boys
Encouraging equality starts at school
Short piece in the British Medical Journal, here: https://www.bmj.com/content/380/bmj.p385.full
Grasping Patriarchal Backlash: A Brief for Smarter Countermoves
A 6-page brief from the Institute of Development Studies, on key agents of backlash, how backlash works, and strategic countermoves.
https://counteringbacklash.org/resource/grasping-patriarchal-backlash-a… @IDS_UK
Why this IWD what women want is for men to show up
Founder of industry initiative, Fck The Cupcakes, and CEO of Innocean Australia Jasmin Bedir, asks that this IWD, men look to make a contribution.
https://mumbrella.com.au/why-this-iwd-what-women-want-is-for-men-to-sho…
@MumbrellaNews
Prevention toolkit for local government
By the national violence prevention organisation Our Watch
https://localgov.ourwatch.org.au/localgovtoolkit/
@OurWatchAus
Tweets in February 2023
In the UK, law reform will see domestic abuse categorised as a national threat; serious perpetrators will be added to the violent and sex offender register; and police will be required to treat VAW with the same seriousness as they would terrorism.
https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/reports/a43019050/domestic-abuse-nation…
Anti-feminist backlash online against academic research: Attacks on feminist researchers and research spread misogynistic, white-supremacist, and heteronormative ideology in a vain attempt to silence feminist scholars
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14680777.2023.2181140?journalCode=rfms20 [Plus graphic, Dej, "Die alone, old, and let the cat eat your face" 2023 – Abstract]
Affirmative consent: New policy position paper on affirmative consent by WESNET, a network including women’s refuges, shelters, safe houses and information/referral services.
https://wesnet.org.au/wp-content/uploads/sites/3/2023/02/Affirmative-consent-policy-position-paper.pdf
Older women are doing remarkable things – it's time for the putdowns to end
https://theconversation.com/older-women-are-doing-remarkable-things-its-time-for-the-putdowns-to-end-199500
The gender pay gap is bigger for some women than others – here’s how to work it out
https://theconversation.com/gender-pay-gap-is-bigger-for-some-women-tha…
Hags (new book by Victoria Smith): This rigorous defence of middle-aged women, who are ignored and vilified, is an often painful read and a future classic.
https://www.theguardian.com/books/2023/feb/27/hags-by-victoria-smith-re… @glosswitch
Coercive men hide in plain sight
Not all abuse victims have visible scars
BY Julie Bindel
https://unherd.com/2023/02/coercive-men-hide-in-plain-sight/ @bindelj
Misogyny in policing: Police responses describing predatory police perpetrators of violence against women and girls as “unspeakably evil” suggests they are rare. But they are actually part of a long, systemic pattern of misogyny in policing.
https://theconversation.com/misogyny-in-policing-how-some-male-officers…
Australia’s gender pay gap falls to narrowest on record but women still earn less in every industry
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/feb/23/australias-gender-pay-fal…
MPs urge crackdown on pornography to tackle violence against women
All-party group says there is extensive evidence that consuming pornography fuels sexual violence
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/feb/27/mps-urge-crackdown-on-pornography-to-tackle-violence-against-women
(For summaries of and links to the research evidence, see here: https://xyonline.net/content/pornography-men-and-boys)
Men’s violence against women: character, causes, & consequences – Check out the XY collection of key readings and reports in FULL TEXT here: http://www.xyonline.net/content/mens-violence-against-women-some-key-readings-and-reports
Violence against men and violence against women are interrelated: Gender norms and social constructions of masculinity are at the root of most violence perpetrated by men against women & against other men. Full text, by Fleming, here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Fleming%2C%20Men%27s%20vi… [plus graphic, Fleming, Men’s violence 2015 – Abstract]
Men’s rape of women: A study among over 10,000 men across 6 countries in Asia and the Pacific finds that the most common motivation for rape was sexual entitlement - men’s belief that they have the right to sex. Full report: http://www.svri.org/what-we-do/research-support/un-multi-country-study-… [Plus graphic, Fulu, Why do some men p. 39]
Videos on violence, consent, and violence prevention etc: Here’s a collection of 100+ YouTube videos providing powerful, engaging, and/or humourous discussion of consent, violence against women, etc, as well as men and gender, men’s roles in feminism, etc. http://xyonline.net/content/videos-men-and-masculinities-sexualities-vi…
Domestic violence: There are significant contrasts in women’s and men’s experiences of victimisation, as this review of studies over 2002-2013 finds. Women are more highly victimised, injured, and fearful than men. Hamberger and Larsen’s article, in full: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Hamberger%2C%20Men%E2%80%… [Plus graphic, Hamberger, Men’s and Women’s Experience of Intimate Partner Violence Review 2015 – Abstract]
Domestic violence: Women are far more likely than men to live with intimate terrorism. Strong gender contrasts in DV. Among victims, women are far more likely than men to… http://www.xyonline.net/content/he-hits-she-hits-assessing-debates-regarding-men%E2%80%99s-and-women%E2%80%99s-experiences-domestic-violence [Plus Flood graphic gender contrasts]
Sexual consent: There is a long way to go in building a culture of consent in Australia. Too many people don’t recognise consent must be actively sought and freely given, and excuse men raping as ‘uncontrollable’. @ANROWS NCAS survey, p.90 full report: https://www.anrows.org.au/NCAS/2017/findings/ [Plus graphic, ANROWS, Australians’ attitudes to violence against women and gender equality NCAS Findings 2018 p90 consent]
Why are teachers mostly female? Because men get better pay in other professions
For men, the ‘opportunity cost’ of becoming a teacher is higher than for women, because of wider differences in salaries. So men and women make different choices about teaching
https://theconversation.com/why-are-teachers-mostly-female-because-men-…
If we compare the salaries of men in teaching to men in other professions, and women in teaching to women in other professions, men give up far higher salaries than women by choosing teaching.
Men supporting workplace gender inequality: One key way that men can make change is to challenge “boys’ clubs” – informal male-dominated networks of patronage and power. Instead, push for networks and socialising that *everyone* can participate in.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/lizelting/2019/09/26/standing-up-what-men-…
For plenty more on men’s positive roles in building workplace gender equality, see https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace
Free guides, tipsheets, reports, and more.
Feminism taught me all I need to know about men like Trump and Putin
Like all abusive men, dictators seek to control who can speak and which narratives are believed. The only difference is scale.
By Rebecca Solnit @RebeccaSolnit
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/25/feminism-men-puti…
Why do men kill their families?
Eloise Hendy talks to criminologists and experts on domestic violence about why women and children are being murdered by their partners
https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/epsom-college-murder-suicide-f…
Why have young men fallen out of love with romantic relationships?
Men aren’t naturally stoic: they’re just taught from a young age that emotions are for girls – and then people wonder why young men are so lonely
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/25/young-men-relatio…
The documentary “The Dangerous Rise of Andrew Tate” (Australia: SBS on Demand; UK: BBC Three) tracks the meteoric rise of the ‘king of toxic masculinity’, and gives a voice to some of the women affected by this militant misogynist.
https://www.image.ie/agenda/weve-watched-the-dangerous-rise-of-andrew-tate-now-how-can-we-guarantee-the-fall-714740
Tools for Developing Positive Masculinity
Some practical tools for men’s mental health, on the Psychology Today blog
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mens-mental-health-matters/202302/tools-for-developing-positive-masculinity
A message to our sponsors on International Women’s Day.
When companies take up feminist concerns and use the language of feminism in their messaging, when is it inauthentic, self-serving, and antithetical to feminist goals, and when can it actually serve women’s interests? 1/3
Corporate feminism is a good example of ‘neoliberal feminism’: it ignores large-scale structural issues, offering only individualised solutions. Corporate gestures to ‘empower’ women may be contradictory, e.g. encouraging conformity to oppressive beauty standards. 2/3
Corporate messages on IWD tend to be fleeting moments of feelgood celebration, not preludes to any kind of collective action. And it’s the latter we should celebrate, as only they make real progress towards gender equality. 3/3
https://debuk.wordpress.com/2020/03/08/a-message-to-our-sponsors/
What sort of language about pregnancy, birth, lactation, breastfeeding and newborn care should be used in nursing, medicine, and health communication? This journal article argues for the value of language naming sex and inclusive of gender.
https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fgwh.2022.818856/full?utm_source=F-NTF&utm_medium=EMLX&utm_campaign=PRD_FEOPS_20170000_ARTICLE
Equal paid parental leave could provide the economic boost Australia needs | Jessica Mizrahi
Australia’s parental leave rules entrench old social gender roles. Making them equal and gender-neutral could be our ticket out of a recession.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/feb/15/equal-paid-parental-leave-could-provide-the-economic-boost-australia-needs
Gender and gender inequalities influence the impact of and responses to disasters. Traditional gender roles shape how men and women respond. Family violence can worsen. Gender inequalities can intensify.
Resources from Municipal Association of Victoria: https://www.mav.asn.au/what-we-do/policy-advocacy/emergency-management/…
Intersectionality: Here is a 169-word summary of its key elements, summarised from a new journal article on intersectionality and social justice in programs for boys and men, by Amanda Keddie, Michael Flood, and Shelley Hewson-Munro.
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/18902138.2022.2026684 @amandaMkeddie [Plus graphic, Keddie Flood Hewson-Munroe, Intersectionality and social justice in programs for boys and men 2022 - Intersectionality summary; abstract]
Can men help take down patriarchy?
With the rise of right wing populism and authoritarian strongmen in positions of power, patriarchy seems more entrenched than ever. It is more important than ever to engage men in the struggle for gender equality.
https://men-care.org/2020/03/06/freeing-our-imaginations-can-men-help-t…
Gender and partner abandonment after illness: Comparing women and men with a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis, a woman is six times more likely to be separated or divorced by the spouse or partner soon after diagnosis.
Summary: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm?fbclid=IwAR1eTrjEnICigaR2Cxa8zzxYsOrth1h2M_EHoS1brainkbDkhB-QQgJJ3g8 [Plus graphic, Glantz, Gender Disparity in the Rate of Partner Abandonment in Patients With Serious Medical Illness 2009 – Abstract]
Kindness for clicks: MrBeast and the problem of philanthropy as spectacle
https://www.abc.net.au/religion/mrbeast-and-the-problem-of-philanthropy…
The Dangerous Rise of Andrew Tate review – you’d laugh if you weren’t already crying
The jailed misogynist blusters and rants his way through a noxious interview that says as much about the cancerous state of our society as it does about him
https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2023/feb/21/the-dangerous-rise… #AndrewTate
Men are more likely to use violence against women if they hold attitudes that condone, minimise, excuse, or justify that violence. This is evident in 4 recent meta-analyses and systematic analyses, p. 36 of new report. Sexual violence is shaped by 'hostile masculinity'. 1/2
‘Hostile masculinity’ – based on sexual dominance, hostility toward women, adversarial sexual beliefs, acceptance of rape myths, and acceptance of violence – is a consistent predictor of men’s sexual violence perpetration. See pp. 36-38 of free report: https://research.qut.edu.au/centre-for-justice/wp-content/uploads/sites/304/2023/01/Who-uses-domestic-family-and-sexual-violence-how-and-why-The-State-of-Knowledge-Report-on-Violence-Perpetration-2023.pdf [Plus graphic, Who uses domestic, family, and sexual violence, how, and why - The State of Knowledge Report on Violence Perpetration 2023 – Cover]
The splashback scandal: should all men sit down to urinate?
The Germans call them Sitzpinklers, and more and more men are now taking the weight off their feet in the bathroom. It could be good for their health – and help protect the family toothbrushes
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/feb/20/the-splashback-scandal-…
How can we adapt intimate partner violence prevention programs for different populations and contexts?
This 68-page guide, supported by the Sexual Violence Research Initiative, offers a framework and key steps. Free at https://prevention-collaborative.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/IPV-ADA…
Introductory Guide to Understanding Misogyny and the Far-Right
Misogyny and gender identity can play a linking role between various far-right ideologies and groups both online and offline
https://crestresearch.ac.uk/resources/introductory-guide-to-understandi…
By @Alex_Phelan @J_White692 @WallnerClaudia & James Paterson
Resource Package and Training Modules for Promoting Gender-Transformative Parenting
Challenging gender norms and gender inequalities to create a more equitable environment for all children to thrive
https://www.unicef.org/reports/resource-gender-transformative-parenting @UNICEF
Why locking up youth offenders fails to reduce crime – and what we should be doing instead
Contrary to political rhetoric in Queensland, incarceration does not rehabilitate young people. It only exposes them to more violence.
By Professor Ross Homel
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/21/why-locking-up-yo…
International Women's Day is coming up, and Gippsland Women's Health wants to help you and your organisation leave pinkwashing in the past. We want to see more action and less cupcakes.
GWH International Women's Day toolkit:
https://22168956.fs1.hubspotusercontent-na1.net/hubfs/22168956/Document… #IWD2023 @GippslandWomensHealth
Women and men getting jobs, being recruited, and promoted: There is evidence of gender biases against women and towards men at every stage of the employment cycle. WGEA paper on the research, and on equitable recruitment and promotion (2019): https://www.wgea.gov.au/data/wgea-research/gender-equitable-recruitment… @WGEAgency
The WHO alcohol-pregnancy warning for childbearing women overlooks men, as usual
Men who drink can damage fetuses as well, but they aren’t mentioned by the World Health Organization. The entire burden — and blame — of childbirth is still put on women. https://www.nbcnews.com/think/opinion/who-alcohol-pregnancy-warning-chi…
Women’s rights must be at the center of the global recovery. (If men are serious about being feminists, we have to cede space and relinquish privileges we and our forefathers have enjoyed for centuries.) By Ban Ki-moon, former secretary-general of the UN. https://english.elpais.com/opinion/2021-06-29/womens-rights-must-be-at-the-center-of-the-global-recovery.html
Checking Under the Dashboard: Gender Bias in Data and Tech. By Stephanie Mikkelson. https://medium.com/@stephanie.mikkelson/checking-under-the-dashboard-6d0acc196fa2
Gender Bias in Data and Tech - Detailing Tech-Facilitated Harms. This article details tech-facilitated direct harms (online GBV) and indirect harms (algorithmic bias, data bias, data security, gender-blind tech) against women and girls.
https://medium.com/geekculture/gender-bias-in-data-and-tech-ba25524295d4
Why are there few women in skilled trades? This systematic review identifies factors that exclude / push women out: gender stereotypes about the work, pervasive sexual harassment, ‘boys’ club’ cultures, men informally hiring men, gender socialisation etc.
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/01446193.2020.1762906
Gender inequality and the workplace: Why do men and women end up in differing occupations and at differing levels of professions? The book chapter, “Gender and diversity in the workforce”, by Lloyd-Jones et al. provides a useful explainer. Download at https://xyonline.net/books/bibliography/16-work-and-class/c-general-ref…
Why talking about toxic masculinity is getting trickier
Podcast / interview, ABC Radio National, All In the Mind
Plus a handy transcript
https://www.abc.net.au/radionational/programs/allinthemind/talking-abou…
#ToxicMasculinity #Healthymasculinity @socialmediaQUT @RadioNational
‘Gender trolling’ is curbing women’s rights – and making money for digital platforms
Lucina Di Meco
Online hate has become a tool of the right and a lucrative business. It’s driving women out of public life, putting democracy and human rights at risk.
https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2023/feb/17/gender-troll…
When the Bridezilla label was thrown my way, I realised no one was safe from this sexist trope
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/19/when-the-bridezil…
How can London's police force ever regain the trust of women?
How a toxic code of [patriarchal] loyalty allowed criminal cops to thrive in London’s police force. One of Britain's worst sex offenders in history was using his police badge to aid his crimes.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-02-19/can-london-police-ever-earn-back…
Elon Musk has put every lost young man on Twitter in the crosshairs of the far right.
Letting the expert online recruiters Patriotic Alternative back on the platform isn’t a win for free speech but for fascism.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/18/elon-musk-lost-yo…
Gender gaps in countries in and around the Middle East and North Africa remain stubbornly entrenched, despite positive trends
Clear majorities in the 12 countries in which the survey was conducted still hold traditional views on gender norms.
https://www.mei.edu/publications/gender-gaps-mena-remain-stubbornly-ent…
'Oh girl, you better run': Why Polynesians are cross-checking their boyfriends with 7,000 other women
Tongan woman Esitia Tupou moderates a Facebook page for Polynesians in Brisbane where they expose men they claim cheat on girlfriends, wives, & families.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-02-18/pacific-island-women-exposing-ch…
The draw of the ‘manosphere’: understanding Andrew Tate’s appeal to lost men
By Ben Rich and Eva Bujalka, Curtin University
https://theconversation.com/the-draw-of-the-manosphere-understanding-an… #AndrewTate
The New Conservative Strategy of Civilian Surveillance and Paid Snitches
First the GOP offered a bounty for "aiding or abetting" abortion. Now it's offering a bounty on librarians who stock banned books, and bringing back Victorian-era obscenity laws.
https://jill.substack.com/p/the-new-conservative-strategy-of
Some men terrorise women, not with physical violence, but with threats, rage, and self-pitying resentment, and claim that "nothing happened". And when other men shout at women (e.g. in Parliament), it is a reminder of this.
By Victoria Smith @glosswitch
https://thecritic.co.uk/nothing-is-still-something/
Victoria has implemented all 227 recommendations from its royal commission into family violence. It has achieved signicant reforms. And next: 1) We need ongoing strategic vision and leadership. 2) We must not lose sight of prevention 3)..
https://theconversation.com/victoria-has-implemented-all-227-recommenda… @ConversationEDU
Why do men who kill their families still receive sympathetic news coverage?
By Dr Denise Buiten
https://theconversation.com/why-do-men-who-kill-their-families-still-re… via @ConversationEDU
How We Describe Male and Female Job Applicants Differently. Harvard Business Review, 2018. https://hbr.org/2018/09/how-we-describe-male-and-female-job-applicants-…. (Thanks to @betterallies for noting this.)
Why Women’s Spaces are Critical to Feminist Autonomy. By Patricia McFadden, a radical African Feminist/Scholar, 2007. http://www.isiswomen.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=6…
Ijeoma Oluo’s Mediocre: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America. Feminist journal Signs’ "Short Takes" series discusses the book, with short pieces by Jude Ellison S. Doyle, Saida Grundy, Kate Manne, and Imran Siddiquee. See http://signsjournal.org/mediocre/
Menstruation and period sex: If a woman’s partner is grossed out by her body carrying out a natural process, she probably shouldn’t stay with them, writes Nadia Bokody.
https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/sex/nadia-bokody-if-he-wont-do-this-in-bed-run/news-story/f57083568f70e793f1fbda88dc4faed9
Time for a sharper focus on gender equality in corporate giving
Says this new report from the Champions of Change Coalition, developed in partnership with Australians Investing In Women (AIIW): https://championsofchangecoalition.org/resource/sharpening-our-focus-on… @champs_change @AIIWomen
Feminist reading for your bedside table. There is a whole bunch of great, accessible books out there to inspire your feminist knowledge and advocacy. Full bibliography at https://xyonline.net/books/bibliography/4-introductory-and-general-writ…, including sections on academic & more accessible introductions. Suggestions welcome. [Plus graphic, Feminist books popular some]
The sociological explanation for why men in America turn to gun violence: Tristan Bridges (2017) on why mass shootings are committed by men, and why US men more than other countries. https://qz.com/1095247/the-sociological-explanation-for-why-men-in-america-turn-to-gun-violence/ [Plus graphic, Bridges, The sociological explanation for why men in America turn to gun violence Oct 7 2017 - Why men]
Domestic violence among women during the COVID-19 pandemic: An Australian study finds that violence began, or escalated, with the pandemic. Survey of 15,000 Australian women in the initial stages of the pandemic, May 2020. https://www.aic.gov.au/publications/sb/sb28 [Plus graphic, Boxall, The prevalence of domestic violence among women during the COVID-19 pandemic 2020 Summary]
New report, ‘Masculinities and Preventing Violent Extremism: Making the Connections’ seeks to shed light on the question, “What do masculinities have to do with violent extremism?” https://www.equimundo.org/resources/masculinities-and-preventing-violen… @equimundo_org
Domestic Violence is a gendered crime. By Barry Goldstein, Stop Abuse Campaign (USA). Including on violence and abuse in family court cases. https://stopabusecampaign.org/2020/11/23/domestic-violence-is-a-gendere… via @AbuseStoppers
New book, “The tough standard: The hard truths about masculinity and violence”. Explains the connections between masculinity and violence, calling for healing ideals of manhood. Review by Christopher Kilmartin here: https://www.apadivisions.org/division-44/resources/reviews/masculinity-…. See https://thetoughstandard.com/
Why Society Goes Easy on Rapists.
Our criminal justice system still doesn’t take seriously one of the most heinous acts a person can commit. By Lili Loofbourow, 2019.
https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2019/05/sexual-assault-rape-sympath…
Parents, talk to your sons about Andrew Tate – we teachers can’t take him on alone
The messages of toxic, misogynist influencers can reach children more easily than ever – schools and families need to work together to prepare them.
By Lola Okolosie
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/14/parents-sons-andr…
Men’s accountability for gender equality
Working Group on discrimination against women and girls: Achieving gender equality requires a shift from men’s mere engagement, to men's roles in redistributing power and dismantling systems of male privilege.
https://www.ohchr.org/en/special-procedures/wg-women-and-girls/mens-acc…
How to successfully engage boys in gender equity (Global Fund for Children, 2019). Story on an initiative addressing deep gender disparities in Mexico and Central America, successful in promoting change in gender norms and roles. https://globalfundforchildren.org/story/how-to-successfully-engage-boys-in-gender-equity/ [Plus graphic, Global Fund for Children, How to successfully engage boys in gender equity 2019. - Main Findings]
Engaging Men and Boys for Gender Transformation: This 16-pp brief by the Swiss Agency for Development and Cooperation (SDC) explores how to introduce a gender-transformative approach in addressing gender inequalities particularly by engaging men and boys. https://www.shareweb.ch/site/Gender/Documents/Gendernet%20Toolbox/Thema… [Plus graphic, SDC, Engaging Men and Boys for Gender Transformation 2019 – Cover]
Most people want boys to be respectful, helpful and kind, but many find society imposes outdated rules about how to be a man. Boys need to know we’ll support them if they show their feelings. Visit @VicHealth to see how you can help: https://bit.ly/36YkVgW
Consent Campaign Guidebook: Provides step-by-step advice for creating a Consent Campaign in schools, lesson plans for grades 7-10, and helpful materials and resources for parents and others. Vermont Network Against Domestic & Sexual Violence @VTNetwork https://vtnetwork.org/consent-campaign/ [Plus graphic, Vermont Network Against Domestic & Sexual Violence, Consent Campaign Guidebook 2019 – Cover]
Prevention of violence against women and safer pathways to services: Ten research insights from the Culturally and Linguistically Diverse Projects with Action Research (CALD PAR) initiative. See https://www.anrows.org.au/publication/prevention-of-violence-against-women-and-safer-pathways-to-service/
Experts by Experience Framework: On survivor advocates’ roles. Designed to enhance the ability of specialist family violence services to provide opportunities for survivor advocates to influence policy development, service planning and practice. https://safeandequal.org.au/working-in-family-violence/service-response…
The myth of the abusive protesters: The idea that anti-Vietnam war activists in Australia confronted returning soldiers at airports and in the streets seems to be a made-up myth. Inside Story: http://inside.org.au/the-enduring-myth-of-the-abusive-protesters
Allyship, e.g. by white people in support of anti-racism: there are differences between performative allyship and real allyship. By Holiday Phillips, in @forgemag https://forge.medium.com/performative-allyship-is-deadly-c900645d9f1f?s…
Research: What Fragile Masculinity Looks Like at Work
When men feel that their gender identity is being questioned or threatened, they are much more likely than women in similar situations to respond by engaging in harmful behaviors. Strategies & solutions
https://hbr.org/2023/01/research-what-fragile-masculinity-looks-like-at…
Is toxic masculinity driving as dangerous as drunk driving? (On a new French campaign encouraging men to shun macho posturing and aggression behind the wheel.)
https://www.theglobeandmail.com/drive/mobility/article-is-toxic-masculi… @globeandmail
Also see this XY collection on men, masculinity, and driving, showing that men are more likely than women to condone and to practise risky driving behaviours, and that this is shaped by norms of masculinity: https://xyonline.net/content/cars-driving-and-masculinity
Andrew Tate is just one piece of a toxic internet subculture. Here's how to combat it.
Andrew Tate’s violent, misogynistic teachings are seeping into classrooms
How to counter the “tidal wave of misogyny” spurred by anti-feminist influencers.
https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/counter-andrew-tates-growin… via @msnbc
The death of Tyre Nichols — and the cost of stereotypical Black masculinity
Behind that night in Memphis lie the lessons too many Black boys and men learn about toughness and violence.
https://www.salon.com/2023/02/12/the-of-tyre-nichols--and-the-cost-of-s…
‘Close’: The Oscar-Nominated Movie that Names the Threat in Our Sons’ Lives
Mark Greene: It is long past time for us to encourage and normalize a healthy masculine culture of authentic emotional expression and connection.
https://msmagazine.com/2023/02/08/close-lukas-dhont-masculinity/ @msmagazine @RemakingManhood
‘Rapid rise’ in Andrew Tate-related cases referred to Prevent by schools
Counter-extremism workers dealing with incidents including verbal harassment of female teachers and other pupils
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2023/feb/12/rapid-rise-in-andrew-ta…
Popular entertainment and domestic abuse: the debate over the song "Delilah" (in which a man tells the story of murdering Delilah)
By @DrEmmaKatz
https://open.substack.com/pub/dremmakatz/p/popular-entertainment-and-do…
How to respond when a coworker says something offensive
In their new book, ‘Say the Right Thing,’ two NYU law professors share ways to tactfully respond to the folks who still simply don’t get it.
https://www.fastcompany.com/90821266/offensive-coworkers-response-diver…
Unbiased hiring: A simple handout from Google describing common errors and biases that interview teams and assessors make and how to fix them. Free here: https://rework.withgoogle.com/guides/unbiasing-use-structure-and-criter… @Google
From Outrage to Opportunity: How to Include the Missing Perspectives of Women of All Colors in News Leadership and Coverage
In editorial leadership roles and news coverage, women are significantly under-represented in an industry still dominated by men.
https://internews.org/from-outrage-to-opportunity-women-media/
True crime: when voyeurism becomes harmful and exploitative
As internet sleuths swarm the Lancashire village where Nicola Bulley went missing, has our obsession with true crime finally gone too far?
https://davidchallen.substack.com/p/true-crime-when-voyeurism-becomes @David_Challen
International Women’s Day: The theme for this year is “DigitALL: Innovation and technology for gender equality”.
See https://www.un.org/en/observances/womens-day
https://www.unwomen.org/en/news-stories/announcement/2022/12/internatio…
UN Women Australia refers to “Cracking the Code: Innovation for a gender equal future” ( https://unwomen.org.au/get-involved/international-womens-day/)
However, the theme is *not* “#EmbraceEquity.” – that theme was invented by a corporate website, with no official role in #IWD. Each year the corporate-run website https://www.internationalwomensday.com/ makes up a theme for IWD. But this is not the official IWD site. It's invented and unofficial
What NOT to do on International Women’s Day
How are you going to ensure your messaging and actions actually move the needle for gender equality?
By Elisabeth Anna Resch
https://www.greenbiz.com/article/what-not-do-international-womens-day
The serious side of ‘mansplaining’ has been lost. That’s where the harm begins
The key context of the word is one part of a huge problem – of who gets listened to, and who gets believed
By Rebecca Solnit @RebeccaSolnit
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/09/mansplaining-word…
"If you spend your life being assumed to be less competent, less qualified to speak and less worthy of being listened to, more likely to be mocked, ignored or insulted, it inhibits your willingness to speak up and participate... it shapes how we perceive ourselves and others" 2/4
"Mansplaining’s meaning requires the broader context of intersecting inequalities and assumptions that play out in everyday life, with consequences that are occasionally amusing but too often nightmarish." 3/4
"My goal always was to advocate for a democracy of voice, for equality in who gets to speak, who’s heard, and who’s believed and respected when they speak, across all categories." 4/4
Fear of a Female Body
Controlling women's bodies is a hallmark of religious fundamentalism. Why are liberal institutions getting on board?
By Jill Filipovic @JillFilipovic
https://jill.substack.com/p/fear-of-a-female-body
Women are using social media as 'Google reviews for men' to warn others about violence
Women are filtering out online dating's "bad seeds" by posting information on social media pages. But may be creating a defamation minefield.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-02-08/social-pages-like-google-reviews-for-men-online-dating/101906252
Rise of the post-truth sex tape: Deepfake pornography is making women’s online lives even more frightening
https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/deepfake-ai-qtcinderella-atrio…
Programs and initiatives engaging men and boys in violence: How feminist and social justice-oriented is this work? What does the emergence of a “gender-transformative” standard mean? Discussion in this free book chapter on sexual violence prevention: https://xyonline.net/content/sexual-violence-prevention-men-and-boys-so…
Violence prevention work with men and boys shows an increasing emphasis on an intersectional approach. But it has limitations. Focuses especially on ethnicity and less on on other forms of difference. Focuses on disadvantage & neglects privilege. Chapter: https://xyonline.net/content/sexual-violence-prevention-men-and-boys-so…
What do we know about violence perpetration? Who uses domestic, family, and sexual violence? What are the drivers of perpetration? What are the typical trajectories of perpetration?
New report on violence perpetration, launched today. Download it free at https://research.qut.edu.au/centre-for-justice/wp-content/uploads/sites…
What will it take to stop the rape and murder of women by men on probation?
Sonia Sodha
In an underfunded system, a killing a week is committed by former prisoners
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/05/what-will-it-take…
Women can reliably remember if they gave sexual consent when intoxicated, new study suggests.
It's wrong to doubt a woman's claim she was assaulted simply because she was drinking before it happened.
https://theconversation.com/women-can-reliably-remember-if-they-gave-se… via @ConversationUK
Men and women in the US: There is a growing gender divide in politics. Particularly between college (university) educated women and non-college-educated men. E.g., on abortion, Trump, the environment, and the use of political force. https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/ [Plus graphic, Cox, Politics, Sex, and Sexuality - The Growing Gender Divide in American Life April 2022 - Political divide]
Most Americans say being viewed as masculine or feminine is not an important priority for them. Less than half of men (44%) & women (46%).
Being viewed as masculine is more important among men with conservative views. 55% of such men, vs 30% of liberal men
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/
Not being masculine enough: About one in five (22%) men say they were criticized during their childhood for not acting like a man or not being masculine enough. Especially young men: 37%, compared to only 6% of senior men.
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/
Sexual attraction: Young women are far more likely than young men to report feelings of physical attraction to both men and women. Among people aged 18-29, 75% of males, and only 56% of females, report attraction only to the other sex.
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/
[Plus graphic, Cox, Politics, Sex, and Sexuality - The Growing Gender Divide in American Life April 2022 - Sexual attraction]
Building a movement of men and boys committed to violence prevention and gender equality: This new report provides the case for engaging men and boys in violence prevention, guides state government plans, and outlines strategies, skills, and approaches.
https://preventdomesticviolence.ca/building-a-movement-of-men-and-boys-…
For plenty more free resources on men's positive roles in ending men's violence against women, see the XY collection here: https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-violence-prevention-key-resou…
Speeches, guides, curricula, videos, research, and more.
Policy Lessons on Reducing Gender-based Violence Findings that: 1. Women’s economic empowerment can reduce GBV. 2. Social protection can reduce economic stress for women, but program design is key to achieving reductions in GBV
https://documents.worldbank.org/en/publication/documents-reports/documentdetail/099441101252333859/idu01c8a0d310876a04acc0af720169b8e92ac18
Violence prevention: Discussion groups that engage men can reduce intimate partner violence but results depend on context and implementation.
That’s the finding of various impact evaluations. Policy Lessons on Reducing Gender-based Violence:
https://documents.worldbank.org/en/publication/documents-reports/docume…
‘I Love Raping You’: What Andrew Tate Told Woman Who Accused Him of Rape
“Because the more you didn’t like it, the more I enjoyed it. I f**king loved how much you hated it. It turned me on.”
https://www.vice.com/en/article/wxn3dm/andrew-tate-whatsapps-arrest
Building a movement of men and boys committed to violence prevention and gender equality in Alberta:
An innovative report that informs Canadian initiatives expanding work with men and boys to end violence and advance gender equality.
https://preventdomesticviolence.ca/building-a-movement-of-men-and-boys-…
Sextortion of boys on the rise as experts call for better awareness
More young Australian males seek help after being targeted by online offenders coercing them to send sexual images and threatening to share them unless they pay.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-02-06/australian-boys-calling-national…
They were found to have kissed, harassed, or groped patients, but these doctors are still allowed to practise
Almost 500 health practitioners have been sanctioned for sexual misconduct involving patients. Nearly a third are still allowed to work
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-02-06/doctors-sexual-misconduct-compla…
Note: An Australian study of notifications of sexual misconduct by health professionals documents that 88% of notifications were of male health professionals. These involved 0.6% of men and 0.03% of women in the health professions.
This suggests that men were 20 times as likely as women to perpetrate sexual misconduct. Two thirds (62%) of the female practitioner notifications involved inappropriate relationships, not harassment or assault (Bismark et al., 2020).
Steroids won’t cure toxic masculinity
Young men are killing themselves for an empty ideal
https://unherd.com/2023/02/steroids-wont-cure-toxic-masculinity/
What's the Matter with (right-wing) Men?
The same factors driving shocking levels of male violence also drive conservative politics. And the Republican Party is fueling the bloodshed and disorder.
By Jill Filipovic @JillFilipovic
https://jill.substack.com/p/whats-the-matter-with-right-wing
If someone is asleep and you start touching them sexually, this is *sexual assault*. People cannot consent when they are asleep. Or unconscious. Or too drunk or high to know what’s going on.
Canberra man found guilty of raping woman while she slept
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-02-04/canberra-man-guilty-raping-sleeping-woman/101931040
Let me mansplain: studies reveal impact of condescension
US research using actors and volunteers finds women have negative outcomes but men are less affected
https://www.theguardian.com/science/2023/feb/03/let-me-mansplain-studie…
The Toxic-Masculinity-Industrial Complex
How to Get Rich and Famous by Being an Abusive Creep on the Internet, and Why That Needs to Change
By Umair Haque @umairh
https://eand.co/the-toxic-masculinity-industrial-complex-46663fd55fc6
Anti-feminist “men’s rights” groups are heavily involved in the gun rights movement, major contributors to racist practices and discourses, and active participants in efforts to criminalize and curtail women’s access to abortion.
Journal article, free: https://digitalcommons.uri.edu/dignity/vol7/iss3/5/
The misogynistic men making money for social media giants: Fury as TikTok and YouTube continue to host Andrew Tate-inspired influencers amassing millions of fans and charging up to £400 for tips on 'dominating women'
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-11615395/Fury-TikTok-YouTube-h…
What does it mean to get 'woman'd'?
There's a depressing inevitability when it comes to the short online life cycle of famous women.
By Rayne Fisher-Quann
https://i-d.vice.com/en/article/y3pv5k/what-does-it-mean-to-get-womand
“Male supremacist and alt-right grifters are using mental health to exploit male vulnerability and discontent, but their wellness rhetoric effectively functions as a Trojan horse to smuggle in more sinister agendas.. a return to pre-feminist gender roles"
https://archive.is/20230124072822/https://www.irishtimes.com/opinion/2023/01/24/why-influencers-like-andrew-tate-want-your-sons-attention/
“This vision of self-improvement is all about disconnection from emotion, local community and indeed the planet […] It is relentlessly individualistic and utterly devoid of empathy, vulnerability, generosity or creativity.”
Eight Women Say the Same Man Raped or Assaulted Them. Now They’re Out for Justice
When the system failed to help them, these survivors banded together and took matters into their own
Rolling Stone magazine
https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/women-rape-assaul… @RollingStone
These are the Australian occupations that continue to be segregated by gender
Women continue to remain in occupations that have traditionally been regarded as female-dominated. A new report says this gender segregation needs to be addressed.
https://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/these-are-the-australian-occupation…
Indigenous Protesters Campaign to Make "Chineo" A Hate Crime in Argentina
Women and Indigenous groups denounce widespread sexual violence perpetrated against Indigenous girls and women in northern Argentina.
https://nacla.org/indigenous-campaign-chineo-hate-crime-argentina
The Chilling: Global trends in online violence against women journalists
UNESCO paper on the sharp increase in online violence against women journalists. These attacks are bound up with disinformation, intersectional discrimination, and populist politics.
https://reliefweb.int/report/world/chilling-global-trends-online-violence-against-women-journalists
Andrew Tate: 1) Tate’s normalization of misogyny harms girls and young women.
Many young men are confused and lonely. But rather than encourage them to develop the interpersonal and relational skills that would improve their lives...
https://msmagazine.com/2023/01/09/andrew-tate-boys-gender-masculinity/ @jacksontkatz
1/5
But rather than encourage them to develop the interpersonal and relational skills that would improve their lives, Tate teaches them to double down on tired cliches and cartoonish images of ‘manly’ strength and success. Tate and others advise young men to treat women badly.
2/5
Tate's and others' teachings produce young men who believe that men’s emotional and sexual needs come first, and that women’s most important role is to serve men.
3/5
At time when growing numbers of girls and women expect equal treatment and respect, this is a recipe for conflict if not sexual violence.
4/5
2) The ideal of “manhood” Tate promotes harms boys and young men.
Tate teaches boys selfish materialism, harassment, and control. Whereas boys need to develop skills in emotional intelligence, to thrive in relationships and at work.
5/5
3 in 4 people experience abuse on dating apps. How do we balance prevention with policing?
By Professor Kath Albury and Daniel Reeders
https://theconversation.com/3-in-4-people-experience-abuse-on-dating-ap…
Tinder launches safety feature to outline ‘house rules’ to protect daters
The popular dating app has launched a new safety feature aimed at protecting users from abuse.
News story: https://www.news.com.au/technology/online/social/tinder-launches-safety…
The safety guide: https://techsafety.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2023/01/Tinder-WESNET-Dati… @WESNETAustralia
‘Watch this creep’: the women exposing gym harassment on TikTok
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/feb/01/gym-weirdos-tiktok…
Contraception and gender equality: Data from 33 countries finds that increasing gender equality is positively associated with contraceptive use among both adolescent males and females. Including when controlling for national wealth and income equality. [Plus graphic, de Looze, Country-Level Gender Equality and Adolescents’ Contraceptive Use 2019 – Abstract]
“Nothing” is still something
Aggression against women comes in many forms
By Victoria Smith @glosswitch
https://thecritic.co.uk/nothing-is-still-something/
Tweets in January 2023
Online dating safety: we need more than ID verification
By Kat Berney, for Broad Agenda https://www.broadagenda.com.au/2023/online-dating-safety-we-need-more-t… via @BroadAgenda5050
A CALL TO MEN 2023 WITH TONY PORTER
Join us for this INTERNATIONAL CONVERSATION with renowned speaker Tony Porter, a leading voice on issues of manhood, male socialization, and preventing violence against all women and girls
2/16/2023 12:00pm- 1:30pm (USA)
https://web.myle.com/eid/f0WCWiM7R1O6OU
Violence Against Jacinda Ardern and Other Women Political Leaders Is an Attack on Democracy Itself
By Jackson Katz, Ms Magazine
https://msmagazine.com/2023/01/31/jacinda-ardern-violence-women/ @msmagazine @jacksontkatz
Should misogyny (women-hating) be included in hate crime legislation (UK)? Deborah Cameron has doubts, as misogyny works differently e.g. from racism or homophobia. https://debuk.wordpress.com/2021/03/29/whats-in-a-frame-misogyny-hate/ @wordspinster 1/2
“Misogyny, in short … is not a generalised hatred of women, but rather the punishment of women who refuse to stay in their subordinate place or to meet what men regard as their obligations.” @wordspinster https://debuk.wordpress.com/2021/03/29/whats-in-a-frame-misogyny-hate/ 2/2
Ijeoma Oluo’s “Mediocre” Explores the Disaster of White Male Supremacy. https://www.bitchmedia.org/article/ijeoma-oluo-mediocre-white-men-review @BitchMedia
Mediocre reveals how well-trodden American stories of “meritocracy” and “rugged individualism” have served to reinforce the false image of white American men as supermasculine heroes while blaming marginalized groups for their own dispossession and dehumanization.
A daughter asks her dad if she can use his tools. You bet! Who knows how it will end… [Plus graphic, Dad can I use your tools]
Sex Is Not A Substitute For Masturbating. Women are still encouraged to see masturbation as shameful, or as a consolation prize for sex. It’s time to end that. By Samantha Mann, Nov. 2018.
https://theestablishment.co/sex-is-not-a-substitute-for-masturbating/
Sexism in politics: A sexist culture is firmly entrenched in Australian politics. It’s hard for women who suffer sexism and harassment within politics to do much about it from within. Male political leaders must step up, and show leadership and integrity https://thenewdaily.com.au/opinion/2021/07/05/julia-banks-politics-sexi…
#TradWives: sexism as gateway to white supremacy
The TradWives debate is a new and effective recruiting tool for the growing intersection between toxic masculinity and white supremacy.
https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/countering-radical-right/tradwives-sex…
To Learn About the Far Right, Start With the ‘Manosphere’
The sexist world has become a recruiting ground for potential mass shooters.
By Helen Lewis, 2019.
https://www.theatlantic.com/international/archive/2019/08/anti-feminism…
Why Understanding The UK Anti-Feminist Movement Is Vital To Countering The Far Right
Manosphere ideas have snowballed into an ideology that has taken on a life of its own, and for some it has served as a route into wider far-right politics (2019).
https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/anti-feminist-movement-far-right…
Media reporting on violence against women: This website by @OurWatchAus support the media to step up and play its part in preventing violence against women and their children. Features resources for journalists, presenters, and journalism educators. https://media.ourwatch.org.au/
Toolkit for work with male victims of domestic violence: By Respect UK (2019), this toolkit is for male victims (whether in heterosexual or same-sex relationships). See https://www.respect.uk.net/resources/19-respect-toolkit-for-work-with-male-victims-of-domestic-abuse
Violence prevention and respectful relationships: Useful resources by @OurWatchAus designed to support those working with young people to promote positive, equal & respectful relationships. Primers on violence against women, its causes, gender, power, etc. https://www.theline.org.au/practitionersandeducators
Shifting the line: By creating spaces for problem-posing discussions with small groups of boys and young men, it may be possible to support and nurture them towards a more critical perspective on gender and on the ethics of online communication. See https://www.shiftingtheline.ac.nz/
@NicolaGavey @Octavia_CD @j_legrice @DeepFriedDreams
Vulga Drawings: An excellent series of drawings, cartoons, and videos by Lily O’Farrell, often on topics of gender, masculinity, etc.
Check them out at https://www.instagram.com/vulgadrawings/
Engaging men in care and domestic work in Nepal related to water, sanitation, and hygiene: New report on the positive impacts of a community project, described in this 8-page brief: https://snv.org/assets/explore/download/2023-NP-engaging-men-transform-gender-roles-wash-snv.pdf @SNVworld [Plus graphic, SNV, Engaging men to transform gender roles in WASH 2023 – Cover]
‘Gay glass ceiling’: why effeminate men get passed over for leadership roles
Masculine bias is present among gay and straight men, according to new research, and it’s having an effect on feminine men’s careers.
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jan/30/gay-glass-ceiling-…
The ‘merit trap’: We are drawn to those who think, look and act like us. This can be a problem for women working in male dominated environments, where gender bias disadvantages women and advantages men.
http://malechampionsofchange.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/MCC-CEW-Merit-Paper-FINAL.pdf
[Plus graphic, CEW & Male Champions of Change, Avoiding the merit trap Aug 2016 p.6]
So:
Reflect on your use of merit.
Evaluate candidates based on potential as well as on past performance.
Use processes that minimise bias.
Check your idea of the ‘best’ candidate’.
Check the job description. Etc.
Examples of companies taking action, pp. 8-11.
@champs_change
Mapping the Ideological Landscape of Extreme Misogyny
A detailed quantitative analysis of different misogynist communities online
https://icct.nl/publication/mapping-ideological-landscape-extreme-misog…
Pick Up Artists and “The Game”: Nice illustrated critique by Lily O’Farrell, part of her satirical cartoon project, Vulga Drawings
https://www.instagram.com/p/ChAgdhaIYhp/
#NotAllMen fails to understand the role we play in holding abusive men to account
Why are so few men engaging in the issue of violence against women?
https://davidchallen.substack.com/p/rewind-notallmen-fails-to-understand @David_Challen
Also see further responses to #NotAllMen here: https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-violence-prevention-key-resou…
This is part of the page on the pro-feminist website XY on men’s positive roles in ending men’s violence against women.
A significant number of mass attacks are motivated by misogyny, new Secret Service report finds
96% of the attackers were male. Nearly half had a history of domestic violence, misogynistic behaviors, or both.
https://www.wehuntedthemammoth.com/2023/01/26/a-significant-number-of-m… @DavidFutrelle
Report: https://www.secretservice.gov/protection/ntac
Engaging boys is a critical yet under-explored area of violence prevention in emergencies.
This annotated bibliography provides an overview of relevant literature, evaluations, and programmatic examples for engaging boys in GBV prevention programming.
https://www.sddirect.org.uk/resource/annotated-bibliography-engaging-bo…
Work to engage men and boys in gender equality can have positive results for women’s rights and other social justice causes. At the same time, despite good intentions, it can cause harm when done without proper care. So accountability is key: https://menengage.org/our-work/accountability/ @MenEngage
One in 10 children ‘have watched pornography by time they are nine’
Report by children’s commissioner for England finds worrying amount of content involves violence
Guardian article: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/jan/31/one-in-10-children-have-watched-pornography-by-time-they-are-nine
Full report: https://www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk/report/a-lot-of-it-is-actually…
#Pornography #Violence
No-one should live in fear of abuse.
Let’s all be part of the change. Everyone can do something to challenge the abuse of women and girls.
Campaign "Enough", UK, here: https://enough.campaign.gov.uk/
Sexual violence prevention with men and boys: some features. Much of the work is conducted by feminist and women’s rights organisations and networks (that’s good). It is siloed, largely separate from efforts addressing intimate partner violence (that's bad). 1/3 [Plus graphic, Flood, Sexual Violence Prevention with Men and Boys as a Social Justice Issue 2022 – Title]
Little work addresses pornography and prostitution. Much of the prevention work is conducted through face-to-face education, and to a lesser extent social marketing and communications. More macro strategies are rare. 2/3
Little work addresses key sites of sexual exploitation including pornography and prostitution. Much of the prevention work is conducted through face-to-face education, and to a lesser extent social marketing and communications, while more macro strategies are rare. 2/3
Deployment is uneven: for example, rape prevention education is well established on university campuses in the USA, but not at all in Australia.
This free book chapter on sexual violence prevention explores the field, its strategies, its challenges: https://xyonline.net/content/sexual-violence-prevention-men-and-boys-social-justice-issue
3/3
France struggles to shake off everyday sexism, particularly among young men
https://rfi.my/95v6.T via
@RFI_En
Andrew Tate: research has long shown how feminist progress is always followed by a misogynistic backlash
By Lisa Sigiura
https://theconversation.com/andrew-tate-research-has-long-shown-how-feminist-progress-is-always-followed-by-a-misogynistic-backlash-197433
Sexism in France is ‘alarming’ and getting worse, says report
Survey finds women targeted by online harassment, together with male ‘backlash’ towards #MeToo
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jan/23/sexism-in-france-is-alarm…
Why influencers like Andrew Tate want your sons’ attention
Wellness rhetoric functions as a Trojan horse to smuggle in a more sinister agenda.
By Associate Professor Debbie Ging
https://archive.is/20230124072822/https://www.irishtimes.com/opinion/20… @debbieging
Don’t Be Mad, but I’m a Feminist Who Decided to Write a Book About Men
By Liz Plank, 2019
(On the book "For the Love of Men - A New Vision for Mindful Masculinity")
https://www.glamour.com/story/liz-plank-book-essay
One Way To Stop Andrew Tates: Stop Hating Women.
Andrew Tate and the “Manosphere” Show How Far Hating Women Can Get You.
https://www.teenvogue.com/story/andrew-tate-arrested-oped @TeenVogue
What’s the Matter with Men?
They’re floundering at school and in the workplace. Some conservatives blame a crisis of masculinity, but the problems—and their solutions—are far more complex. (A critical response to Reeves' book "Of Boys and Men")
https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2023/01/30/whats-the-matter-with-men
Why does the media fail to hold violent men to account?
Headlines often focus on the perceived faults of the women killed by men, and never on the real issue – male violence.
By David Challen @David_Challen
https://www.aljazeera.com/opinions/2020/11/10/the-media-has-failed-to-h…
Gender: Among young people aged 16-24 in Australia, males are more likely to support male dominance in relationships. “Women prefer a man to be in charge of the relationship.” 38% of males agree, 31% of females. Full report, p. 46: https://www.vic.gov.au/new-research-young-australians-attitudes-violence-against-women-and-gender-equality
MRAs, men’s rights and right-wing movements: “Most white supremacist groups are male supremacist groups.” https://newrepublic.com/article/147744/rise-male-supremacist-groups. For more, see this collection on the alt-right and MRAs: http://xyonline.net/content/alt-right-mens-anti-feminist-advocacy-and-masculinity-xy-collection
Donald Trump and masculinity: Trump has been seen by some as the personification of toxic masculinity: sexist, sleazy, hellbent on proving his masculinity, boastful, and insecure. Here is a collection of media commentaries on Trump and masculinity: https://xyonline.net/content/donald-trump-and-masculinity-xy-collection [Plus graphic, Trump Statue of Liberty]
Myth of merit’: The myth that men and women are hired & promoted based simply on merit, not sexist inequalities. UN Women report (2015): https://unwomen.org.au/merit-may-not-exist/
#Men, #Masculinities, & #Gender: Key concepts in the field of scholarship on men and masculinities. Full encyclopedia entries in the International Encyclopedia of Men and Masculinities (2007) here: https://www.academia.edu/444498/InternationalEncyclopediaofMenandMasculinities2007 [Plus graphic, Flood, International Encyclopedia - Key concepts]
Our Broken Definition of Masculinity Is Bad for Everybody
Liz Plank’s book “For the Love of Men” is widening the discussion of masculinity.
https://community.thriveglobal.com/arianna-huffington-masculinity-for-t…
Study: libertarians tend to support reproductive autonomy for men but not for women
Libertarianism among Americans is associated with opposition to women's reproductive autonomy & support for men's. Hostile sexism shapes this.
https://nordot.app/988413542242189312?c=592622757532812385
Study https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/pops.12867
Why don’t more men in Western countries wear skirts?
Western women have been wearing pants for decades now without it being socially stigmatising. So aren’t more Western men wearing skirts? Skirt-type garments are worn by men the world over.
https://theconversation.com/why-dont-more-men-wear-skirts-21899
Jameela Jamil's powerful speech on ending toxic masculinity
February 2019
https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/may-fight-generation-men-read-jameela-j…
Three reasons why local feminist movements offer solutions for gender equality and peace
By Maria Butler, Director of Global Programmes, Women’s International League for Peace and Freedom (WILPF), 2018
https://oecd-development-matters.org/2018/03/27/three-reasons-why-local…
Porn and media play part in sexual violence
In order to end rape, the world needs to end all those aspects of the patriarchal legacy that led to women’s objectification and submission.
https://www.newsroom.co.nz/2019/04/18/543085/porn-and-media-play-part-i…
How Men Get Penalized for Straying from Masculine Norms
Men, like women, face backlash when they don’t adhere to gender stereotypes — when they show vulnerability, act nicer, display empathy, express sadness, exhibit modesty, and proclaim to be feminists
https://hbr.org/2018/10/how-men-get-penalized-for-straying-from-masculi…
Want to be a true feminist ally? Learn from these men
A new generation of pro-feminist men is defying stereotypes and combating sexist violence. But more need to join them.
By Julie Bindel @bindelj
https://aljazeera.com/opinions/2023/1/20/want-to-be-a-true-feminist-all…
@David_Challen @MenAtWork_MC @byronhurt @MenVSexism
Ways to Address Hegemonic Masculinity and Gun Violence
IANSA Briefing Paper, February 2022 (English, French, Spanish), International Action Network on Small Arms
https://iansa.org/ways-to-address-hegemonic-masculinity-and-gun-violence-february-14-2022/
Boys aren’t losing role models – girls are
Responses to online misogyny have missed the point
https://thecritic.co.uk/Boys-arent-losing-role-models-girls-are/
Intimate partner rape: Excellent scholarly discussion and critique of six common myths, e.g. on why women stay in relationships with abusive men, why women delay or never report the rape, etc.
Full paper in PDF: https://www.dropbox.com/s/82fs2pszqhe2mnf/Lilley%2C%20Intimate%20Partne…
‘You had better be careful in your bed tonight’: shock rise in women killed by their sons
Violence by children against parents and grandparents is Britain’s hidden abuse, often misunderstood or ignored – until too late.
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/jan/15/women-killed-by-sons-vi…
Why more women working in construction could also make it a better workplace for men
Female tradies are still a rare breed, but their numbers are slowly growing. Both men and women in the industry say making it more family friendly would be better for all.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-20/men-women-in-construction-family…
Can women in Britain ever trust the police again? Here’s what must happen first
The Met’s failure to investigate David Carrick shows how little changed even after the murder of Sarah Everard. It’s time for radical reform
By Harriet Wistrich @HWistrich
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/jan/18/women-britain-tru…
It’s not about women’s safety, but about women’s *freedom*. Feminist linguist Deborah Cameron on men’s violence against women and how the problem is framed. https://debuk.wordpress.com/2021/03/14/when-words-fail-us/ @wordspinster
‘Cultural misogyny’ and why men’s aggression to women is so often expressed through sex. https://theconversation.com/cultural-misogyny-and-why-mens-aggression-t… via @ConversationEDU
Men’s work to end violence against women must be *accountable*. Because (1) struggles against oppression should be led by those who are oppressed; (2) the oppressed have a better understanding of the system than the privileged. See pp. 92-96 of FREE book: https://xyonline.net/content/new-book-engaging-men-and-boys-violence-prevention [Plus graphic, Flood, Engaging Men and Boys in Violence Prevention - Accountability excerpt]
#MRAs #Mensrights: They gain support from right-wing backlashes against efforts at social justice. They co-opt the language of equality and rights to misrepresent themselves as victims. They deny scholarly research and empirical evidence.
Chapter: http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Flood%2C%20Backlash%20-%20…
Engaging men makes a crucial difference to our efforts to build gender equality at work. Whether a man wears a hard hat and a high-vis vest, or a suit and tie, he can make a difference. “Men Make a Difference” report, summarised here: https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-workplaces-building-gender-eq…
What do we know about violence perpetration? Who uses domestic, family, and sexual violence? What are the drivers of perpetration? What are the typical trajectories of perpetration?
Keynote, Working with Men to End Family Violence Conference, Feb. 16. See https://bit.ly/3imeThZ
‘Red-pill’ misogyny is thriving – here's how Muslim women are challenging it in their communities
https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/red-pill-misogyny-opinion-muslim-women
Three-Quarters of Teenagers Have Seen Online Pornography by Age 17
Sexually explicit content has become so prevalent online that teenagers are deluged, according to a new report by a nonprofit child advocacy group
https://www.nytimes.com/2023/01/10/technology/porn-teens-online-report…
Attention men: How to become an ally for women’s rights.
An excellent primer on men as allies in the workplace, from the Association for Women in Science. What allies are, what allyship involves. https://www.awis.org/attention-men-ally/ @AWISNational
Also see the XY collection on men's positive roles in building workplace gender equality, here: https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace
Tip sheets, reports, and more.
Violent Misogyny in Policing and Violent Misogyny in Society
It’s not a bad apple, it’s a rotting orchard, writes Sian Norris – as a Met police officer admits to being a serial rapist
Two interlinked problems: misogyny in policing, and misogyny in society
https://bylinetimes.com/2023/01/16/violent-misogyny-in-policing-violent…
"the police is institutionally misogynistic because its structures are built on pillars of patriarchal power, violence and authority. The system has become a place which some men choose to exploit in order to access vulnerable women – and it’s a system which gives cover to" them
Misogyny in policing reflects misogyny in society. "There is a culture of impunity when it comes to men’s violence against women and girls."
"Not all men hate and harm women, but society persistently fails to punish and hold to account those who do."
Don’t tell me that David Carrick’s crimes were ‘unbelievable’. The problem is victims aren’t believed
Another criminally misogynist police officer pleads guilty, and officials voice surprise. No wonder women feel betrayed.
By Marina Hyde
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/jan/17/david-carricks-cr…
The Conversation You Must Have With Your Sons
Many parents have the "Don't get raped" conversations with their daughters, but not the "Don't rape" conversations with their sons. We must.
By Carina Kolodny
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/the-conversation-you-must-have-with-your…
Also see this collection on the pro-feminist website XY on how to raise non-violent, gender-equitable, and feminist sons (and on parenting more generally): https://xyonline.net/content/raising-feminist-sons-xy-collection
A self-care guide for change-makers and peacebuilders during COVID-19. As we seek to address complex challenges in our communities, this brief guide outlines basic recommendations for ways we can take care of ourselves and our households. https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5d0d32005d7640000177b27d/t/5e9ca…
What is really radical in sex/gender politics? Radical feminist critiques of prostitution, pornography, and transgender ideology should be part of a consistent, coherent left analysis, Professor Robert Jensen argues. https://culturico.com/2020/07/26/what-is-really-radical-in-sex-gender-politics/
One way to improve sex ed for kids: provide sex ed for parents too. By Jenna Price @JennaPrice. https://www.theage.com.au/education/one-way-to-improve-sex-ed-for-kids-…
Gender, power, progress: How norms change. @ALIGN_Gender (Advancing Learning & Innovation on Gender Norms) examines how gender norms have changed over the past 25 years, what has supported and blocked changes, and how to accelerate and entrench change. https://www.alignplatform.org/
Traditional gender expectations limit our children, causing problems such as lower self-esteem and body image in girls and poorer reading skills, higher suicide, and violence among boys. UK report, Unlimited Potential (2020): https://www.fawcettsociety.org.uk/unlimited-potential-the-final-report-of-the-commission-on-gender-stereotypes-in-early-childhood @fawcettsociety
Parents are more uncomfortable with gender-nonconforming behaviors in boys, study finds. Parents are more comfortable with girls partaking in gender-nonconforming behavior than boys and attempt to change their sons’ behaviors more frequently.
psypost.org/2019/04/parents-more-uncomfortable-with-gender-nonconforming-behaviors-in-boys-study-finds-53540
Raising children more gender equitably: This Guidance Note provides guidance on how governments, civil society, and others can design and adapt programming and policy to shift patterns of restrictive gender socialization of boys and girls. https://www.equimundo.org/resources/understanding-how-to-raise-kids-mor… @equimundo_org
Raising sons to embrace healthy, positive masculinity: This 7-page guide offers parents simple practical tips to talk to their sons about healthy masculinity, and encourage positive beliefs & behaviours from early on. https://jss.org.au/raising-sons-to-embrace-healthy-positive-masculinity/ @PlanGlobal @PlanUSA @equimundo_org
Also see this XY collection on how we can raise boys who are equitable and respectful: https://xyonline.net/content/raising-feminist-sons-xy-collection. Links to short guides and tip sheets, resources for parents, and public campaigns.
Engaging men in gender-transformative change: 3 new learning briefs from @PlanCanada and @equimundo_org on how to: frame programs to maximize recruitment and retention; ensure high-quality facilitation; and build inclusive programs: https://www.equimundo.org/engaging-men-in-reducing-maternal-newborn-and…
How Business Can Engage Men as Allies for Gender Equality. Businesses can shift men’s individual behavior, commit to inclusive organizations, and use their external influence to shape new social norms (Mar 2020). https://ssir.org/articles/entry/how_business_can_engage_men_as_allies_f… @aliceallan3 @coopermarianne
For more on men's positive roles in building gender equality in workplaces, see this XY collection: https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace. Including e.g. the report "Men Make a Difference" (Diversity Council of Australia), free in PDF, and much more.
Today’s Masculinity Is Stifling. As boys grow up, the process of becoming men encourages them to shed the sort of intimate connections and emotional intelligence that add meaning to life. By Sarah Rich, 2018. https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/06/imagining-a-better-b…
Parental leave: Why we need to talk about fatherhood. Handy, research-based account of the benefits of paternity leave for children, fathers and households; the barriers to fathers taking paternity leave; and how to remove these barriers. https://www.gendereconomy.org/parental-leave-why-we-need-to-talk-about-… @GenderEconomy [Plus graphic, He, Parental leave Why we need to talk about fatherhood 2019 Infographic – Barriers]
Power and Control Wheel: The ‘power and control wheel’ is a widely used and insightful depiction of the strategies of power and control often used by abusers against their partners. Domestic violence typically involves a range of strategies of power and control. [With graphic, Power and Control wheel - Domestic Abuse Intervention Programs]
Equality Wheel: The ‘equality wheel’ is an invaluable representation of what intimate relationships *should* look like. The opposite of the Power and Control Wheel. Healthy relationships involve more than the absence of violence. [Plus graphic, Equality wheel - Domestic Abuse Intervention Programs]
Men’s rape and sexual assault of women: Is the expression of gender socialisation, gender role expectations, and violence-supportive social norms. Useful scholarly overview, here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-04/Gidycz%2C%20Rape%20and%20Sexual%20Assault%20Victimization%202016.pdf [Plus graphic, Gidycz, Rape and Sexual Assault Victimization 2016 p. 461]
Conspiracy theory #12: Why there are no good men
“We’d love to let you live, Mac, but you make the rest of us look bad…”
“I understand.” [Plus graphic, Conspiracy theory - Why there are no good men]
Preventing sexual violence through education: What does effective practice in consent education in schools look like? What is the evidence of effectiveness? And, can comprehensive sexuality education contribute to preventing sexual violence? (Yes). See https://xyonline.net/content/best-practice-consent-education
Prioritising women’s safety in men’s behaviour change programs: Mapping the purpose and practices of partner contact. Key findings and future directions. Includes report and practice guide: https://www.anrows.org.au/publication/prioritising-womens-safety-in-australian-perpetrator-interventions-mapping-the-purpose-and-practices-of-partner-contact-key-findings-and-future-directions/ @ANROWS
My Dignity: A resource for people who have experienced sexualised violence or people who would like to learn more. By Insight Exchange (Australia), intended to inform and strengthen social, service and systemic responses to domestic and family violence. https://www.insightexchange.net/wp-content/uploads/2020/07/My-Dignity-My-body-is-mine-First-Edition2694.pdf [Plus graphic, Insight Exchange DVSM, My Dignity - sexualised violence (2020) – Cover]
Masculinity and Violent Extremism: I'm delighted to announce publication of this new book, with co-authors @DrJoshuaRoose, Alan Greig, Mark Alfano @moral_psych, and @SimonCopland
Free in PDF here: https://xyonline.net/content/masculinity-and-violent-extremism 1/2
The book "gives a persuasive account of the role of masculinity in far right, jihadism and anti-women movements".
A "must read for anyone wanting to understand the role masculinities play in violent extremist groups of diverse ideologies—far right, Islamist and far left". 2/2
Understanding abuse: The Ryan Giggs trial in the UK shows we still need to educate juries about coercive control.
By Jean Hatchet @JeanHatchet
https://thecritic.co.uk/understanding-abuse/
Women are credited less in science than men
The gap in the number of publications produced by women and men in science is in part the result of unacknowledged contributions: women in research teams are less likely than men to be credited with authorship.
https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-022-04966-w?fbclid=IwAR19B5sX7UiPOZeUhVmQeg9JXpOCb3VCn3JH6zGuCcB8CBkKLrI1ywbPfDk [Plus graphic, Ross, Women are credited less in science than men 2022 – Abstract]
Also see the piece, Sexism in the Academy: An excellent, detailed account of how male dominance in the academy and scholarship is sustained (2019). https://nplusonemag.com/issue-34/essays/sexism-in-the-academy/ via @nplusonemag.
I summarised it here: https://twitter.com/MichaelGLFlood/status/1359271844671459328
On Violence against Women or Why You Should Stop Asking “What about Men?”
By Liza Caruana-Finkel
https://www.islesoftheleft.org/on-violence-against-women-or-why-you-sho…
Explainer: what does ‘gaslighting’ mean?
By Jessamy Gleeson
https://theconversation.com/explainer-what-does-gaslighting-mean-107888 @ConversationEDU
It *is* possible to make long-term change in rates of violence against women. Study over 20 years finds a genuine decrease in intimate partner violence among Nicaraguan women, likely through structural interventions. https://gh.bmj.com/content/5/4/e002339.abstract [Plus graphic, Ellsberg, Long-term change in the prevalence of intimate partner violence Nicaragua 2020 – Abstract]
Working with young people to promote respectful, healthy relationships? The brilliant violence prevention organisation Our Watch has put together an excellent guide to key resources for practitioners and educators. See https://www.theline.org.au/educators-and-practitioners/ @OurWatchAus
Violence against women: 6 problems with focusing only on telling women how to maximise their safety
1) This fails to hold perpetrators accountable for their behaviour, and locates responsibility with the potential victims.
2) Women *already* use a multitude of such strategies 1/4
3) It accepts that some men will use violence, rather than focusing on how to prevent and reduce this, and places the burden on women to police and limit their lives.
4) The strategies are false assurances. Women may ‘do everything right’ and still be assaulted.
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5) The strategies typically focus on potential assaults on women by unknown men and in public places, whereas most assaults are by men known to the victim (boyfriends, husbands, male acquaintances, etc.) and in familiar locations. 3/4
6) Such a focus does nothing to *prevent* men’s violence against women, by tackling the gender inequalities and patriarchal gender norms at its heart.
For key reviews of and guides to violence prevention, in full text, see the XY collection here: http://xyonline.net/content/preventing-violence-against-women-xy-collection-key-reports-and-reviews 4/4
‘Home is the most dangerous place for women,’ but private and public violence are connected
By Professor Myrna Dawson
https://theconversation.com/home-is-the-most-dangerous-place-for-women-…
True or false? Men and women face violence in their relationships equally (False)
By Professor C. Nadine Wathen
https://theconversation.com/true-or-false-men-and-women-face-violence-i…
Sex robots increase the potential for gender-based violence
By Professor Judy Iles and Farhad Udwadia
https://theconversation.com/sex-robots-increase-the-potential-for-gende…
The Fight for Women’s Rights is a Fight Against Authoritarianism
By Macarena Saez @msaez_torres
https://www.hrw.org/news/2023/01/04/fight-womens-rights-fight-against-authoritarianism
Gender as a social structure: Gender operates at individual, interactional, and macro levels of society. Professor Barbara Risman integrates the three in her excellent chapter in the “Handbook of the Sociology of Gender”, Chapter 2 here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-11/Risman%2C%20Handb… [Plus graphic, Risman, Gender as a social structure, Fig 1 p. 32]
For university-level introductions to gender, see the works listed here, many free in PDF: https://xyonline.net/books/bibliography/4-introductory-and-general-writing-gender/introductions-and-overviews
This includes chapter-length introductions and entire books. Enjoy
Mansplaining: the act of a man’s unsolicited explaining, generally to a woman, something he thinks he knows more about than she does, whether he knows anything or not. Mansplaining is an expression of widespread patriarchal inequalities. https://www.nytimes.com/2020/09/09/us/why-are-men-still-explaining-things-to-women-mansplaining-authority-gender.html 1/5
Mansplaining “crushes young women into silence… It trains us in self-doubt and self-limitation just as it exercises men’s unsupported overconfidence.” As Kate Manne explores in her book “Entitled”. 2/5
Mansplaining is based on “the presumption that a woman will be less knowledgeable, less competent and somehow in need of a man to explain things to her”, and “the sense of entitlement of certain privileged men to be the expert, the knower in the exchange”. 3/5
Whereas women are socialized to be pleasing and polite, to not embarrass men, to provide a pleasant audience to men, one that does not interrupt them. https://www.nytimes.com/2020/09/09/us/why-are-men-still-explaining-things-to-women-mansplaining-authority-gender.html 4/5
Seven Studies That Prove Mansplaining Exists. Find that: Women get interrupted more than men. 2. Men interrupt women to assert power. 3. Men dominate conversations during work meetings. 4. Men and boys dominate conversation in classrooms. Etc. (2014) https://www.dropbox.com/s/cr3wooo7vsku02m/Bitchmedia.org%2C%20Seven%20S… 5/5
“What about men?”: Dr Jessica Eaton set up a charity for male mental health, and never got much “What about women’s mental health?!” abuse. But she *routinely* gets ‘whataboutery’-based abuse in response to her work on women and girls.
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Any commentary, research, or attention on women and girls gets a “What about men?” response.
Why the contrast? It’s (patriarchal) sexism. It is resistance to any idea that women and women’s issues can be the focus in their own right.
Article: https://www.dropbox.com/s/3cr0hsk2z2xnl9t/Eaton%2C%20%27Stop%20asking%2… @DrJessTaylor
How Gaslighting Manipulates Reality
Gaslighting isn’t just between people in a relationship—it involves social power, too
By Dr Paige L. Sweet @paigelsweet
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/how-gaslighting-manipulates-reality/
Gaslighting: a type of psychological abuse aimed at making victims seem or feel “crazy”. It is rooted in social inequalities, including gender, and executed in power-laden intimate relationships. Useful sociological account by Dr Paige Sweet @paigelsweet
https://www.dropbox.com/s/u10ldd6fnzge5i3/Sweet%2C%20The%20Sociology%20of%20Gaslighting%202019.pdf?dl=0 [Plus abstract, Sweet, The Sociology of Gaslighting 2019 – Abstract]
Women’s levels of sexual desire in their relationships are shaped by how equal the relationship is. Greater equality in relationships (greater equity in power) leads to higher relationship satisfaction, which leads to higher sexual desire for partners.
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00224499.2022.2079111 [plus graphic, Johansen, Fairer Sex - The Role of Relationship Equity in Female Sexual Desire 2022 – Discussion]
What African feminist movements are up against in 2023
Emboldened by the overturning of Roe v Wade, Western conservative movements are dialling up their Africa campaigns
https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/5050/african-feminism-2023-threats/
Kids stay at home longer and parents live longer — 'sandwich generation' women care for them both
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2023-01-11/sandwich-generation-women-caring…
Gaslighting: Allegations of gaslighting are common these days. But concept creep has expanded the original idea of gaslighting, genuinely sinister behaviour, to include more mundane behaviour. It’s now applied too often simply to disagreeing with someone.
By Kathleen Stock
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When you are arguing with someone, you are almost always trying to convince them they are wrong. (And often, they are not actually wrong.)
In turn, the accusation of gaslighting can itself be inaccurate, or motivated by bad intent.
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Finally, some people are clinging to potentially mistaken beliefs or even outright delusions, and letting go of such apparent ‘realities’ would be a good thing.
https://unherd.com/2022/08/the-problem-with-gaslighting/ @Docstockk
How We Avoid the Rise of Another 'Andrew Tate'
By Jackson Katz
https://msmagazine.com/2023/01/09/andrew-tate-boys-gender-masculinity/ via @msmagazine #AndrewTate
If We’re Against Toxic Masculinity, Guys, What Are We For? Dan Miller writes, I am the father of boys. This moment is pushing me to try raise them into men who reject toxic masculinity. Not to mention overcome my own struggles with it. https://voicemalemagazine.org/toxic-masculinity-guys/ @voicemalemag
How streaming media services (‘OTT’) in India Shifted Popular Representations of Masculinity (OTT content has been instrumental in furthering the characterisation of its leading men beyond one-tone man-children or know-it-all macho men.)
https://www.filmcompanion.in/readers-articles/how-ott-in-india-shifted-popular-representations-of-masculinity-tvf-netflix/
MAGA men are weak. So desperate to prove their ‘strength’. Unable to withstand peer pressure. Risking their lives just to flex in the face of a deadly pandemic. But here is what strong men actually do… https://johnpavlovitz.com/2020/08/08/maga-men-are-weak/
New report and toolkit on masculine gender norms, the central role they play in issues such as violence against women & girls and men’s health & wellbeing, and how to engage men and boys in changing them. UK Government. See: https://xyonline.net/content/uk-report-published-engaging-men-and-boys-… @GEOgovuk @the_daily_panda
The ‘Man Box’ scale is designed to measure harmful masculinities among young men. It has construct validity. Study in the US, UK, and Mexico finds higher conformity to stereotypical masculinity is associated with violence perpetration & poor mental health. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0091743520302097 [Plus graphic, Hill, Harmful masculinities among younger men in three countries 2020 – Abstract]
Mapping norms of masculinity: Report on people’s attitudes in Australia, ‘Masculinities and Health’. Shows broad support for progressive understandings: Gender is socially constructed. Support for equality. But also support for regressive messages. See https://www.vichealth.vic.gov.au/-/media/ProgramsandProjects/HealthInequalities/Attachments/VicHealth-Attitudes-to-men-and-masculinity-report-July-2020.pdf 1/5 [Plus graphic, Flood, VicHealth Attitudes to men and masculinity report July 2020 – Cover]
Findings: Widespread agreement that traditional gender stereotypes are limiting and harmful for boys and men. They constrain men & prevent them from living full lives. Let's open up gender roles. Most people agree that progress towards gender equality will be good for men. 2/5
At the same time, when people are offered regressive, anti-feminist messages, substantial numbers agree. Eg., that “Criticising masculinity is unfair because most men are good and decent”. Other data also shows support for anti-feminist notions, pp. 26-30 of the report. 3/5
Young men (aged 16-17) show better attitudes than adult men, but typically more conservative than those of young and adult women. And have the *highest* levels of support for men’s use of violence, homophobia, breadwinner roles, and men’s power and control in relationships. 4/5
The full report is here: https://www.vichealth.vic.gov.au/-/media/ProgramsandProjects/HealthInequalities/Attachments/VicHealth-Attitudes-to-men-and-masculinity-report-July-2020.pdf . @VicHealth
For other materials on masculine norms in Australia and how to shift them, see the links at the bottom of https://xyonline.net/content/unpacking-and-reconstructing-masculine-nor…. 5/5
#MRAs / fathers’ rights groups privilege fathers’ contact with children over children’s safety. Try to discredit victims of violence, telling lies about false allegations. Try to protect perpetrators of domestic and family violence.
Journal article: https://xyonline.net/content/fathers-rights-and-defence-paternal-authority-australia [Plus graphic, Flood, ‘Fathers’ rights’ and the defence of paternal authority – Abstract]
MRAs and fathers’ rights groups try to wind back legal protections for domestic violence victims and sanctions against perpetrators. This is bad for female *and male* victims of domestic violence alike. See pp 339-40 of http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Flood%2C%20%27Fathers%27%20rights%27%20and%20defence%20of%20paternal%20authority.pdf [Plus graphic, Flood, ‘Fathers’ rights’ - Protecting perps]
The incel movement is deeply steeped in strong misogyny (women-hating) and traditional patriarchy. Incel-inspired violence is just one part of a larger culture that permits and celebrates sexual violence against women. (May 2021). https://www.healthing.ca/men/violent-incel-culture-is-not-mental-illnes…
The Dilemma of Babies on Airplanes
Hamstrung by the need to ensure that their kids don’t inconvenience anyone else, parents can’t do much parenting at all.
https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2022/12/parents-flying-with-…
We don’t need an “alternative Andrew Tate.” We need alternatives to Andrew Tate
https://www.wehuntedthemammoth.com/2023/01/04/we-dont-need-an-alternati…
13 Ways White Male Privilege Shows Up as Early as Elementary School. By Maisha Johnson, 2015. https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/12/early-white-male-privilege/ via @evrydayfeminism
What gay men’s attitudes to masculinity have taught me about womanhood | Matt Cain (2017). https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2017/nov/09/gay-men-attitude-masculinity-sexuality-women
Men in the military: It’s 2021. Why Are Only Men Required to Register for the Draft? Register women too! Or better yet, replace the military draft with national service open to all. By @RiaTabaccoMar, Director, @ACLU Women’s Rights Project. https://www.thenation.com/article/society/women-draft-registration-cong…
“Actually, Lou, I think it was more than just my being in the right place at the right time. I think it was my being the right race, the right religion, the right sex, the right socioeconomic group, having the right accent, the right clothes, going to the right schools...” [Plus graphic…]
Men on Screen: Over-Represented, Badly Portrayed
Although men are over-represented in media compared to women, they are often portrayed in narrow ways. Restrictive stereotypes of men encourage unhealthy relationships and police definitions of manhood.
https://context.newamerica.org/men-on-screen-over-represented-badly-por…
Violence prevention programs: Should address *both* domestic violence and sexual violence. Move beyond the silos. These forms of violence co-occur, have shared (and distinct) risk and protective factors, & prevention can impact both. See pp191-92 of book: https://xyonline.net/content/new-book-engaging-men-and-boys-violence-pr… [Plus graphic, Flood, Engaging Men and Boys in Violence Prevention 2018 p. 191]
Threatening, frightening, belittling or embarrassing a partner is serious and inexcusable. There’s #NoExcuseForAbuse in any relationship. Find out more: www.noexcuseforabuse.org.au @OurWatchAus [Plus graphic, Technological-abuse-poster]
Transforming gender for violence prevention: Valuable 16-page guide to gender-transformative approaches in violence prevention, written for practitioners. By Claire Varley and Stephanie Rich for Women’s Health Victoria, 2019. See https://whv.org.au/resources/whv-publications/towards-gender-transforma… [Plus graphic, Varley, Towards gender transformative change 2019 – Cover]
Attitudes to violence against women: We blame the wrong causes. We excuse domestic violence. We blame the victim. We see women as liars. This has to stop.
Short speech on Australians' attitudes to domestic violence: http://www.xyonline.net/content/australians-attitudes-towards-violence-…
Men’s #violence against women #VAW and men’s violence against other men are closely related. See p. 2 of this journal article in the Lancet: http://www.xyonline.net/content/new-journal-article-work-men-and-boys-changes-social-norms-and-reduction-inequities-gender-r
Violence against women #VAW: Attitudes to violence against women are important as they shape 1) perpetration, 2) responses to victimisation, and 3) others’ responses
Free journal article on attitudes to violence against women, by Flood and Pease: http://www.xyonline.net/content/factors-influencing-influences-violence… [Plus graphic, Flood Pease, Factors influencing]
Inclusive conferences? We can and must do better – here’s how. Alice Chautard reflects on how conferences can be planned to promote diversity of attendance and inclusivity of participation. Presents 10 insights from the best practice guide she developed. https://blogs.lse.ac.uk/impactofsocialsciences/2019/06/06/inclusive-conferences-we-can-and-must-do-better-heres-how/
White people acting in allyship or solidarity with people of color: Basic tactics. Leveraging your resources. Educating and mobilising other white people. “I would be a perfect ally if…” – rejecting tempting excuses for inaction or withdrawal. See https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-06/Kivel%2C%20Uproot… [Plus graphics, Kivel, Uprooting Racism - How White People Can Work for Racial Justice (2017) – Cover; Kivel, Uprooting Racism - How White People Can Work for Racial Justice (2017) - Part III Allies TOC]
"All lives matter." "Of course all lives matter. The point of the phrase is that black lives are being treated as expendable by the police and the government that employs them. If someone says "Save the rainforest", you don’t respond, ‘Actually, save ALL forests’, do you?" [Plus graphic, Black lives matter - all lives matter Rainforest]
From porn to true crime stories, we must end the portrayal of violence against women. (Society is full of structures that dehumanise and trivialise women, but we have the power to disrupt them.) https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2021/mar/16/porn-true-crime-violence-against-women
10 Reasons Not To Start An Onlyfans. 1. Screenshots, piracy, leaked images. 2. You will always be asked to do more…& you probably will. 3. Money is hard. 4. There’s a cost to becoming a sexual object. 5. Sexual harassment is a job requirement. 6. Stalkers https://www.iamatreasure.com/blog/only-fans
Sexually violent pornography is being promoted to first-time users of top sites. A comprehensive study by Dr Fiona Vera-Gray and Professor Clare McGlynn of Durham University uncovered worrying levels of access to violent pornography. https://www.thejournal.ie/readme/porn-5431234-May2021/
Don’t be THAT GUY who stands by and says nothing
Have a word. Be a mate and help stop sexual offending before it starts.
Excellent resources from @PoliceScotland: https://that-guy.co.uk/ @ThatGuyScotland #DontBeThatGuy
My life got easier after top surgery. Is this what male privilege looks like?
Since I visibly transitioned, things are better at work, there’s less struggle, and I earn more. It’s clear that inequality is real
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2020/mar/06/male-privilege-female-top-surgery-workplace
How to prove the gender pay gap to a non-believer
Jamila Rizvi provides an accessible account of some of the factors that shape the gender pay gap.
https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/how-to-prove-th…
A feminist and social justice approach to sexual violence prevention: 1) Addresses sexual violence as a social injustice; 2) Addresses the social inequalities at the root of this violence; and 3) Works for change through social action, including community empowerment & liberation
How much do efforts to engage men and boys in violence prevention meet these standards?
Free chapter in PDF here: https://xyonline.net/content/sexual-violence-prevention-men-and-boys-so…
My life got easier after top surgery. Is this what male privilege looks like?
Since I visibly transitioned, things are better at work, there’s less struggle, and I earn more. It’s clear that inequality is real
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2020/mar/06/male-privilege-female-top-surgery-workplace
How to prove the gender pay gap to a non-believer
Jamila Rizvi provides an accessible account of some of the factors that shape the gender pay gap.
https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/how-to-prove-th…
US survey: About 1 in 5 men (22%) say they were criticized during their childhood for not acting like a man or not being masculine enough. Young men are especially likely to report this: 37% of young men say they were criticized for… and 6% of senior men
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/
Discrimination Against Men: 41% of Americans agree that discrimination against men has become as big a problem as discrimination against women, but most (57%) disagree. About half (48%) of men say discrimination against men is equally prevalent, and about one-third (36%) of women
Young men are more than twice as likely as young women to view discrimination against men and women as equally problematic (52 percent vs. 25 percent).
Survey findings: https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/
“Masculinity” refers to the roles, behaviours and attributes seen as appropriate for boys and men in a given society.
The term “toxic masculinity” names a particular version that is harmful for the men and boys who conform to it and for those around them.
https://theconversation.com/toxic-masculinity-what-does-it-mean-where-d…
Pornography shapes users’ attitudes and behaviours. The longitudinal evidence consistently demonstrates this. Associations between #pornography and sexual attitudes and behaviours are *not* due to ‘selective exposure’. Wright (2021), in PDF here: https://www.dropbox.com/s/eqdyw32d1x3vtf4/Wright%2C%20Pornographic%20So…
[Plus graphic, Wright, Pornographic Socialization as “Selective‑Exposure” - Let it Go, Let it Go II 2021 Table 2]
‘Walking into a headwind’ – what it feels like for women building science careers
By Robyn Moore and Meredith Nash
https://theconversation.com/walking-into-a-headwind-what-it-feels-like-for-women-building-science-careers-102259
More Guns Do Not Stop More Crimes, Evidence Shows
More firearms do not keep people safe, hard numbers show. Why do so many Americans believe the opposite?
https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/more-guns-do-not-stop-more-crimes-evidence-shows/
(Also see the various studies on guns, violence, and crime summarised here: https://xyonline.net/content/guns-violence-and-masculinity-xy-collection.)
Why the sexual objectification of men isn’t just a bit of fun
By Peter Lucas
https://theconversation.com/why-the-sexual-objectification-of-men-isnt-just-a-bit-of-fun-103145
Sex robots epitomize patriarchy and offer men a solution to the threat of female independence
By Meghan Murphy, 2017
https://www.feministcurrent.com/2017/04/27/sex-robots-epitomize-patriarchy-offer-men-solution-threat-female-independence/ @MeghanEMurphy
All The Arguments You Need: To Convince Doubters of Feminism
By Pallavi Prasad, India, 2019
https://theswaddle.com/arguments-against-feminism-research-data/
Mobilizing misogyny: On the strong links between male supremacism (“men’s rights”), the alt right, and White supremacism.
By Alex Dibranco
Among the pieces collected here: https://xyonline.net/content/mens-rights-collection-accessible-critiques
Sexual Violence Prevention with Men and Boys as a Social Justice Issue
Initiatives engaging men and boys should tackle the social inequalities expressed and sustained by sexual violence, seeking to change patriarchal structures, norms, and practices.
Free: https://xyonline.net/content/sexual-violence-prevention-men-and-boys-social-justice-issue [Plus graphic, Flood, Sexual Violence Prevention with Men and Boys as a Social Justice Issue 2022 Table 1 recommendations]
Boundary setting: some useful sentences
[Plus graphic, Boundary setting]
Porn and violence against women: Viewing internet porn may contribute to real world violence against women through: a) its eroticisation of violent and degrading acts against women, and b) porn’s objectification and dehumanization of women and viewers’ use of moral disengagement. [Plus graphic, Bernstein, Beyond the screen 2021 – Abstract]
Making a Radical Misogynist: How online social engagement with the Manosphere influences traits of radicalization.
This paper explores how online users’ engagement with radical anti-feminist communities facilitates the adoption of extremist ideologies.
https://dl.acm.org/doi/abs/10.1145/3555551 [Plus graphic, Habib, Making a Radical Misogynist 2022 – Abstract]
When men ask more questions—a glimpse of ordinary sexism in the academic world
by Alecia Carter
https://theconversation.com/when-men-ask-more-questions-a-glimpse-of-or…
Gender inequality and violence in Jihadist, Far Right and Male Supremacist Ideologies
Recent cases of terrorist violence by jihadists, far right, & male supremacists share a common, yet underexplored feature – an anti-feminist and even misogynistic agenda
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/1057610X.2022.2104681
Conservative Men Place More Importance on Being Seen as Masculine
Most Americans say being viewed as masculine or feminine is not an important priority for them. But most conservative men (55%) say it is at least somewhat important, vs 30% of liberal men.
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/
Engaging men in progress towards gender equality: Government ministries and policy on gender equality should work to increase male allyship for equality. Promote real change in social & gender norms through a gender-transformative approach
https://headlines.menandgendersurvey.org/ @equimundo_org
Who Cares About America’s Male Caregivers? Laying the Groundwork for a National Strategy to Support Fathers.
Proposes a national effort toward greater equality and social justice in the US by focusing on men’s capacity to give care
https://www.equimundo.org/resources/who-cares-about-americas-male-careg… @equimundo_org
Men and Friendship: We’ve Got a Problem
How to make friends as an adult man: six road-tested tactics.
By Max Dickins @maxdickins
https://medium.com/@maxdickins/mens-friendships-5b9794d36a01
To the Andrew Tate disciples who feel downtrodden by society: straight white men are still winning
While it’s easy to mock these young men, we need everyone on board if we are to fix inequality, writes Zoya Patel
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/jan/02/to-the-andrew-tat…
More men want to be stay-at-home dads and better fathers. Why won’t politicians help them?
Data shows that many are ready to change their own lives and ultimately society. They just need policies to speed that process. By Jeremy Davies
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/jan/02/stay-at-home-dads…
Same-sex attraction: There has been a significant increase in the proportions of secondary school students in Australia who report same-sex attraction. The proportion reporting attraction to both sexes went from from 3.1% in 1997 to 34.8% in 2018. Report: https://opal.latrobe.edu.au/articles/book/National_Survey_of_Australian… [Plus graphic, Fisher, National Survey of Australian Secondary Students and Sexual Health 1992 – 2018 - Trends Over Time 2019 - Same-sex attraction trends]
Exculpatory Chauvinism: a phenomenon in which negative characteristics ascribed to men (e.g., insatiable sex drives, competitiveness, 'natural' aggression) are offered as acceptable justifications of men's dominance over women. [Plus graphic, Exculpatory chauvinism]
12 double standards that still exist for women in the US
https://www.insider.com/women-double-standards-sexism-2018-10 via @thisisinsider
Politics, Sex, and Sexuality: The Growing Gender Divide in American Life
Findings from the March 2022 American Perspectives Survey, including evidence of gender divides in sex and sexuality, porn, politics, friendship, etc.
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/
Men Who Watch Pornography More Often Feel Lonelier, More Insecure, and Dissatisfied with Their Personal Appearance (than men who watch pornography less often)
Including when controlling for age, ethnicity, gender, marital status, income, and education.
https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/march-2022-aps/
[Plus graphic, Cox, Politics, Sex, and Sexuality - The Growing Gender Divide in American Life April 2022 – Porn]
Feminism has positive effects, including for women with feminist identities and attitudes. Studies find they have higher levels of psychological wellbeing than other women, including on measures of purpose in life, autonomy, personal growth. Summaries: https://xyonline.net/content/feminism-good-women-response-some-common-m…
Change male academics to create gender parity, universities told
Institutions have long framed gender inequality as a problem with women, and have been ‘strangely silent’ about masculinity in academia, professor argues
October 16, 2020
https://www.timeshighereducation.com/news/change-male-academics-create-gender-parity-universities-told
Men who buy sex and men who sexually assault women: There is an overlap between the two. This article synthesises the research on this, comparing the risk factors for both sex buying and sexual violence. Download at https://www.dropbox.com/s/zr4aqsbfm8ofhgs/Cole%2C%20Purchasers%20and%20Perpetrators%20-%20A%20Theoretical%20Synthesis%20of%20The%20Risk%20Factors%20and%20Implications%20of%20Buying%20Sex%20for%20Sexual%20Violence%202022.pdf?dl=0
[Plus graphic, Cole, Purchasers and Perpetrators - A Theoretical Synthesis of The Risk Factors and Implications of Buying Sex for Sexual Violence 2022 – Abstract]
Men and gender equality: Many children grow up seeing their fathers dominate household decision-making.
On the other hand, care leads to care: Men whose fathers were involved in caregiving are more involved themselves.
https://headlines.menandgendersurvey.org/ @equimundo_org
PARENT European Manual – Promotion, Awareness Raising and Engagement of men in Nurture Transformations
A valuable tool for policy-makers and others working to promote changes in social attitudes and behaviour concerning gender roles in caregiving.
https://parent.ces.uc.pt/resource/parent-european-manual/
[Plus two graphics, Ferreira, PARENT European Manual Promotion, Awareness Raising and Engagement of men in Nurture Transformations 2022 - Father and child]
Why do so many men get away with rape? Police officers, survivors, lawyers and prosecutors on the scandal that shames the justice system
https://theconversation.com/why-do-so-many-men-get-away-with-rape-polic… via @ConversationUK
Suicide prevention for boys and men
The Buoy Project is testing seven different suicide prevention programs that target boys and men. The aim is to find out which programs might be most effective in reducing male suicide.
https://www.health.gov.au/news/suicide-prevention-for-boys-and-men
White Ribbon Australia’s Digital Barber Shop: A resource hub for men and boys who want to prevent men’s violence against women.
Resources on calling men in, parenting, relationships, sex, violence, etc.
https://www.whiteribbon.org.au/Learn-more/Digital-Barber-Shop @WhiteRibbonAust @WhiteRibbon_UK @WhiteRibbonIRL
Where are men around the world up to when it comes to their attitudes and practices related to gender roles and equality? Check out the 15 headlines from The International Men and Gender Equality Survey: https://headlines.menandgendersurvey.org/ (and download the full report there) @equimundo_org
Men and gender equality: 14 years of data from the International Men and Gender Equality Survey show that inequitable ideas about manhood and gender are alive and well.
Progress to equity is stalled: Younger men rarely have more gender-equitable attitudes than older men. 1/2
Many men support equality in the abstract but defend their privilege and the status quo in practice.
Women and men who grew up seeing gender equality in their households as children hold more equitable attitudes.
https://headlines.menandgendersurvey.org/ @equimundo_org
The year in patriarchy: a dancing PM, an ‘inclusive’ M&M, and lots of protests
By Arwa Mahdawi
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/dec/31/the-year-in-patri…
Incels are the new shock troops
Victoria Smith argues that the belief that men have the right to use female bodies in any way they see fit (that men are entitled to female bodies) is in fact a pervasive one, not a niche incel belief.
https://thecritic.co.uk/incels-are-the-new-shock-troops/ @glosswitch
Masculinities 101: Introductions to the research and theory behind the psychology of men and masculinities, from the Society For the Psychological Study of Men and masculinities, American Psychological Association
https://www.division51.net/masculinities101
Greta Thunberg ends year with one of the greatest tweets in history | Rebecca Solnit
Thunberg’s funny exchange is a reminder of the connection between machismo, misogyny and hostility to climate action
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/dec/31/greta-thunberg-an…
A more generous embrace: Why addressing the needs of adolescent boys and men is essential to an effective humanitarian response in Cameroon’s North West and South West. WILPF, GenCap and NorCap.
https://www.wilpf.org/mmffp_documents/a-more-generous-embrace/
The Future of Work: Will Remote Work Help or Hinder the Pursuit of Equality?
Report by the Institute for Gender and the Economy (GATE) at the Rotman School of Management, highlighting the doubled-edge sword of working from home. @GenderEconomy
https://www.gendereconomy.org/the-future-of-work/
The Role of Male Allyship in Conscious Leadership and Business
Without the avid support of men, significant progress toward ending gender disparities is unlikely. Here’s how to enroll — and be — male allies.
https://carleyhauck.com/conscious-leadership/the-role-of-male-allyship-…
See also https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace
Increase Women's Economic Empowerment by Transforming the Care Economy
New report, part of the work of the Generation Equality Action Coalition on Economic Justice and Rights, intended to realise economic justice and rights for women and girls
https://forum.generationequality.org/news/increase-womens-economic-empo…
Resources and Support for Adults Who Experienced Sexual Abuse as Children: List from Stop It Now (USA)
https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/resources-and-support-for-adults-…
Finally, women are calling out toxic online dates. Now to target the apps themselves
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/dec/28/women-toxic-online-dates-apps-facebook-groups-dating-platforms
‘Faking it for 20, 30 years’: The women trapped in ‘motherhood’ sex (On the common dynamic in heterosexual relationships where men put *their own* sexual needs first and women put *men's* needs first too.)
https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/faking-it-for-2…
Tweets in December 2022
Where Men Stand: Men’s roles in ending violence against women
This report explores 4 aspects of men’s relations to violence against women: men's 1) use of VAW, 2) attitudes towards VAW, 3) responses when VAW occurs, and 4) involvement in preventing VAW.
https://xyonline.net/content/where-men-stand-mens-roles-ending-violence… [Plus graphic, Flood, Where Men Stand - Men's roles in ending violence against women 2010 – TOC]
Guys: These girls and young women have 10 things they want you to understand. Most of them have suffered sexual harassment, been groped or assaulted. Don’t be the perp, or the egg-it-on, or the do-nothing. If you’re the do-nothing, speak up
https://mypockets.co.uk/be-that-mate @MyPocketsArts
“The do-nothing becomes the egg-it-on. The egg-it-on becomes the cat-caller. The cat-caller becomes the harasser. The harasser becomes the assaulter. The assaulter becomes the rapist. The rapist becomes the killer.”
Andrew Tate: how the 'manosphere' influencer is selling extreme masculinity to young men
By Associate Professor Robert Lawson
https://theconversation.com/andrew-tate-how-the-manosphere-influencer-i… via @ConversationUK
Why Is It So Hard for Men to Make Close Friends?
American men are stuck in a “friendship recession.” Here’s how to climb out.
https://www.nytimes.com/2022/11/28/well/family/male-friendship-loneline…
The Bias of ‘Professionalism’ Standards
Professionalism has become coded language for white favoritism in workplace practices that more often than not privilege the values of white and Western employees and leave behind people of color.
By Aysa Gray, 2019
https://ssir.org/articles/entry/the_bias_of_professionalism_standards#
Drag Story Hour and Cultural Appropriation
Professor Robert Jensen argues that, beyond a simplistic liberal embrace of diversity or a conservative articulation of traditional values, challenging drag is part of a radical feminist critique.
https://open.substack.com/pub/juliebindel/p/drag-story-hour-and-cultura… @bindelj
Male students walk out on exams to protest 'inhumane' ban on female education
Male students and professors in Afghanistan join calls to allow women to return to classrooms after the Taliban bans women from universities and from working for NGOs.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-12-30/male-students-professors-walk-ou…
Men as allies for ethnic minority women in workplaces: This US report finds that 79% of men say that they are comfortable being an ally for multicultural women at work. But very few actually mentor or sponsor such individuals.
https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2022-12/Working%20Mother%20Research%20Institute%2C%20The%20Status%20of%20Men%20as%20Allies%20for%20Multicultural%20Women%202017.pdf
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54% of multicultural women (African-American, Asian-American, and Latina) agree that there are men in leadership positions at their company who care about their advancement. These women were more engaged, satisfied, more likely to stay, and to have tangible career progress.
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There was a gender gap in perceptions of workplace inequality. Men were more likely than women to see their workplace as inclusive. Many men do not realise the extent to which racial and gender bias hinders multicultural women at work.
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But as this report suggests, men’s allyship can make a tangible difference to ethnic minority women’s participation in and advancement at work. Here are some of the things such women want men to do.
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[Plus graphic, Working Mother Research Institute, The Status of Men as Allies for Multicultural Women 2017 - More effective male allies p.6]
For more on men's positive roles in building workplace gender equality, see the XY collection here: https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace
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The Friendzone is a Sexist Myth. The idea that every “Nice Guy” is owed sex or a romantic relationship by his female friends is ridiculous. Girls “are not machines that you put kindness coins into until sex falls out.” By Erin Riordan. https://feministsatlarge.wordpress.com/2013/01/30/the-friendzone-is-a-sexist-myth/ @ErinRiordan92
Men who embrace masculine norms of toughness are more likely to feel negative emotional reactions to mask-wearing. The influence of stereotypical masculinity was stronger than political partisanship & other variables. News https://www.susqu.edu/live/news/744-toxic-mask-ulinity-research-ties-ma…. Article https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/politics-and-gender/article/toxic-maskulinity-the-link-between-masculine-toughness-and-affective-reactions-to-mask-wearing-in-the-covid19-era/8753DA181D76C7D59D6712C8F0C666E7
Andrew Tate: A-Grade Poison. What parents and teachers need to know about his indoctrination of boys
Andrew Tate is lowering girls’ self-esteem and teaching boys to be brutal towards women.
https://www.collectiveshout.org/andrew_tate_a_grade_poison_what_parents… @CollectiveShout
Among men, many simply do not recognise, or indeed defend, existing gender inequalities. Men have been shaped by lifetimes in a gender-unequal world, so that sexism becomes normal, taken-for-granted, and invisible. ‘Men Make a Difference’ report, p15, here: https://xyonline.net/content/men-make-difference-engaging-men-gender-equality-workplace. [Plus graphic, DCA, Men Make a Difference - Full report - Less aware p.15]
The Feminist on Cellblock Y: Documentary film. A convicted male felon builds a feminist movement from behind bars at a prison in Soledad, California. Streaming on CNNgo (CNN, 2018, 1 hour 15). https://edition.cnn.com/videos/us/2018/04/18/the-feminist-on-cellblock-y-doc-orig.cnn
Feminism, freedom of speech, sexual violence, and backlash: This special issue of the journal Atlantis: Critical Studies in Gender, Culture, and Social Justice explores speaking freely and freedom of speech. See https://journals.msvu.ca/index.php/atlantis/issue/view/362
Overall progress in gender inequality has been slowing in recent years. Last 2 decades show substantial progress in education and in health. But gains in other areas have not been as intense, and progress towards gender equality is slowing. @HDRUNDP http://hdr.undp.org/en/2019-report
Progress towards gender equality tends to be faster for basic capabilities and slower or harder for enhanced capabilities (UNDP Human Development Report 2019, p. 149). @HDRUNDP http://hdr.undp.org/en/2019-report
Gender gaps around the world are smallest for basic capabilities, and largest for enhanced capabilities. E.g., political participation: men and women have similar levels of voting. But the higher the power and responsibility, the wider the gender gap. @HDRUNDP
A feminist father’s "Rules for dating my daughter": 1. I don’t make the rules. 2. You don’t make the rules. 3. She makes the rules. 4. Her body, her rules. [Plus graphic, Feminist father - Rules for dating my daughter]
Workplace gender inequality: Cindy Gallop comments, “When I hear women say to me, ‘I don’t want to be hired just because I’m a woman,’ my response is, ‘Get over it. And look around you at all the incompetent men who got hired just because they are men.” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Db79v-SWGFo&feature=youtu.be&t=961
Our Watch’s Equality and Respect in Sport is an initiative that aims to assist national sporting organisations to build their capacity to promote gender equality. Check out its resources and guidelines here: https://sport.ourwatch.org.au/ @OurWatchAus
Workplace diversity: Use “diverse” to describe a group, not a person: “a group can be diverse, but an individual cannot be" - Lori Nishiura Mackenzie and Melissa V. Abad. For people, instead use e.g. “person from an underrepresented group”. https://hbr.org/2021/02/are-your-diversity-efforts-othering-underrepres… @betterallies
If you’re a woman, you can thank a feminist for the fact that you can: Own property. Vote. Have a job. Keep the money you earn. Get a bank loan. Go to university. Use birth control or contraception. Get an abortion. Marry who you want. https://www.schooloffeminism.org/thankafeminist-english @SchoolFeminism 1/2
If you’re a woman, you can thank a feminist for the fact that you can: Run for office. Keep your job if you become pregnant. Be legally protected from sexual harassment. Participate in a professional sport. And so on. . https://www.schooloffeminism.org/thankafeminist-english @SchoolFeminism 2/2
Truths about sexual harassment 1/2. 1) Most SH is comprised of gender harassment – acts that convey offensive, demeaning, or derisive attitudes based on gender or sex. 2) Gender harassment causes harm to work and wellbeing. https://pursuit.unimelb.edu.au/articles/busting-the-myths-about-sexual-harassment [Plus graphic, Cortina, Busting the myths about sexual harassment 2020 Summary]
3) Men are often the victims of SH, involving policing of & attacks on their masculinity. 4) Few victims of SH make formal reports or complaints. False allegations are very rare. 5) Solution to SH is to address the contexts that enable it. Build gender-egalitarian workplaces
12 facts about family violence in Australia. A handy, information-rich video by Domestic Violence Resource Centre Victoria, 2017 (1:54 min long). See https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J7T33JZSrSU&feature=youtu.be @dvrcv
Rough justice: How police are failing survivors of sexual assault. Detailed ABC News account of victims’ reports of sexual assault and what happens, or not, after. Jan/Feb. 2020. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-01-28/how-police-are-failing-survivors-of-sexual-assault/11871364?nw=0
Gender and domestic violence: Useful summary of the research on women’s and men’s experiences of domestic violence, showing gender contrasts and asymmetry, in this national report by @ANROWS and @VicHealth, p. 56: http://ncas.anrows.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/NCAS-report-2018.pdf [Plus graphic, ANROWS, Australians’ attitudes to violence against women and gender equality NCAS Findings 2018 p. 56]
Violence prevention: Must address the risk factors for violent behavior: violence-supportive and sexist norms, gender inequalities, and other social factors. Must address the cultural, collective and institutional underpinnings of violence. See pp192-93 of https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-05/Flood%2C%20Engagi… [Plus graphic, Flood, Engaging Men and Boys in Violence Prevention 2018 p. 192 Beyond attitudes]
Who Self-Cares Wins: This report from Global Action for Men’s Health (2019) shows that it’s false that men are self-destructive when it comes to their health. But men’s health is unnecessarily poor. Male gender norms are a key barrier to better self-care. https://gamh.org/who-self-cares-wins/ [Plus graphic, Global Action on Men’s Health, Who Self-Cares Wins 2019 – Cover]
Health, Illness, Men and Masculinities (HIMM): a framework for understanding men’s health. A valuable overview of how gender, the complex of social relations and practices attached to biological sex, influences men’s health and health-related behavior. https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Evans%2C%20Health%2C%20Il… [Plus graphic, Evans, Health, Illness, Men and Masculinities (HIMM) 2011 – Abstract]
Performative masculinity is making American men sick. Why some American men won’t wear masks… By Alex Abad-Santos, August 10 2020. https://www.vox.com/the-goods/21356150/american-men-wont-wear-masks-cov… via @voxdotcom 1/2
Men are less likely to wear masks than women, and concerns about manliness seem influential. This behaviour reflects masculine norms of toughness and risk-taking, but not *other* masculine norms of self-sacrifice or protectiveness. 2/2
28 reasons it pays to have a #feminist #marriage. 17) You don’t look at each other as a project or someone to “fix.” 20) Phrases like ‘man up’ or ‘don’t be a pussy’ are off limits. 23) You both recognize that paid parental leave is good for everyone. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/feminist-marriage-hell-ya_n_588fa49be4b0522c7d3c43d1
You’re at work and someone makes a sexist joke or comment. What can you say? Here’s a page of practical responses. E.g.: Ask for explanation. State your disagreement. Question the logic. Personalise the issue. State principles and values. And so on. See https://xyonline.net/content/challenging-everyday-sexism
Traditional gendered scripts for sexuality (female passivity, male sexual entitlement etc.) give women a poor deal in sexual relationships with men. Fake orgasms, put up with sexual pain, prioritise their partner’s pleasure over their own, etc. Full paper: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Fahs%2C%20The%20Other%20T…
What is feminism? It’s defined by recognition of, and opposition to, patriarchy, a system in which men have power over women. Finlayson steers us away from misreadings of this. Men suffer too under patriarchy, *and* they’re not worse off than women. https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-08/Finlayson%2C%20An… [Plus graphic, Finlayson, An introduction to feminism (2016) p. 6]
Speaking publicly about preventing men’s violence against women: This is a useful tool for anyone looking to start conversations about violence or how to answer commonly asked questions. By Women’s Health West, Victoria. https://whwest.org.au/resource/speaking-publicly-about-preventing-mens-violence-against-women/ @whwest [Plus graphic, Women’s Health West, Speaking publicly about preventing men’s violence against women - Curly questions 2015 – Cover]
Working with organisations for violence prevention and gender equality: Effective elements include senior leadership, resources, education, communication for culture change, victim support, reporting processes, and assessment. See Chapter 8 of (free) book: https://xyonline.net/content/new-book-engaging-men-and-boys-violence-pr…
Consent: ‘Enthusiastic consent’ is about making sure that your partner is *genuinely* into having sex. Dr Nerdlove’s piece, among the items on consent here: http://www.xyonline.net/content/consent-xy-collection
Female-perpetrated intimate partner homicide: AIC report. Among incidents where the direction of the violence was stated, women were either the primary victims of male perpetrated abuse or the simultaneous perpetrators & victims of reciprocal violence. https://www.aic.gov.au/publications/sr/sr20 [Plus graphic, Voce, Female perpetrated intimate partner homicide 2020 p. ix]
Different types of gendered abuse: Perpetrators can use a range of other abusive behaviours to manipulate, coerce, control, threaten and harm victims. All forms of abuse can have significant health, social and economic impacts on victims. https://handbook.ourwatch.org.au/resource-topic/key-concepts-in-prevent… @OurWatchAus
Why do some men respond with anger and hostility to women’s sexual rejections? Patriarchal entitlement. Some men feel entitled to women’s attention and affection and respond with rage when this is not offered or withdrawn. https://xyonline.net/content/mens-responses-womens-rejections 1/3
There’s a widespread belief that women *owe men*. Many boys and men are taught that 1) their needs and views come before women’s; 2) Men should be in control, given power and respect, and any challenge to or questioning of this must be met with aggressive retribution. 2/3
Too many boys and men are taught that 3) Men deserve sexual gratification from women. They are entitled to sex, to sexual access to women. In sex and relationships, men often are socialised to disregard women’s boundaries or wear them down. https://xyonline.net/content/mens-responses-womens-rejections 3/3
Violence prevention: What does and doesn’t work? Michau et al.’s invaluable piece in The Lancet has this great table. The full text of the piece is here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Michau%2C%20Prevention%20of%20violence%20against%20women%20and%20girls%20Lancet_0.pdf #VAW #GBV #DV #IDEVAW #16DaysofActivism2022 [Plus graphic, Michau, Principles for effective programming, Lancet]
Violence prevention: There is an excellent international literature on how best to prevent and reduce men’s violence against women. This XY collection features key international reports & reviews, in full text here: http://www.xyonline.net/content/preventing-violence-against-women-xy-collection #VAW #GBV #DV #IDEVAW #16DaysOfActivism
Violence against women in Australia: An excellent 22-page primer on violence against women, its causes and impact, and its prevention. https://www.vichealth.vic.gov.au/media-and-resources/publications/violence-against-women-in-australia-research-summary @VicHealth [Plus graphic, VicHealth, Violence Against Women Research Overview 2017 cover]
Family, domestic and sexual violence in Australia - continuing the national story. Useful 162-pp. report by the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare, on extent and nature of DV and SV, responses, impacts, attitudes, and vulnerable populations. https://apo.org.au/node/239821 [Plus graphic, AIHW, Family, domestic and sexual violence in Australia - continuing the national story 2019 – Cover]
7 Reasons So Many Guys Don’t Understand Sexual Consent
A great, accessible account of how our culture socialises sexual coercion: “Forcing Yourself On Women Makes Them Love You”. “Asking Permission Is A Sign Of Weakness”. Etc. By Jason Pargin, 2016. https://www.cracked.com/blog/how-men-are-trained-to-think-sexual-assaul…
Why Do So Many Men Die by Suicide? Gary Barker on the problem, and the gender-transformative solutions (2018). Suicide has multiple drivers or causes, and one set of these is our social ideals of manhood. https://slate.com/human-interest/2018/06/are-we-socializing-men-to-die-by-suicide.html via @slate
What We Know About Masculinity and Sexual and Reproductive Health and Rights (SRHR). Short, useful research brief on the links between masculine norms and practices and sexual and reproductive health. https://www.equimundo.org/what-we-know-about-masculinity-and-sexual-and… @equimundo
Gender inequality in workplaces: useful summary of the sexist and patriarchal processes that sustain gender inequalities in workplaces, p. 7 of “Collaborating with men: Changing workplace culture to be more inclusive for women”. Among the reports here: https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace [Plus graphic, Murray Edwards College, Collaborating with Men - Changing workplace culture FINAL Report 2016 - Here's how it happens p.8]
Workplace gender inequalities: Men’s awareness of these tends to be poorer than women’s. E.g., US research finds that many men are surprised that many women, including those in senior positions, are often interrupted and not heard. Tended to place responsibility with women. 1/2
The Murray Edwards College report “Collaborating with men: Changing workplace culture to be more inclusive for women” explores what men can do to address workplace inequalities, e.g. reverse mentoring, action by leaders, etc. Among the reports here: https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace 2/2 [Plus graphic, Murray Edwards College, Collaborating with Men - Changing workplace culture FINAL Report 2016 - 5 key ways]
Engaging Men and Boys in the Primary Prevention of Sexual Violence: This new book chapter explores sexual violence prevention work with men and boys. It identifies key principles and explores key debates and tensions. Free in PDF at https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-and-boys-primary-prevention-sexual-violence-book-chapter @the_daily_panda
Everyone has a role to play in preventing men’s violence against women, including men and boys. @OurWatchAu have released a new guide with practical strategies on engaging men and boys to help stop violence before it starts #MenInFocus https://www.ourwatch.org.au/resource/men-in-focus-practice-guide-addressing-masculinities-and-working-with-men-in-the-prevention-of-mens-violence-against-women/
The real reason why there are so few tradeswomen
The construction, building and maintenance sectors remain resolutely male dominated, which is unsurprising, given sexism is rife in vocational education and training classrooms.
https://www.afr.com/work-and-careers/education/the-real-reason-why-ther…
Take Action For Gender Equality and Respect
A guide to support secondary school aged students to reflect on what gender equality and respect means to them, engage with their peers on gender issues, and take action to create change in their community https://www.inspiro.org.au/blog/take-action-for-gender-equality-respect…
Respectful Relationships Education - A suite of resources for a whole school community approach produced by @OurWatchAus, supporting organisations in the prevention of violence against women.
https://www.ourwatch.org.au/What-We-Do/Respectful-relationships-educati…
High proportions of Australian woman have experienced sexual violence, including 51% of women aged 24-30, as new data from the Australian Longitudinal Study on Women’s Health (ALSWH) documents. See the full report and infographics here: https://www.anrows.org.au/publication/a-life-course-approach-to-determining-the-prevalence-and-impact-of-sexual-violence-in-australia-findings-from-the-australian-longitudinal-study-on-womens-health/ @ANROWS
Voice Male magazine: Check out the new issue of this excellent profeminist magazine, free at https://voicemalemagazine.org/winter-2023-edition/. Articles on the "boy crisis", abortion restrictions, violence against women, myths that 'men are from Mars', and more. @voicemalemag
‘Horrific’: decade-high number of women killed in December demands ‘serious investment’ in prevention
Experts say ‘year after year we see abuse ramp up in December’ and it’s up to men to stop men's violence against women.
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/dec/24/horrific-decade-high-nu…
The 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence: Read about the activities of MenEngage Alliance members and partners this year, focused on transforming patriarchal masculinities and working with men and boys for gender justice. https://menengage.org/fr/stories/engaging-men-and-boys-through-16-days-of-activism-2022/ @MenEngage
Gender inequalities: Men are part of the problem and part of the solution
Gender inequalities are sustained in part by men – by how many men think, by how many men behave, by how men relate to women and how they relate to other men.
https://xyonline.net/content/gender-inequality-men-are-part-problem-and… (Speech)
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Male privilege is personal: most men have acted in sexist ways
I’m a nice guy, right? But in countless ways, like most men, I’ve perpetuated sexism and maintained gender inequalities. Looking back over my life, I can see times when…
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Men benefit from male privilege, whether we want to or not. When I send in my CV with a male name. When I open my mouth in a meeting. When I read the news. Etc. But, this privilege is naturalised and normalised. It’s invisible.
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Men are part of the *solution*. Men have a vital role in building gender equality.
Many men already live in gender-just ways: they respect and care for the women and girls in their lives, and they reject sexist norms of manhood.
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Some men already play a role in fostering gender equality, as public advocates.
Men will benefit from progress towards gender equality. In our health, our relationships and friendships, our workplaces, and our communities.
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There is plenty of work to do to build a more gender-equal culture. And men – men who care for women, men who care for justice and equality, and men who care for the wellbeing of our communities and society – have a vital role to play.
https://xyonline.net/content/gender-inequality-men-are-part-problem-and…
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Men taking action to end sexual harassment: there are at least six barriers to men’s action.
Men: 1) Typically have lower levels of understanding and recognition of sexual harassment than women.
2) May feel that sexual harassment is a “women’s issue”.
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Men: 3) May respond with defensiveness and hostility to efforts addressing violence and sexual harassment.
4) Often overestimate other men’s comfort with harassment.
5) Fear others’ reactions to intervention.
6) May lack knowledge of or skills in intervention. 2/4
Each of these barriers to action can be overcome. Increase men’s knowledge of sexual harassment and empathy for victims. Show how harassment and violence are a ‘men’s issue’. Use positive, strengths-based messaging. Show that many other men also oppose sexual harassment. 3/4
Men have vital roles to play in preventing and reducing sexual harassment. First, start with ourselves and our own behaviour. Second, speak up and take action. Third, alongside women, help build safe and respectful workplaces and communities.
https://xyonline.net/content/mens-positive-roles-ending-sexual-harassme… 4/4
Men with more gender-equitable attitudes are less likely to perpetrate violence against women and more likely to support violence prevention efforts. But what shapes such attitudes?
New journal article on influences on men’s gender-equitable attitudes: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1524838020977140
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This review finds that key facilitators of equitable attitudes included higher levels of education, exposure to gender transformative (feminist) prevention programming, and having parents who held, modeled, and communicated gender-equitable beliefs.
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Key hindrances to gender-equitable attitudes included religiosity, the transition to fatherhood, and having mostly male peer groups.
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12 tips for media reporting on sexual harassment
Evidence-based media reporting on sexual harassment can change the attitudes and behaviours that drive violence against women. Handy guide by Our Watch.
https://media.ourwatch.org.au/reporting-violence-against-women/12-tips-… @OurWatchAus #SexualHarassment
There is no ‘war on men’ – we now know feminism is good for boys
A report shows that boys benefit from learning about gender stereotypes and different types of masculinity.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/nov/08/feminists-war-on-… @EverydaySexism
@equimundo_org
South Korea’s misogyny problem | Katharine H.S. Moon
A troubling overview of the misogynistic threats to women and the inadequate legal protections of their bodies and rights in South Korea
https://www.aspistrategist.org.au/south-koreas-misogyny-problem/ via @aspi_org
Inside Ilbe: How South Korea’s angry young men formed a powerful new alt-right movement
https://www.mic.com/articles/184477/inside-ilbe-how-south-koreas-angry-…
It’s time we aligned sexual consent laws across Australia – but this faces formidable challenges
By Professor Jonathan Crowe and Dr Guzyal Hill
https://theconversation.com/its-time-we-aligned-sexual-consent-laws-across-australia-but-this-faces-formidable-challenges-196115
@drjoncrowe @RapeReform
Liver King and the problematic rise of primal manhood
The organ-eating, masculinity influencer has built a powerful brand championing the ancestral lifestyle, but his beliefs promote pseudoscience and harmful gender stereotypes.
https://www.huckmag.com/perspectives/liver-king-and-the-problematic-ris… #LiverKing
Online Anti-Rape Activism: This book, free in PDF, examines the nature, use and scope of online spaces for anti-rape activism. Includes chapters on the history of anti-rape activism, speaking out online, etc.
https://library.oapen.org/handle/20.500.12657/43818 [Plus graphic, Loney-Howes, Online anti-rape activism – Cover]
Male sexual assault of women in prison: A bipartisan Senate investigation has found widespread sexual abuse of women in US prisons by the male wardens, officers and volunteers tasked to protect them
https://www.npr.org/2022/12/14/1142520821/senate-probe-found-some-feder…
Luca's Humanizing Vision of Masculinity
The movie Luca honours the parts of boys' humanity they're often expected to kill off. It is a repudiation of restrictive male socialization, and a celebration of healthy male emotional connection.
https://voicemalemagazine.org/lucas-humanizing-vision-of-masculinity/ @voicemalemag
The Masculinity Paradox: Society has strict rules for men. But society also lets men — especially those with disproportionate power and privileges — get away with pretty much anything. So how can we build healthy masculinities and a more just world? https://medium.com/@promundo/the-masculinity-paradox-a2650a69ff8e
Are we failing the next generation of men?
As a new report finds that more than 1 in 4 boys look for more info about sex through porn, David Challen investigates why relationships and sex education classes are not working.
@David_Challen
https://open.substack.com/pub/davidchallen/p/are-we-failing-the-next-generation
101 Everyday Ways for Men to be Allies to Women. Great list and discussion by Michael Urbina, first published in 2013. Available in Word or PDF among the pieces on what men can do to stop sexism or violence, here: https://xyonline.net/content/what-men-can-do-stop-sexism-and-male-violence
Can early intervention help raise better boys? Inside the effort to curb patriarchal masculinity before it takes root. By Sarah Treleaven. https://broadview.org/toxic-masculinity-boys-programs/
Getting involved in diversity and inclusion is optional. That’s a problem. Corporate America needs to engage white men in powerful positions in diversity and inclusion programs and training, write Julia Taylor Kennedy and Pooja Jain-Link. https://fortune.com/2020/10/05/corporate-diversity-inclusion-programs-training/
Be a Better Ally. How to fight injustice and promote equity in the workplace. By Tsedale M. Melaku, Angie Beeman, David G. Smith and W. Brad Johnson. Educate yourself. Own your privilege. Accept feedback. Become a confidant. https://hbr.org/2020/11/be-a-better-ally 1/2
Be a Better Ally cont’d. Bring diversity to the table. See something, say something. Sponsor marginalised coworkers. Insist on diverse candidates. Build a community of allies. https://hbr.org/2020/11/be-a-better-ally 2/2
What to Do When She Says #MeToo - 6 do’s and dont’s if your daughter confides in you about past sexual abuse. 1) Don’t freak out. 2) Don’t press for details. 3) Don’t blame her. 4) Do thank her for sharing. 5) Do keep the conversation going. 6) Get help. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-new-teen-age/201812/what-do-wh…
Engaging bystanders in sexual violence prevention: Tabachnik’s guide (2009). “Bystanders represent a web of people surrounding a progression of inappropriate behaviors, harassment or violence, including those who make a choice to speak up or intervene...” https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2018-11/Tabachnick%2C%20Engaging%20Bystanders%20in%20Sexual%20Violence%20Prevention%202008.pdf [Plus graphic, Tabachnick, Engaging Bystanders in Sexual Violence Prevention 2008 – Cover]
Respectful relationships education in schools: What does good practice look like? This 40-pp. evidence paper from @OurWatchAus identifies 7 core elements. 1) Address drivers of gender-based violence. 2) Have a long term vision, approach and funding. Etc. https://www.ourwatch.org.au/resource/evidence-paper-respectful-relationships-education-in-schools/ [Plus graphic, Our Watch, Respectful relationships education in schools - Evidence paper 2021 TOC standards]
What Works to Prevent Violence Against Women and Girls Global Programme. World-leading program of review and impact evaluation. Now an extraordinary collection of evidence reviews, reports, toolkits, videos, and curricula, here: https://www.whatworks.co.za/. My fave: the Evidence Hub [Plus graphic, What works to prevent violence – Logo]
Addressing resistance to domestic and family violence responses in CALD communities: New publication from the @ANROWS Culturally and Linguistically Diverse Projects initiative. E.g., on resistance from communities, and service providers, and what to do. https://d2rn9gno7zhxqg.cloudfront.net/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/210934…
No-one should live in fear of abuse.
Let’s all be part of the change. Everyone can do something to challenge the abuse of women and girls.
Excellent UK campaign, with lots of downloadable social media assets, videos, etc.
https://enough.campaign.gov.uk/
The Man Card: White Male Identity Politics from Nixon to Trump
Excellent document on politics, gender, and masculinities, by Jackson Katz. You can watch this documentary free until December 31. Click here: https://offers.mediaed.org/the-man-card @jacksontkatz
Andy Signore was fired after allegations of sexual misconduct. Now, he is using YouTube to attack celebrities who allege that they have been assaulted. https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/internet/andy-signore-popcorned-planet-you… via @nbcnews @andysignore
The Place of Men in Women’s Rights? Accountability Must Be on the Table
https://africanfeminism.com/the-place-of-men-in-womens-rights-accountab…
@AfriFeminists
Ending violence against LGBTQI+ people: global evidence and emerging insights into what works
https://ww2preventvawg.org/evidence-hub/lgbtqi-report-summary-briefing-…
Is no space safe? Working to end gender-based violence in the public sphere
From our homes to the streets, from school to university, and from workplaces to social media, women and LGBTQI+ people are at risk of daily violence.
https://www.alignplatform.org/resource/briefing-is-no-space-safe @ALIGN_Gender
Feminist activism to end gender-based violence in the public sphere
ALIGN’s working paper examines literature from around the world on women’s mobilisation and feminist movements.
https://www.alignplatform.org/resource/report-feminist-activism-end-gbv… @ALIGN_Gender
From allyship to action: how men can step up to end violence against women
Watch or listen to this dialogue with four men who already lead, speak out and design policy against male violence.
https://odi.org/en/events/from-allyship-to-action-how-men-can-step-up-t…
We moved the conversation along from men expressing public outrage to men taking action with suggested steps to foster male solidarity and deeper structural change. With Dr. Jackson Katz, Eusebius McKaiser, Ben Hurst and Steve Reed MP.
5 reasons men should hate the patriarchy too
https://www.ywca.org.au/news/5-reasons-men-should-hate-the-patriarchy-t… @ymca
It shortens men’s lives
It stops men seeking help for health issues
It invalidates their role as parents
It’s detrimental to men who don’t fit “masculine” ideals
It invalidates their experiences of assault
UN to investigate use of ‘parental alienation’ tactic in custody cases
Fears an increase in allegations, particularly against mothers, of deliberately alienating a child against the other parent in domestic abuse cases may put victims at further risk
https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2022/dec/14/un-to-invest…
3 Ways to Advance Gender Equity as We Return to the Office
By David G. Smith & W. Brad Johnson
The return to the workplace offers a unique opportunity for men and male leaders to prioritise gender equity, especially when it comes to work-life commitments
https://hbr.org/2020/06/3-ways-to-advance-gender-equity-as-we-return-to…
Empowering survivors of sexual assault
One of the founders of With You We Can, Sarah Rosenberg, describes the trauma of reporting sexual assault and how her own experience led her to set up the new organisation.
https://probonoaustralia.com.au/news/2022/12/empowering-survivors-of-se… via @probononews
How can men be good allies for women in the workplace? Excellent tips and discussion by Professor Douglas Wood, focused on medicine but relevant for men in a wide variety of workplaces. Wood’s article is free among the pieces here: https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace #HeForShe #MaleAllies [Plus graphic, Wood, How can men be good allies for women in surgery 2021 Dos and Don'ts Table 1]
This PSA Switches Its Point of View to Send a Startling Message About Gender-Based Violence
White Ribbon emphasizes the importance of recognition and accountability in its new Public Service Announcement, “I Knew All Along”.
https://www.adweek.com/creativity/this-psa-switches-its-pov-to-send-a-startling-message-about-gender-based-violence/
Male Advocates and Allies: Promoting gender diversity in technology workplaces
An excellent guide by the National Center for Women & Information Technology, for anyone interested in men’s roles in building workplace gender equality.
Ashcraft et al: https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace
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The report identifies the professional and personal experiences that brought men to advocacy for gender equality. And the obstacles that discouraged their participation. It is full of practical examples and real stories of men making change.
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The report explores male advocates’ strategies for change. Listening to women’s stories. Talking to other men. Seeking out ways to recruit women. Increasing the visibility and number of female leaders. Mentoring and sponsoring women.
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Noticing and correcting microinequities and instances of unconscious bias. Establishing accountability metrics for diversity. Etc.
NCWIT's report is a key one for male advocates and allies in workplaces. See Ashcraft et al., here: https://xyonline.net/content/men-building-gender-equality-workplace
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Male allies are helping end gender-based violence in Uganda. These allies were equipped with the skills to act as role models and change agents for other men in their communities. Read More: http://unwo.men/GaAk50LQqCM
@GlobalSpotlight @unwomenuganda
Caregiving dads, breadwinning mums - Transforming gender in work and childcare
This UK report focuses on heterosexual couples with children in which childcare responsibilities are shared equally or assumed primarily by the father.
https://www.nuffieldfoundation.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/Caregivin… @NuffieldFound
'They allow us to name something we know is wrong': The new words defining sexual abuse
From stealthing to downblousing, the coining of specific terms is allowing women around the world to share and critique experiences of abuse
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-latin-america-63811380
Sex and housework: In heterosexual couples with children, when women do more of the household labour than men, they have lower sexual desire, for two reasons: 1) they are more likely to see their partners as dependent on them, and 2) they see the division of labour as unfair
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Implications: Women's sexual desire is constrained by gender inequities. Low desire in women is not located in women, their bodies or minds. Instead, it is a symptom of a broader problem, of inequalities between men and women, including in the division of household labour.
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So if you are a man with a female partner, alongside fairness, decency and respect, here is another reason to share fairly the domestic work and care.
See a journalistic summary of the new study here: https://www.psypost.org/2022/12/when-women-do-more-household-labor-they-see-their-partner-as-a-dependent-and-sexual-desire-dwindles-64497?amp=1
See the academic paper here: https://link.springer.com/content/pdf/10.1007/s10508-022-02397-2.pdf?pdf=button%20sticky
4 Things We Need to Stop Teaching Boys to Avoid Nurturing Their Sexual Entitlement
Boys internalise messages about male sexuality from a very young age. Including the ideas that 1) “real men” have lots of sex and 2) that women exist primarily for sexual purposes. 1/3
4 ways that the patriarchy teaches boys to feel sexually entitled to women and girls:
1. Boys Learn That Male Virginity Is a Burden
Boys are pressured to lose their virginity as fast as possible, and girls are just a means to that end. And to have as much sex as possible.
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2. Boys Learn That Sexually Active Women Don’t Deserve Their Respect
3. Boys Learn That Women Owe Them Sex and That Relationships with Women Are Only Used to Find Sexual Opportunities
4. Boys Learn to View Women as Objects Rather Than People
https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/05/boys-sexual-entitlement/ 3/3
5 ways sexual assault is really about entitlement
Rape isn't caused by drinking. It's fostered by a culture that tells some men they can act with impunity
By Soraya Chemaly, 2013
https://www.salon.com/2013/10/24/5_ways_sexual_assault_is_really_about_entitlement/ @schemaly
New tool for assessing community programs for men and boys
The Working with Men and Boys for Social Justice Assessment Tool aims to provide leaders, designers and facilitators of programs or initiatives for men and boys the opportunity to review and strengthen their work. 1/3
The Tool comprises key aspects that support positive social change in programs designed for men and boys.
The Tool comprises a 56-item checklist on key elements of practice, and produces an assessment of the program’s strengths and weaknesses.
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The Tool is accompanied by a wealth of resources on improving particular aspects of programs.
Access the resource bank here: https://www.crisconsortium.org/masculinities-resource-bank
@amandaMkeddie
Access the Tool at https://www.crisconsortium.org/masculinities-assessment
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I Knew All Along
The White Ribbon’s newest short film follows a dad's anxieties around raising a daughter told through a reflection of his past – that reveals his own problematic behaviour towards women.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7P6PeL--OQ @whiteribbon
Protection from Sex-based Harassment in Public: A new UK bill proposes to address this harmful behaviour. Read the 24-pp research briefing here: https://researchbriefings.files.parliament.uk/documents/CBP-9691/CBP-9691.pdf. See a summary of the proposed legal changes here: https://commonslibrary.parliament.uk/research-briefings/cbp-9691/
The sex trade is inherently unsafe
Commodifying women’s bodies perpetuates violence
By Karen Ingala Smith
https://thecritic.co.uk/the-sex-trade-is-inherently-unsafe/ @K_IngalaSmith
American boys and men are suffering — and our culture doesn't know how to talk about it
Author Richard Reeves explains why he thinks terms like "toxic masculinity" are "profoundly unhelpful"
https://www.salon.com/2022/09/16/american-boys-and-men-are-suffering-and-our-culture-doesnt-know-how-to-talk-about-it/
Also see my explainer piece on the term ‘toxic masculinity’ and its positives and negatives, here: https://theconversation.com/toxic-masculinity-what-does-it-mean-where-d…
How to be a supportive ally when your child has experienced sexual assault
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-11-04/how-to-be-a-supportive-ally-when-your-child-has-experienced-sexu/101603766
In defence of non-conforming kids
Victoria Smith criticises the increasingly common assumption that children who identify with or like things stereotypically associated with the other sex must therefore *be* that sex.
https://thecritic.co.uk/in-defence-of-non-conforming-kids/ @glosswitch
Men: Ask yourself if you really want to be part of the solution to the violence some men perpetrate against women.
https://womensagenda.com.au/latest/ten-years-since-jill-meaghers-sensel… 1/2
"If over half the women you know have suffered harassment, chances are you know a harasser, so call out the sexist guy in your Whatsapp group or stand up for the woman on the train being leered at."
See pages 13-19 of this guide to action for men: http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Flood%2C%20Men%20Speak%20U… 2/2
Street harassment to be banned in crackdown, UK government says
https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-politics-63916328
When it comes to dating advice, why is it always women who must change themselves?
Instead of upskilling women to cope with the harm they risk in dating men, the self-help industry should focus on male behaviour.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-04-30/why-does-dating-advice-asks-wome…
Men overestimate our peers’ sexism. So men who oppose sexism go along with sexist behaviours because they think they’re in the minority. And men who show sexism continue to do so because they believe falsely that they are in the majority. Fabiano, here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Fabiano%2C%20Engaging%20m… [Plus Fabiano graphic]
Sexism: Useful account of different forms of sexism (18pp chapter). Benevolent sexism, e.g., women should be protected and provided for by men, women as “the better sex”. Appears positive, but implies and involve women’s inferiority. Becker, in full here: http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2018-04/Becker%2C%20Sexism…
Male allies: For men to confront #sexism, they must first recognise it. But men have greater trouble identifying sexism than women. Drury, in full text here: http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Drury%2C%20Allies%20against%20sexism%202014.pdf
Five ways to combat sexual harassment, groping and assault at gigs: Here’s an accessible guide to what venue managers, promoters, and music lovers themselves can do. Short article and a 20-page downloadable guide, here: https://www.whiteribbon.org.uk/news/2019/7/5/five-ways-to-combat-sexual-harassment-groping-and-assault-at-gigs
Use proper names for body parts, don’t force hugs: how to protect your kids from in-person sexual abuse. By Divna Haslam, Ben Mathews, and Kerryann Walsh. https://theconversation.com/use-proper-names-for-body-parts-dont-force-… via @ConversationEDU
Work to address violence against women fits into 3 broad approaches that exist along a continuum: primary prevention, secondary prevention (early intervention) and tertiary prevention (response). Here is a handy 1-page explanation: https://safeandequal.org.au/resources/primary-prevention-early-interven… @safe_and_equal
Violence prevention: Community-level strategies are vital. They work at a greater scale than individual- and relationship-level strategies. They shift norms, relations, and inequalities. They bring efforts closer to the ideal that initiatives be comprehensive and engaging. [Plus graphic, Flood, Community-level violence prevention 2 slides]
Pride in Prevention: A guide to primary prevention of family violence in LGBTIQ communities. Launched by Rainbow Victoria, 2020. Seeks to address evidence gaps, strengthen understanding of the drivers of violence, and build expertise. See https://rainbowhealthvic.org.au/news/launch-pride-in-prevention-evidenc… @RainbowHVic
Trauma-Informed Services for Women Subjected to Men’s Violence Must be Single-Sex. “women-only space for women who have been subjected to men’s violence and abuse is something that must be protected by those of us who don’t need it, for those of us who do” https://kareningalasmith.com/2020/07/08/trauma-informed-services-for-wo…
Community activism approaches to shift harmful gender attitudes, roles and social norms: What the elements of effective approaches? This useful review, examining 5 interventions in the Global South, identifies key elements. See https://www.whatworks.co.za/resources/item/693-a-rigorous-global-evidence-review-of-interventions-to-prevent-violence-against-women-and-girls [Plus graphic, Kerr-Wilson, A rigorous global evidence review of interventions to prevent 2020 - Box 8 p30]
Preventing sexual violence through education: What does effective practice in consent education in schools look like? What is the evidence of effectiveness? And, can comprehensive sexuality education contribute to preventing sexual violence? (Yes). See https://xyonline.net/content/best-practice-consent-education
Top Tips for Conducting Gender-Based Violence Awareness Raising Campaigns
On the different types of GBV awareness campaigns, and what to consider when planning, implementing and monitoring them
https://www.sddirect.org.uk/resource/tip-sheet-top-tips-conducting-gbv-…
Family violence can include fire threats and burning. We can do more to protect women
By Heather Douglas and Yvonne Singer
https://theconversation.com/family-violence-can-include-fire-threats-an… @HDouglasLaw
I Knew All Along
Two-thirds of Canadian men say that having a daughter has changed how they feel about the issues women face. In many cases, this is because they know first-hand the way they, or other men, have behaved towards women.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7P6PeL--OQ @whiteribbon
Male Allyship: How Good Are You (Really)?
On men’s roles as allies building gender equality in workplaces
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/male-allyship-how-good-you-really-halter…
New report: Workplace sexual harassment remains high in Australia. In the last 5 years, 1 in 3 people experienced harassment. Yet reporting rates remain low, with just 18% of people making a complaint.
Learn more in #TimeForRespect report: https://humanrights.gov.au/time-for-respect-2022
Love, Sex and Intimacy: Respect and Safety in Relationships: A booklet for young people, by Engender Equality (Tasmania, 2019). 24 pages, here: https://engenderequality.org.au/uploads/general/Love-Sex-and-Intimacy_Engender-Equality.pdf [Plus graphic, Engender Equality, Love, Sex and Intimacy - Respect and Safety in Relationships, 2019 – Cover]
Violence prevention: Here is a collection of short, accessible introductions to the field, in full text here: http://www.xyonline.net/content/preventing-violence-against-women-xy-co… #VAW #GBV #DV #IDEVAW #16DaysofActivism2022
Consent: Fantastic series of comics by Alli Kirkham illustrate sexual consent issues with everyday situations. http://www.boredpanda.com/consent-rape-comics-alli-kerkham/
Preventing violence against women: What policies, processes, and structures *should* state and national governments have in place to prevent and reduce domestic and sexual violence? Brilliant “Counting on Change” framework identifies what’s needed https://www.ourwatch.org.au/What-We-Do/Counting-on-change-A-guide-to-prevention-monitorin [Plus graphic, Our Watch, Counting on Change - A guide to prevention monitoring 2017 – Cover]
This Is What A Feminist Dad Looks Like (I’ve had to recognize that Asian men have privileges Asian women just don’t.) By Eugene Hung, June 6 2017. https://www.huffpost.com/entry/this-is-what-a-feminist-dad-looks-like_b… @eughung
Men who want to lead the fight for women’s rights: Yes, it’s important to have male allies. Yes, they can call themselves feminists. No, they should not be in leadership positions. 2pp piece by Ruby Hamad, 2015. https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-05/Hamad%2C%20Men%20who%20want%20to%20lead%20the%20fight%20for%20women%27s%20rights%20April%2014%202015.pdf
Young Indian Men Waking Up to Gender Justice: A short profile of the work of The Equal Community Foundation (ECF) with adolescent boys in India. Working on gender equality issues is both exciting and challenging. 2017. https://voicemalemagazine.org/young-indian-men-waking-up-to-gender-just…
Working for gender equality in workplaces: backlash and buy-in. Useful 22-pp report by Male Champions of Change (2018) on responding to challenges. What can drive resistance. How to engage with typical responses. https://malechampionsofchange.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/MCC-CEW-Backlash-and-Buy-in.pdf 1/2
Responses to frequently asked questions, pp13-16. (Will men lose out? Is this the end of meritocracy? Etc.) And examples of organisations building gender equality, dealing with resistance, pp. 17-21. See https://malechampionsofchange.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/MCC-CEW-Backlash-and-Buy-in.pdf 2/2
Violence and sexual assault are fundamentally a ‘men’s issue’, writes Darren Chester, the Federal Member for Gippsland. https://www.theage.com.au/national/victoria/violence-and-sexual-assault… @DarrenChesterMP 1/3
“we all need to have difficult conversations with other men and boys about what’s acceptable behaviour, understanding the meaning of consent and pushing back on the violent porn industry which gives young men a warped and contaminated perspective of respectful relationships.” 2/3
Violence against women is a men’s issue: I make a similar argument in this piece: http://xyonline.net/content/violence-against-women-mens-issue. 3/3 [Plus graphic, Flood, Violence against women is a men’s issue 2009 - quote.png]
Conformity to aspects of traditional masculinity predicts men’s and boys’ later involvement in various unhealthy behaviours. Such as school misconduct: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-020-01147-9; suicidal thoughts: https://bmcpsychiatry.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12888-020-2475-y; and actual suicide deaths: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamapsychiatry/article-abstract/2760513.
Further studies suggest that particular masculine norms are related to *both positive and negative* health. Including for depression (https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1557988318785549) and for wellbeing (https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fmen0000155).
Understanding the Motivations that Drive Men’s and Boys’ Participation in Violent Extremist Groups Requires a Focus on Masculinities (Report, June 2020) https://promundoglobal.org/understanding-the-motivations-that-drive-men… @equimundo_org
How to insult a man. What’s with insults directed at men calling them female, feminine, or gay? By J.J. Vincent, 2019. @GoodMenProject https://link.medium.com/8mfj1GB22db
Politics is in many ways about masculinity. Men, and particularly privileged men, monopolise political leadership. Politics is shaped by masculine norms. Elections involve gendered attacks on and policing of female political leaders and gendered slurs. https://xyonline.net/content/mens-experiences-agents-feminist-change 1/2
Elections often are contests over the performance of particular forms of masculinity. Sexist hostilities and perceived threats to masculinity inform voting. Right-wing political parties and movements draw support from appeals to masculine values. https://xyonline.net/content/mens-experiences-agents-feminist-change 2/2 [Plus graphic, Flood and Ertel, Men’s Experiences as Agents of Feminist Change 2020 – Politics]
BDSM and fetish communities, and their sexualisation and fetishisation of torture and abuse, are implicated in men’s violence against women, says Meghan Murphy http://www.feministcurrent.com/2017/10/10/point-kink-community-take-res… via @FeministCurrent
Men and violence: It seems difficult for some people to hold two ideas simultaneously: most males are not violent, and most violent people are males. Kilmartin on the violence against women that some men perpetrate and what sustains this, 2015 chapter: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2021-01/Kilmartin%2C%20Me…
How do young Australians see violence against women? (Research shines a light on young Australians’ understanding of sexism, violence and abuse – and highlights that there’s more work to be done.) By Dr Kristin Diemer and Dr Anastasia Powell, May 2019. https://pursuit.unimelb.edu.au/articles/how-do-young-australians-see-vi…
Can men be nice to some women and rape others? Of course. “Just because someone has never sexually assaulted you, it doesn’t mean they’ve never sexually assaulted someone else.” https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/sep/18/brett-kavanaugh-u… 1/3
It’s hard to accept that someone close to you is capable of sexual assault. Because we live in a world in which (1) we are constantly told that women are hysterical and men are rational. Patriarchy pits women against women. 2/3
And it’s a world in which (2) many forms of male predatory behavior are normalized, and rapists are assumed to be monsters who jump out of the shadows, not the ‘good guys’ we know. https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2018/sep/18/brett-kavanaugh-u… 3/3
‘Man-hating’ comes out of gender inequality. Cross-national research finds that hostility towards men among women is higher in more gender-unequal societies, with greater gender gap in resources, and with higher levels of male hostility towards women. https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Anderson%2C%20Are%20feminists%20man%20haters%2009.pdf [Plus graphic, Anderson, Are feminists man haters 2009 - p. 218; Anderson, Are feminists man haters 2009 - p. 222 Trad women]
MRA logic: MRAs “completely misattribute the cause of the problem to women’s supposedly nefarious influence in society. No amount of factual information is sufficient to cause an MRA to re-evaluate the belief that women are the root of all suffering” (129) https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-09/Poland%2C%20Hater… [Plus graphic, Poland, Haters - Misogynist movements p. 129 Logic]
Keep it real online: New NZ campaign on pornography for parents and caregivers, providing tools and advice to help you ‘keep it real online’ with your children and young people. Addresses online bullying, pornography, grooming, etc. https://www.keepitrealonline.govt.nz/
Why “consent” doesn’t stand a chance against porn culture. By Melinda Tankard Reist. https://www.abc.net.au/religion/consent-education-does-not-stand-a-chan… @MelTankardReist @ABCReligion #Pornography @CollectiveShout
A man asked if he could ‘slap’ and ‘spit on me’ – we need to stop normalising sexual violence against women. (Any argument that this kind of behaviour is ‘uncommon’ appears achingly naive. By Victoria Richards @nakedvix) https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/sexual-violence-choking-dating-app… #Pornography
Male supremacy: Male supremacy is a hateful ideology advocating for the subjugation of women and rigid gender roles.
Southern Poverty Law Center
https://www.splcenter.org/fighting-hate/extremist-files/ideology/male-supremacy
66% of Canadian men say that having a daughter has changed how they feel about the issues women face in society. In many cases, this is because they know first-hand the way they, or other men, have behaved towards women.
https://www.whiteribbon.ca/iknewallalong
@whiteribbon
Patriarchal Violence: Misogyny from the Far Right to the Mainstream
By Lidia Bates, Southern Poverty Law Center
https://www.splcenter.org/news/2021/02/01/patriarchal-violence-misogyny-far-right-mainstream
Raising boys who will respect girls’ and women’s bodily autonomy and rights and never pressure or coerce a girl or women into sex: How do we prevent our sons from becoming rapists?
Short article by Professor Michael Flood, here: https://xyonline.net/content/raising-boys-non-violent-men
How to engage more men in the campaign to end violence against women. Instagram Live chat among Tarang Chawla, Matt Defina (The Man Cave), and Professor Michael Flood, with UN Women Australia CEO, Simone Clarke. 48 minutes.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cmko_eCB92M @UNWomenAust @tarang_chawla
White Men Are the Last Best Hope for Herschel Walker in Georgia Senate Runoff
Jackson Katz on the politics of gender, masculinity, and race at the heart of US political contests
https://msmagazine.com/2022/12/02/white-men-herschel-walker-raphael-warnock-georgia-senate-runoff/ via @msmagazine
From Andrew Tate to Jordan Peterson, a phoney zero-sum-game argument sits at the heart of anti-feminist backlash
By Bethan Iley
https://theconversation.com/from-andrew-tate-to-jordan-peterson-a-phone… via @ConversationUK
How Dobbs Triggered a ‘Vasectomy Revolution’
The US Supreme Court ruling made men more interested in how they can prevent unwanted pregnancies. That’s where ‘the Nutcracker’ comes in.
https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2022/12/02/how-dobbs-triggered-a-vasectomy-revolution-00070461
Strangulation during sex has been ‘mainstreamed’ but risks brain damage, experts warn https://www.smh.com.au/national/strangulation-during-sex-has-been-mains…
@wtuohy @MareeCrabbe
Gender Recognition Reform Bill (Scotland): The UN Rapporteur on Violence Against Women raises concerns about violent males abusing the process of acquiring a gender certificate and its rights; access to single-sex spaces for female survivors; etc. https://bit.ly/3tUpKCd @UNSRVAW
The Stories the Anti-Abortion Movement Doesn't Want You to Know
The "pro-life" movement is trying to silence doctors, because they know the truth is damning.
By Jill Filipovic
https://jill.substack.com/p/the-stories-the-anti-abortion-movement
Workplace sexual harassment rates aren't getting better. How do we make it stop?
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-11-30/workplace-harassment-jenkins-rep… @AusHumanRights
Reclaiming Sinéad O' Connor
Suzanne Moore on her music and her activism and their impact. @suzanne_moore
https://suzannemoore.substack.com/p/reclaiming-sinead-o-connor
World Cup 2022: Men’s soccer must stop silencing activism and allyship
There is a tension around social activism and allyship in men’s soccer — particularly in matters of sex, gender and sexuality.
https://theconversation.com/world-cup-2022-mens-soccer-must-stop-silenc…
The Working with Men and Boys for Social Justice Assessment Tool: Join us on 6 Dec to hear about a new tool supporting programs for boys and men, which evaluates their social and gender justice capacities http://bit.ly/3AheyTP
@CRISconsortium
There is a growing emphasis in the violence prevention field on working with victim-survivors and amplifying their voices and expertise. That’s a good thing. But some initiatives risk increasing victim-survivors’ vulnerability or even exploiting them. 1/7
https://womensagenda.com.au/latest/flood-society-with-help-fullstop-aus…
The Experts by Experience Framework provides principles for domestic and sexual violence services’ collaboration with victim-survivors, such as safety, support, and sustainability: https://safeandequal.org.au/working-in-family-violence/service-responses/experts-by-experience-framework/ @safe_and_equal
Full Stop Australia’s National Survivor Advocate Program involves over 250 people. But the program has a budget of only $50k and one part-time worker. How will it live it up to the Experts by Experience best practice principle of *compensating* victim-survivors for their time?
Will Full Stop Australia’s program be able to meet another principle of best practice in work with victim-survivors, providing adequate support and genuine professional development for the victim-survivors’ involvements in media and advocacy? @FullStopAus
Is Full Stop Australia supportive of existing networks of victim-survivors, notably the Independent Collective of Survivors? @icos_aus
Full Stop Australia was described at the launch as “one of the few organisations” that recognises lived experience, but there are other good initiatives that precede it. E.g., Voices for Change, Our Watch’s program training survivors in media advocacy. Safe and Equal's work. Etc.
Also see Safe and Equal’s excellent resources for working with victim-survivors, and resources for victim-survivor advocates themselves, at https://safeandequal.org.au/resource-library/?_sft_resource_topic=lived-experience @safe_and_equal @hegarty_kelsey
Tweets in November
Masculinity and Violent Extremism: This new book, free in PDF, explores the links between masculinity and violent extremism, including men's attraction to violent extremist movements and terrorism. See https://xyonline.net/content/masculinity-and-violent-extremism @DrJoshuaRoose @moral_psych @SimonCopland
Programmes for boys and men: possibilities for gender transformation
A critical analysis of different programmes for boys and men in relation to their capacity for gender transformation.
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/09540253.2022.2147670
Fathers’ roles in preventing domestic and sexual violence: New podcast interview with Professor Michael Flood, for the Fathering Project
Web: https://thefatheringproject.org/fathering-channel/podcast-fathers-positive-masculinity-dr-michael-flood/
Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/fathering-first-podcast-by-the-fathering-project/id1476486881#episodeGuid=Buzzsprout-11756389
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1KItEyNDUSeOHqc6t6EEgi?si=cfe36958b1ed441c
Beer, sport, men: Inside the ‘Holy Trinity’ of alcohol marketing
Men have traditionally been the common link between sport and booze, but times are changing.
https://www.aljazeera.com/sports/2022/11/19/beer-sport-men-inside-the-holy-trinity-of-marketing
Why Tucker Carlson's 'The End of Men' Is So Disturbing
The "documentary" exposes some uneasy truths. But not the ones he meant to put out there.
https://www.menshealth.com/health/a42026957/tucker-carlson-end-of-men-review/
The concept of class is often avoided in public debate, but it's essential for understanding inequality.
https://theconversation.com/the-concept-of-class-is-often-avoided-in-pu… via @ConversationEDU
Men are in denial about the male fertility crisis – and it’s bad for everyone
Sperm counts have plummeted by 62 per cent since 1973, yet the myth that men can easily have a baby at any age, with any lifestyle, persists
https://inews.co.uk/inews-lifestyle/fertility-crisis-men-problems-denial-1978250
Fetterman, Trump, and a New Model of Blue-Collar Masculinity
Democrats don’t have to cede the politics of masculinity to the GOP.
https://www.politico.com/news/magazine/2022/11/15/john-fetterman-blue-collar-masculinity-00066239
Media Coverage Misses the Gender Issues at the Heart of School Shootings
Guns are woven deeply into cultural narratives about American masculinity. By Jackson Katz @msmagazine
https://msmagazine.com/2022/11/21/media-coverage-of-uvalde-misses-the-g… #GunControlNow #guncontrol
Also see this XY collection on guns, violence, and masculinity: https://xyonline.net/content/guns-violence-and-masculinity-xy-collection.
It explores the links between rates of gun ownership and rates of gun violence, and between guns, violence, and masculinity.
Adopting the Gender Transformative Approach in sexual and reproductive health and rights, and gender-based violence programmes: Toolkit by Rutgers, 2018. A 26-pp resource and guide to support the integration of a gender transformative approach, here: https://rutgers.international/resources/adopting-the-gender-transformative-approach-guide-to-the-theoretical-background/
Anti-sexist jokes can motivate collective action for gender equality. An experimental study finds that exposure to subversive humour against sexism increases men’s and women’s inclination to participate in action to challenge gender inequalities. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11199-020-01154-w [Plus graphic, Riquelme, Joking for Gender Equality 2020 – Abstract]
Sexist slurs online: Study of 2.9 million tweets in 1 week containing gendered insults (eg bitch, cunt, slut, whore) finds that hostile sexist tweets are strategic: aim to promote traditional beliefs about femininity, eg beauty ideals, and shame victims. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs11199-019-01095-z [Plus graphic, Felmee, Sexist Slurs - Reinforcing Feminine Stereotypes Online 2020 – Abstract]
A Socialist, Feminist, and Transgender Analysis of “Sex Work”. By Esperanza Fonseca. https://medium.com/@bfonseca.e/a-socialist-feminist-and-transgender-ana… “To defend the right of [clients] to buy women to get off... is to argue it is... necessary for a reserve army of proletarian women to exist to serve the desires of men"
Sex and the census - why surveys should not conflate sex and gender identity. Alice Sullivan, Professor of Sociology, on debates over sex and gender. She criticises some ‘postmodern fallacies’ about sex, and notes policy capture and silencing. In full: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-08/Sullivan%2C%20Sex%20and%20the%20census%20-%20why%20surveys%20should%20not%20conflate%20sex%20and%20gender%20identity%202020.pdf [Plus graphic, Sullivan, Sex and the census - why surveys should not conflate sex and gender identity 2020 Abstract]
Sexist social norms: Globally, over 2005 to 2014 there has been progress and backlash in gender attitudes. Some countries show overall progress, while others show regress. UNDP Human Development Report 2019, p. 157. http://hdr.undp.org/en/2019-report @HDRUNDP [Plus graphic, UNDP, Human Development Report 2019 - Figure 4.9]
Sexist biases in attitudes show a gradient: there is less disagreement with basic aspects of gender equality than higher-level dimensions. E.g., on politics, more agreement that women and men can both vote, than that women can make as good political leaders as men. @HDRUNDP [Plus graphic, UNDP, Human Development Report 2019 - Figure 4.11]
‘You have no authority here’: Feminist linguist Deborah Cameron on the Divine Right of men to talk at, about and over women. And the evidence in fact that talk and conversation are dominated by men. https://debuk.wordpress.com/2021/02/06/you-have-no-authority-here/ @wordspinster
Civilian Men Are Trapped in Ukraine
Human rights and humanitarian NGOs should pay attention to Kyiv’s sex-selective martial law. (July 2022)
By Professor Charli Carpenter
https://foreignpolicy.com/2022/07/15/ukraine-war-conscription-martial-l…
How is economic security linked to violence against women and children? Excellent summary of key insights from the Sexual Violence Research Initiative Forum 2022
https://www.ifpri.org/blog/how-economic-security-linked-violence-agains… @svri
The Securitization of Gender: A Primer
A critique of how the Women, Peace and Security (WPS) agenda has moved away from its feminist demilitarization and anti-war roots.
https://theglobalobservatory.org/2022/10/the-securitization-of-gender-a… @WILPF @Peace_Women
Nurturing Care and Men’s Engagement: This new Brief summarizes the benefits of men's engagement in providing nurturing care on outcomes for women, children, and men themselves.
https://nurturing-care.org/engaging-men-in-nurturing-care/ @NurturingCare @equimundo_org
Here’s the tragedy of ‘mateship’ – many men just don’t talk about stuff that really matters. (On men, friendship, and ageing)
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/nov/22/heres-the-tragedy…
The masculinity crisis: Three books examine the challenges — from schoolyard to workplace — faced by boys and men as they adapt to their changing status in the modern world.
Review, The Financial Times @FinancialTimes @FT
https://www.ft.com/content/2122af5e-f094-48e8-a9bc-67ca221fbdf1
#MRAs #Mensrights: Represents a pro-sexist, patriarchal backlash. Profoundly wrong about gender, dangerous for women, & limiting for men. Based on a systematic denial of men’s power & privilege & a misdiagnosis of men’s pain. pp. 271- of chapter (2004): http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Flood%2C%20Backlash%20-%20…
The health and well-being of men in European countries: Valuable report from the WHO (2018). Traces patterns of health; notes the links between sex, gender, masculinities, and socioeconomic determinants of health; and describes a people-centered response. https://www.euro.who.int/en/publications/abstracts/the-health-and-well-… [Plus graphics, WHO, The health and well-being of men in the WHO European Region 2018 Cover; WHO, The health and well-being of men in the WHO European Region 2018 TOC]
Action on men’s health: Invaluable account of men’s health policy and programming, in this new report by Global Action on Men’s Health. Identifies the limits of existing efforts, wider context, and opportunities for policy. http://gamh.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/From-the-Margins-to-The-Main… @Globalmenhealth
Men’s attitudes towards gender equality show four patterns. 1) Most men are supportive of gender equality. 2) Men’s support is lower than women’s. 3) Young men have better attitudes, generally. 4) Attitudes vary by other factors. Pp. 13-17 of 2015 Chapter: http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Engaging%20Men%20in%20Buil… [Plus graphic, Flood, Men and gender equality - Book intro - 4 patterns]
Men’s attitudes towards gender are only one dimension of men’s involvements in gender. Men may respect the women in their lives, but not challenge the broader power structures in society which favour men (Flood book chapter, p. 17 of http://xyonline.net/content/men-and-gender-equality-book-chapter)
Men’s attitudes towards gender equality show 4 patterns. Most men are supportive of equality. Men’s attitudes are worse than women’s. Younger men’s attitudes tend to be better than older. Attitudes vary by ethnicity, education, and region. See pp. 13-17 of http://xyonline.net/content/men-and-gender-equality-book-chapter
Men’s attitudes towards manhood and gender equality vary radically by country. E.g., only 8% of men in Mexico agreed that “To be a man, you need to be tough,” but close to half of men in Brazil and Chile and 86% of men in India. See pp. 14 of book chapter: http://xyonline.net/content/men-and-gender-equality-book-chapter
Men’s support for gender equality can be tokenistic, superficial, or dependent on the domain. See pp 13-17 of chapter at http://xyonline.net/content/men-and-gender-equality-book-chapter. Men’s attitudes towards gender also are shaped by education, marriage, and other factors. See pp. 16-17
Feminist Parenting: Miss Captain America And Employable Barbie. (Raise your kids or smash gender roles? Challenges notwithstanding, there’s no reason you can’t do both, writes Nelly Thomas) Includes good summary of the problems of gender roles. 2017. https://newmatilda.com/2017/06/12/feminist-parenting/
How can women, and men, raise gender-equitable sons? How, for example, can mothers and fathers encourage their sons to grow up to respect girls and women? Here are some some recent and accessible discussions of raising boys: https://xyonline.net/content/raising-feminist-sons-xy-collection
Violence prevention: There is an excellent international literature on how best to prevent and reduce men’s violence against women. This XY collection features key international reports & reviews, in full text here: http://www.xyonline.net/content/preventing-violence-against-women-xy-collection #VAW #GBV #DV #IDEVAW #16DaysOfActivism
Victims never cause rape. Rapists do. Short skirts never cause rape. Rapists do. Drinking never causes rape. Rapists do. Flirting never causes rape. Rapists do. #Rape #VAW [plus “Victims never cause rape” graphic]
Rape culture: “a complex of beliefs that encourage male sexual aggression and supports violence against women [and girls], a society where violence is seen as sexy and sexuality as violent, and a continuum of threatened violence that ranges from ...” https://www.libertarianism.org/columns/rape-culture-yea-or-nay
Few men will say that they would “rape a woman”. But significant proportions, e.g. 1 in 3, say they would “force a woman to sexual intercourse” if they knew they could get away with it. http://www.newsweek.com/campus-rapists-and-semantics-297463
Men’s sexual harassment of other men and boys: often involves the same motivations as those for SH of women and girls: prove the perpetrators’ and their group’s masculinity, punish those who do not adhere to gender expectations, and uphold gender norms. https://www.stanfordlawreview.org/online/the-masculinity-motivation/ [Plus graphic, McGinley, The Masculinity Motivation 2018 – Title]
Men’s and boys’ harassment of other men and boy is often sexualised, and motivated by “a desire to police the masculinity of the group to assure that its members prove and maintain their own masculinity and that of their affiliates” (106). https://www.stanfordlawreview.org/online/the-masculinity-motivation/ [Plus graphic, McGinley, The Masculinity Motivation 2018 – Title]
Violence against women: Ethnicity and class intersect in shaping men’s perpetration & how this is treated & perceived. White men less likely to be arrested & charged, & their violence less likely to be seen as linked to their ethnicity. Ch 11 in FREE book: https://xyonline.net/content/new-book-engaging-men-and-boys-violence-pr… [Plus graphic, Flood, Engaging Men and Boys in Violence Prevention 2018 p. 353]
Eliminating everyday sexism at work: Useful report from Male Champions of Change (2018) on what everyday sexism looks like, its impact, and what leaders and organisations can do. https://championsofchangecoalition.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/We-Se… @champs_change
MRA websites involve hateful & violence-supportive rhetoric. MRAs engage in targetted campaigns of harassment & silencing of women in online spaces. MRAs’ goal: “to harass women into silence [...] and to reinforce [traditional] gender roles” (137). https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-09/Poland%2C%20Haters%20-%20Misogynist%20movements.pdf
Most adults are open to the idea of exposing young girls and boys to toys and activities that are typically associated with the other sex (Pew survey, USA 2017). But less support for doing this for boys than for girls. Women more supportive than men. https://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2017/12/05/on-gender-differences-no-consensus-on-nature-vs-nurture/ [Plus graphic, Pew, On Gender Differences No Consensus on Nature vs Nurture 2017 Parenting]
Masculinity: The performance and enactment of masculinity is in front of *other men* in particular. Our manhood is granted by other men. Women may be used as currency in improving our ranking on the masculine social scale. Kimmel’s classic essay (1994). https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-05/Kimmel%2C%20Mascu… [Plus graphic, Kimmel, Masculinity as homophobia - Masculinity as homosocial enactment]
Sexual violence prevention: “Prevention programs must therefore address the fundamental role that gender inequity plays in sexual violence, with the goal of shifting social norms surrounding noticing and respecting signs of sexual refusal” (Righi et al., 2021: NP8308) [Plus graphic, Righi, A qualitative analysis of beliefs about sexual consent among high school students 2021 – Title]
Sexual consent and the prevention of sexual aggression: This chapter (in PDF) in the excellent collection “Engaging Boys and Men in Sexual Assault Prevention” provides a valuable overview of the area.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/vtmfymrwobpscyt/Jozkowski%2C%20Sexual%20consent%20and%20the%20prevention%20of%20sexual%20aggression%2C%20in%20Orchowski.pdf?dl=0
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“Initiatives should emphasize deconstructing norms about gender and sexuality that contribute to sexual violence. Specifically, efforts should dispel rape myths, decrease hostile forms of masculinity, and challenge traditional sexually scripted gender roles” (Jozkowski 2022: 227)
Respect at work program in mine training
New Australian-first respect at work program aimed at eliminating disrespectful behaviour in the resources industry developed by Australian Minerals and Energy Skills Alliance (AUSMESA). I was pleased to contribute
https://www.australianmining.com.au/news/respect-at-work-program-cemented-in-mine-training/
Fathers and daughters: what’s the truth behind this unexplored family bond?
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/nov/19/fathers-daughter-men-sexist-empathy-women
What does #masculinities have to do with the war in #Ukraine? What does this mean for #gender equality, #Peace and #Security? New article on Masculinities and #Putin’s war in the International Journal of Mens Social & Community Health, by Tim Shand:
http://www.ijmsch.com/index.php/IJMSCH/article/view/84
Women Are Finding Themselves Being Strangled During Sex — The Consequences Can Be Deadly
Your life is in someone else's hands.
https://www.elle.com.au/culture/sexual-choking-strangulation-dangers-26…
Sexual assault and harassment in Australian politics: 18 months ago, after male Liberal Party staffers allegedly perpetrated sexual harassment and assault against young women, there was talk of reforming a boys’ club culture. Has nothing changed? https://theconversation.com/why-a-code-of-conduct-may-not-be-enough-to-…
Domestic violence – “What about the men?” Book chapter, Understanding Men’s Experiences of Domestic Abuse Within a Gender-based Model of Violence. By Nancy Lombard (2013), in full here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-11/Lombard%2C%20%27What%20about%20the%20men%27%202013.pdf
Masculinity + Sexual Violence: What does research say about the links between masculine norms and sexual violence? Useful outline by @equimundo_org, May 2019. https://medium.com/masc-conversations-on-modern-masculinity/what-we-kno…
“As a woman, I just want the same rights as a rattlesnake.”
Image credit: @jackiecarbajal
[Plus graphic, As a woman, I want the same rights as a rattlesnake]
You’re at work and someone makes a sexist joke or comment. What can you say? Here’s a page of practical responses. E.g.: Ask for explanation. State your disagreement. Question the logic. Personalise the issue. State principles and values. And so on. See https://xyonline.net/content/challenging-everyday-sexism
Traditional gendered scripts for sexuality (female passivity, male sexual entitlement etc.) give women a poor deal in sexual relationships with men. Fake orgasms, put up with sexual pain, prioritise their partner’s pleasure over their own, etc. Full paper: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Fahs%2C%20The%20Other%20T…
Coercive control: A term for when one person in an intimate relationship establishes a pattern of control and domination over their partner
See this discussion, pp. 3-7 of this paper by Shift: The Project to End Domestic Violence, U of Calgary: https://prism.ucalgary.ca/handle/1880/112525 1/5
Coercive control is typically by men against female partners. Individual men exploit wider gender inequalities to establish domination and protect and extend their privileged access to money, sex, leisure time, domestic service, and other benefits. 2/5
Coercive control is a common dynamic of domestic violence, in which: 1. Abuse is ongoing rather than incident-specific. 2. Abuse involves frequent, even routine, but generally low-level assault. 3. Abuse includes a range of tactics in addition to physical force. 3/5
4. Abuse is often subtle and difficult to see. 5. Resulting harms are cumulative.
Perpetrators of coercive control use coercion tactics - using force or threats to compel or discourage particular responses – and control tactics intended to isolate and regulate victims. 4/5
Coercive tactics include violence, and intimidation: including threats, surveillance, and degradation.
Control tactics include deprivation, exploitation, micro-managing a victim’s everyday behaviour, and isolation. 5/5
Paper: https://prism.ucalgary.ca/handle/1880/112525 [Plus graphic, Lee, Building a case for using "Coercive Control" in Alberta Discussion Paper 2020 Tactics]
Handbook: addressing violence and harassment against women in the world of work. UN Women, 2019: This 124pp handbook provides practical guidance and examples of how to prevent and respond to violence and harassment against women in various work settings. http://endvawnow.org/uploads/browser/files/work-handbook-interior-web-r… [Plus graphic, UN Women, Handbook - Addressing violence and harassment against women in the world of work 2019 – Cover]
#MeToo: Lower support for #MeToo among men than women is explained by men’s higher levels of hostile sexism, higher endorsement of rape myths, and lower levels of feminist identification. Study in the USA and Norway, by Kunst et al. (2018). [Plus graphic, Kunst, Sexism, rape myths and feminist identification MeToo 2018 – Abstract]
Strangulation isn’t a fetish. By Anna Fearon. ‘Breath play’ is a polite term used to disguise strangulation, choking and suffocation. The practice is fundamentally unsafe, part of partner violence, and consented to by women for problematic reasons. https://filia.org.uk/news/2020/7/30/strangulation-isnt-a-fetish-1
Rape-supportive attitudes are common in Australia. Far too many Australians doubt victims, believe false accusations of rape are common (they’re RARE, the research shows) and see women as liars and malicious. @ANROWS NCAS survey, p.87 of full report: https://www.anrows.org.au/NCAS/2017/findings/ [Plus graphic, ANROWS, Australians’ attitudes to violence against women and gender equality NCAS Findings 2018 p87 Attitudes distrust]
'Before they hit you, they hit near you'
More than half of Australian small business owners suspect one of their staff members is experiencing domestic violence, but many feel ill-equipped to fix it.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-11-18/small-business-workers-domestic-… @WhiteRibbonAust
Sexual harassment: Excellent, lengthy review of what we know from research about sexual harassment, from the National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine, 2018. On prevalence, risk factors, impacts, etc. Free here: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK519455/
Responding to male victims of domestic violence: What are effective and appropriate ways to respond to male victims? This XY collection features resources and guides on this area: https://xyonline.net/content/responding-male-victims-domestic-violence-xy-collection
The Working with Men and Boys for Social Justice Assessment Tool: Join us on 6 Dec to hear about a new tool supporting programs for boys and men, which evaluates their social and gender justice capacities http://bit.ly/3AheyTP @CRISconsortium
As an expert on domestic and sexual violence and its prevention, I have signed on to an open letter in support of Amber Heard. Over 100 of my colleagues have joined me. Please read it here: https://amberopenletter.com
#ExpertsForAmber #IStandwithAmberHeard
Pornography viewing predicts later sexual assault perpetration. In a longitudinal study of US middle and high school students over 3 years, young people who had viewed porn were between 4.2 and 14.4 times more likely to go on to perpetrate sexual assault than other young people. [Plus graphic, Waterman, Prospective Associations Between Pornography Viewing and Sexual Aggression Among Adolescents 2022 – Abstract]
Rebel Wilson and the problem with surrogacy
Julie Bindel argues that surrogacy is inconsistent with feminist and human rights principles.
https://www.spectator.co.uk/article/surrogacy-is-just-another-way-to-turn-womens-bodies-into-profit/
MoveMen: A partnership approach to gender justice work in Belgium
Profile of a project for working with men and boys for gender justice and violence prevention in Belgium
https://menengage.org/stories/movemen-a-partnership-approach-to-gender-justice-work-in-belgium/
Parents underestimate how much their children are exposed to pornography and how much children learn from it.
Parents underestimate both sons’ and daughters’ exposure to and socialisation from pornography, finds US research. Especially their sons'.
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-022-02449-7
Four-fifths of people in Australia agree that “There are things that all men can do to help prevent violence against women.” And very few disagree. (About 80% agree, 16% are unsure, & only 4% disagree.) @VicHealth report on attitudes to masculinity, p.26: https://www.vichealth.vic.gov.au/-/media/ProgramsandProjects/HealthIneq…
All the single ladies
Apparently, the solution to the Liberal Party’s “women problem” is to educate fewer of them.
By Rachel Withers
https://www.themonthly.com.au/the-politics/rachel-withers/2022/11/14/al… @rachelrwithers
Gender and domestic violence: One reason why many studies seemingly show that similar numbers of men and women have suffered DV is because these studies use the Conflict Tactics Scale (CTS), only counting violent acts rather than asking about their impact, meaning, or context 1/3
An Australian study found that CTS-style studies often mistakenly counted as domestic violence behaviours that were undertaken in a light-hearted or non-abusive context. That is, they mistakenly counted behaviours that were playful, unintentional, and so on. 2/3
This ‘over-reporting’ was twice as common among men as women. In fact, one quarter of men’s experiences were overreports (Ackerman, 2016). This may shape the apparent findings of gender symmetry in domestic violence victimisation. Paper here: https://academic.oup.com/bjc/article-abstract/56/4/646/2747208 3/3
‘His intention was to kill my mother, then come for us’
A daughter recalls growing up in the grip of what we now call coercive control, but what she then thought were just her father’s ‘unique’ ways.
https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/his-intention-w…
If Your Version of Masculinity Is Incompatible with Humanity… You Might Be Doing It Wrong. Empathy isn’t feminine. It’s human. Connection isn’t sissy. It’s human. Being kind and loving isn’t gay. It’s human. By Michael Kasdan. https://medium.com/equality-includes-you/if-your-version-of-masculinity…
Share the Load: Indian campaign on men sharing the load of domestic and caring work (2016). A father reflects on his daughter’s life and his own. With English sub-titles (2:00 min): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwW0X9f0mME
Promoting healthier masculinities: Here is a wonderful collection of key resources: a framework, a scoping review, a report on attitudes to men and masculinities in Australia, and a messaging guide. @VicHealth Healthier Masculinities project. https://www.vichealth.vic.gov.au/media-and-resources/publications/healthiermasculinities#
Promoting healthier masculinities: Use a message structure of Vision, Barrier, Action. Values-based vision. What stands between us & the vision. (Frame barriers as external to men, to lessen blame & defensiveness.) What must be done, + benefits. @VicHealth https://www.vichealth.vic.gov.au/-/media/ProgramsandProjects/HealthIneq…
Support for Fathers: Good website for fathers, and those who work with fathers, by Relationships Australia, here: https://supportforfathers.com.au/. Includes tools for fathers, list of groups around Australia, and frameworks and guidelines. @relaustvic
Pornography contributes to the attitudes identified as drivers of men’s violence against women: rigid and sexist gender roles, male control of relationships, condoning of violence against women, aggression & disrespect towards women. @OurWatchAus paper: https://www.ourwatch.org.au/resource/pornography-young-people-and-preventing-violence-against-women-background-paper-2020/
Conformity to traditional masculinity is a well-documented risk factor for men’s perpetration of violence against women. The men who perpetrate sexual violence show higher support for patriarchal and gender-inequitable attitudes than other men (#NotAllMen) https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-06/Flood%2C%20Men%20and%20the%20Man%20Box%20-%20report%20excerpt.pdf [Plus graphic, Flood, Men and the Man Box - report excerpt p. 50]
Sexual assault prevention tips: Sensible strategies for minimising the risk of rape. E.g.: If you’re in a lift and someone gets in... Carry a whistle if you are worried that… Use the buddy system… [Plus graphic, 10 Top Tips to End Rape]
Non-physical abuse: Many people find it difficult to recognise non-physical forms of partner abuse. Yet this abuse is serious and harmful. New animated videos from @OurWatchAus complement its resource ‘Unpacking Violence’. Valuable for practitioners, here: https://www.ourwatch.org.au/What-We-Do/Unpacking-Violence-A-storytellin… [Plus graphic, Our Watch, Unpacking violence - Videos Aug 2019]
Rape culture & sexual entitlement: “one of the fundamental operating principles of rape culture, rarely articulated but routinely defended, is this: men’s right to sexual intercourse is as important or more important than women’s basic bodily autonomy”. https://longreads.com/2017/10/10/the-horizon-of-desire/
Rape culture: “the social, cultural and structural discourses and practices in which sexual violence is tolerated, accepted, eroticised, minimised and trivialised”. Powell and Henry’s chapter, p. 2, in “Preventing Sexual Violence” (2014), in FULL here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-11/Henry%2C%20Preventing%20Sexual%20Violence%20%282014%29%20-%20Chap%201.pdf [Plus graphic, Powell and Henry, Preventing sexual violence 2014 p. 2 Rape culture.jpeg]
Pornography: Excellent overview on pornography’s role in shaping sexual attitudes and behaviours, by Hald et al., 35pp., in the APA Handbook of Sexuality and Psychology (2014). Explores models of porn’s influence and the evidence on effects. Download here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-07/Hald%2C%20Sexuali…
Pornography is one important influence on the sexual socialisation of children and young people. Wright’s review of the research (2014), including a model of media socialisation. In full here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-07/Wright%2C%20Pornography%20and%20the%20sexual%20socialization%20of%20children%202014.pdf
Pornography, young people and preventing violence against women. Valuable paper by @OurWatchAus on developing an effective response to pornography’s influence on young people’s ideas and attitudes about gender roles and identities, sex and relationships. https://www.ourwatch.org.au/resource/pornography-young-people-and-preve…
Boys, pornography, and sexual violence: A multi-country European study finds that young men who use porn regularly are more likely than other young men to perpetrate sexual violence (Stanley et al. 2018). Survey of 4,564 young people aged 14 to 17 in five European countries. 1/4
Boys were far more likely than girls to regularly watch pornography. Among boys, regularly watching pornography was associated with increased probability of being a perpetrator of sexual coercion. 2/4
Asked if they regularly watched online porn, the following proportions agreed: 44% of boys & 8% of girls in Bulgaria, 59% of boys & 3% of girls in Cyprus, 39% of boys & 3% of girls in England, 44% of boys & 5% of girls in Italy, and 48% of boys & 6% of girls in Norway. 3/4
Boys’ perpetration of sexual coercion was associated with regular viewing of online porn. Boys who regularly watched porn were significantly more likely to hold negative gender attitudes, and these too were associated with sexual coercion. Study: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0886260516633204 4/4
Addressing Masculine Norms to Improve Life Outcomes for Young Black Men: Why We Still Can’t Wait. By Riki Wilchins of TrueChild and Micah Gilmer of Frontline Solutions, for the United Philanthropy Forum, 2016. https://www.unitedphilforum.org/sites/default/files/Young%20Black%20Men%20%26%20Masculinity%20%5BABFE%5D.pdf
Do you work with men or boys in your role as an educator, social worker, community worker, or advocate? I have just updated my online bibliographies on work with men and boys. New sections e.g. on work with fathers, GBT men, men in prison, etc. https://xyonline.net/books/bibliography/14-working-men
“Male Ally Manifesto” – a guideline for men to be better allies and support systems to women. An excerpt from Amber Tamblyn’s book, Era of Ignition: Coming of Age in a Time of Rage and Revolution (2019). https://nowthisnews.com/her/read-part-of-amber-tamblyns-male-ally-manifesto
Men who act in support of feminism may experience a ‘pedestal effect’: disproportionate praise and status and rapid leadership. But they also may encounter understandable distrust and cynicism from feminists and women’s organisations. Chapter, pp. 193-94: https://xyonline.net/content/mens-experiences-agents-feminist-change
Boys’ television: This report finds that male characters on the most popular TV shows for boys are portrayed as aggressive, uncaring, and as hands-off parents; it concludes by providing recommendations for action. https://www.equimundo.org/resources/if-he-can-see-it-will-he-be-it-repr… @equimundo_org @GDIGM [Plus graphic, GDIGM and Promundo, If He Can See It, Will He Be It 2020 - Cover]
Men participating in feminism: Sarah Ditum (2015) argues that if men’s ‘support’ for feminism involves giving up nothing, challenging nothing in themselves or other men, then it’s just patriarchy all over again. https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-05/Ditum%2C%20The%20problem%20with%20men%20participating%20in%20feminism%20Oct%2026%202015.pdf
How can women, and men, raise feminist sons? How, for example, can mothers and fathers encourage their sons to grow up to respect girls and women? See here for a range of accessible, free discussions: https://xyonline.net/content/raising-feminist-sons-xy-collection
Violence against women: #Feminist beliefs protect women who’ve experienced abuse. Their feminist beliefs help them to feel less self-blame, greater connections to other women, etc. (Versus the MRA claim that feminism ‘makes women into victims’.) Full text: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Gefter%2C%20Feminist%20Be… [Plus graphic, Gefter, Feminist beliefs]
Defining the f word: Murphy’s powerful argument for a meaningful, politicised feminism. Beyond naïve notions of choice and empowerment, and back to feminism as a collective struggle or movement to end patriarchy. https://i-d.vice.com/enuk/article/wj5aww/defining-the-f-word-why-we-need-to-be-radical-with-feminism #feminism #patriarchy
Housework: Women have less satisfaction in relationships, and are more likely to consider divorcing or separating, if they do more housework, or their housework contributions are discredited or under-reported. Ruppaner et al., in full text here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2018-03/Ruppanner%2C%20Do… [Plus graphic, Ruppanner, Does Unequal Housework Lead to Divorce 2018 – Abstract]
Men, heed the cost of not hearing women’s voices
By Greg Loughlin and David Adams
https://www.ajc.com/opinion/opinion-men-heed-the-cost-of-not-hearing-wo…
Boys need to talk more about feelings and fight inequality, report says The Global Boyhood Initiative aims to enable adults to raise boys to become men who embrace healthy masculinity
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/nov/08/boys-need-to-talk-more-about-feelings-and-fight-inequality-report-says @equimundo_org
Feminism is good for boys: A report shows that boys benefit from learning about gender stereotypes and different types of masculinity
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/nov/08/feminists-war-on-… @equimundo_org
Sexual harassment: The vast majority of harassers of women, and most harassers of men, are men. And much harassment is by peers, not superordinates. See this review by the National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine, 2018, free here: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK519455/ [Plus graphic, National Academies, Sexual Harassment of Patterns of harassment]
#Violence against women / #VAW: Here is an accessible, well-informed introduction by Redfern and Aune, a chapter in their book “Reclaiming the F Word: The New Feminist Movement” (2010), free among the introductions here: http://www.xyonline.net/content/mens-violence-against-women-some-key-re… #DV #GBV #Rape
“When you approach me in public, you are Schrödinger’s Rapist. You may or may not be a man who would commit rape.” (A guy’s guide to approaching strange women without being maced) https://renegadeexpressions.com/2013/10/03/schrodingers-rapist-or-a-guy…
#MeToo: The myth of false allegations is widespread. Survey among US adults finds that more than half are *equally* concerned for victimised women and falsely accused men, while one in six are more concerned about falsely accused men. https://morningconsult.com/2018/10/11/a-year-into-metoo-public-worried-about-false-allegations/ [Plus graphic, Morningconsult, A Year Into MeToo Public Worried About False Allegations – Graphic]
Male violence or patriarchal violence? Gary Barker argues, instead of talking about “male violence” or “gender-based violence”, a more useful analytical framework is “patriarchal violence”. Including for men’s violence against men. Free in full text here: https://www.scielo.br/j/sess/a/mrcnkWPr5zPdbQxyKPDFYkm/?format=pdf&lang=en [Plus graphic, Barker, Male violence or patriarchal violence 2016 - How to de-naturalize ]
Sexual harassment in academia : Has devastating professional and personal effects for the targeted person. *And*, men’s SH can benefit the sexual harassers’ careers and professional success, and that of other men, by systematically undermining women. https://www.dropbox.com/s/19pbqdymv6s5hl5/Mansfield%2C%20It%E2%80%99s%20time%20to%20recognize%20how%20men%E2%80%99s%20careers%20benefit%20from%20sexually%20harassing%20women%202019.pdf?dl=0 [Plus graphic, Mansfield, It’s time to recognize how men’s careers benefit from sexually harassing women 2019 - For one]
The lifetimes of violence women suffer at the hands of (some) men
“A woman abused when she was a little girl, cat-called when she’s walking home from school, groped as a young woman, raped on a first date.. tormented by her husband... assaulted when she moves to aged care.” 1/3
How many men are perpetrating this violence? Clearly, when the prevalence is so high, it can’t just be a few bad men raping, beating, intimidating and demeaning millions of women. 2/3
And before the NotAllMen howling starts up, *no one* is saying all men are violent. What we are saying is too many men are violent.
By Jane Gilmore @JaneTribune 3/3
https://thenewdaily.com.au/news/national/2021/03/31/jane-gilmore-sexual…
Rape: We need to talk about the word ‘rape’: how it’s used, when it’s avoided, and how that both reflects and contributes to a culture of impunity and injustice.
By Deborah Cameron
https://debuk.wordpress.com/2019/10/25/we-need-to-talk-about-rape/ 1/5
Cameron notes “a reluctance to use words which imply violence in cases where the perpetrator used emotional and psychological manipulation rather than force or threats”. But this just repeats the gaslighting which enables this form of abuse to flourish. 2/5
And when adult men sexually abuse adolescent girls, Cameron notes the “portrayal of adult men as the real victims, ensnared and manipulated by predatory teenage girls”. This “is a good example of what the philosopher Kate Manne calls ‘himpathy’..." 3/5
"a good example of what the philosopher Kate Manne calls ‘himpathy’, our socialised tendency to feel a man’s pain more easily and keenly than we would feel a woman’s, and to give him, wherever possible, the benefit of the doubt.” 4/5
We need to stop using, or tolerating, language that makes the reality of rape disappear.
By Deborah Cameron
https://debuk.wordpress.com/2019/10/25/we-need-to-talk-about-rape/ 5/5
Gender lens on the first budget of the Albanese Government: The National Foundation for Australia Women has now released the Gender Lens on the October 2022-23 Budget. You can access the analysis at: https://nfaw.org/uncategorized/gender-lens-on-the-october-2022-23-budget/
Men as allies and activists in building gender equality and ending violence against women: Male allies and programs for men must be accountable to women’s rights activists and women-centered programs. See https://cofemsocialchange.org/feminist-pocketbook/ @TheSVRI @COFEMEVAW @MenEngage [Plus graphic, COFEM, Men as allies – Key points]
Men’s profeminist work: should involve accountability, i.e. working in gender-equitable ways. At three levels: 1) personal: men addressing their own practice; 2) interpersonal; 3) institutional: consultation & collaboration. See pp 92-96 of my FREE book https://xyonline.net/content/new-book-engaging-men-and-boys-violence-prevention
Abortion and reproductive rights in Australia
Access to abortion remains difficult in Australia, and the persistent stigma around this and other crucial reproductive health services puts patients at risk. By Jane Caro. @JaneCaro
https://www.thesaturdaypaper.com.au/life/health/2022/11/05/abortion-and…
My assault shows that toxic masculinity hurts men, too. How can universities shift the culture?
Men also survive campus sexual violence. I struggled. Here are 4 lessons that could inform the effort to illuminate and address The Red Zone.
https://www.publicsource.org/men-masculinity-sexual-violence-rape-assau…
Bad Reputation
Moira Donegan created the “Shitty Media Men” list to address a moral injustice. Stephen Elliott says he’s suing her for the same reason.
By Lila Shapiro @lilapearl
https://nymag.com/intelligencer/article/shitty-media-men-lawsuit-moira-…
Do Violent Homes Make Violent Extremists?
How childhood experiences around domestic violence may be driving terrorism worldwide
https://wwb.org/activity/violent-homes-make-violent-extremists/
Russians are using rape as a weapon of war. What is the world doing for Ukrainian women?
Ukrainian women are being raped, then escaping to countries where abortion is outlawed or curtailed.
By Jill Filipovic
https://jill.substack.com/p/russians-are-using-rape-as-a-weapon
Perpetrator accountability: This was one of the emphases in the speech by Amanda Rishworth, Minister for Social Services, November 3, launching Labor's plan to end violence against women. “making sure that those who choose to use gender-based violence are held accountable for their actions.”
“Accountability, in part, is ensuring victim-survivors are never being held responsible for calling out the violence they face. It’s ending the rhetoric of ‘why didn’t she just leave’ and shifting it to ‘why is he choosing to act in this way?’”
https://ministers.dss.gov.au/speeches/9626
Breaking the [gender] norm: Unleashing Australia’s Economic Potential
New report by Deloitte Access Economics, in partnership with Australians Investing in Women, highlights the role that gender norms play in driving gender gaps in paid and care work.
https://www2.deloitte.com/au/en/pages/economics/articles/breaking-norm-…
Masculinity: podcast interview with Professor Michael Flood, by Emily Wolter, here: https://www.bswithem.com/the-experts/michaelfloodsociologist. Covers the "man box", how to be a good man, whether the conversation around masculinity and femininity is outdated, etc.
Do we need the word ‘woman’ in healthcare?
Should clinicians be using the word ‘woman’ in medical language? Should we omit words such as ‘woman’ or ‘mother’ in favour of ‘gender inclusive’ or ‘gender neutral’ terms?
Sara Dahlen explores the issues: https://pmj.bmj.com/content/97/1150/483
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Dahlen contrasts additive language (where terms inclusive of trans people are added) with gender-neutral language (where terms like “women” are routinely omitted). It seems difficult to justify routine omission of the word woman if some women feel erased or dehumanised by this.
Also, the use of some ‘gender inclusive’ formulations may go against principles of jargon-free communication. Especially because of “widespread lack of knowledge regarding the female reproductive system” 3/10
Dahlen asks “whether gender inclusive linguistic changes could have the unintended consequence of making biological sex conceptually less visible and much more difficult to clearly explain in healthcare and medical education”. 4/10
“Do we need an unambiguous medical word to indicate that uterus-havers, individuals with a cervix and pregnant persons have in common a specific type of reproductive system? In plain language, how should we indicate such persons as biologically distinct from the ..." 5/10
"In plain language, how should we indicate such persons as biologically distinct from the epididymis-owners, prostate-possessors and seminal fluid producers?” 6/10
Dahlen notes the gender asymmetry in attention to language: “Arguably, discussions around gender neutral terminology appear to focus mainly on alteration of female-specific language, rather than amending male-associated words” 7/10
“Retaining scientific terminology specific to biological sex and human reproduction is vital: how else are we to speak of differences between females and males? Respecting and centring individual needs is important: how else are patients going to feel welcome to attend a clinic?"
"Clinical terminology needs to be cognisant of diverse audiences, flexible to different purposes and allow dialogue on local and global levels. Language in healthcare should aim for clear and respectful communication." 9/10
Dahlen concludes, "When it comes to choosing the right words for communication on biology and identity, clinicians need more discussion.” 10/10
https://pmj.bmj.com/content/97/1150/483
Working with men and boys? The MenEngage Alliance, an international network of 900+ organisations engaging men and boys in positive change, offers some excellent guiding principles for this work. See https://menengage.org/about/core-principles/ @MenEngage
Young men’s views of societal expectations of manhood: They say they’re expected as men to be tough, be the primary income earner, & never say no to sex. But most reject the ideas that they should shun care & domestic work, or use violence to get respect. https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-06/Flood%2C%20Men%20… [Plus graphic, Flood, Men and the Man Box - report excerpt p. 47 Ideals]
Key insights from masculinities scholarship 1/2, in chapter by Nancy Dowd: 1. Men are not universal or undifferentiated. 2. Men pay a price for privilege. 3. Intersections of manhood particularly with […] may entirely trump male gender privilege. Chapter: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-11/Dowd%2C%20The%20M… [Plus graphic, Dowd, The Man Question (2010), pp. 57-65]
Key insights on masculinities scholarship 2/2: 4. Masculinity is a social construction. 5. One masculinity norm dominates multiple masculinities. 7. The two most common pieces defining masculinity are not to be like a woman and not to be gay. Etc. Chapter: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-11/Dowd%2C%20The%20M… [Plus graphic, Dowd, The Man Question (2010), pp. 57-65]
Men’s health at work: Masculine norms e.g. about being a ‘tough’ worker mean some men return to work too early, don’t report safety issues, don’t disclose injury, and don’t ask for support. Stergiou-Kita et al. 2016, here: http://xyonline.net/content/male-injuries-and-deaths-work-xy-collection [Plus graphic, Stergiou-Kita, What’s gender got to do with it 2016 – Abstract]
Young Men Who Support Reproductive Justice Need to Get Out and Vote [in the US midterm elections]
Will men defy the polls and pundits, and vote as an act of solidarity with the women they love, respect and support?
By Jackson Katz.
https://msmagazine.com/2022/11/01/men-abortion-economy-voters-midterms @msmagazine
Also see this XY collection on the role that men can play in supporting women's reproductive health rights: https://xyonline.net/content/men-abortion-and-sexual-and-reproductive-rights-xy-collection
Not all men harass. But most women are preyed upon
By S. Elizabeth Randsell
October 26, 2022
https://www.alternet.org/2022/10/nearly-all-women-preyed-upon/
(Also see this XY collection of critiques of "Not all men": https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-violence-prevention-key-resou….)
The attack on Paul Pelosi should be a moment of national reckoning
Rightwing extremism is a much more significant problem than leftwing radicalism. By Jill Filipovic
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/nov/01/paul-pelosi-attack-rightwing-violence-national-reckoning?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other
"the fetishization of deadly weapons; violence against women that goes unpunished by the party and its supporters; the kind of troubling conspiracy theories that are catnip for crazies and that demand extreme action in response; and the fantasizing about murdering one’s..."
Hockey Canada scandal about sexual assault allegations highlights toxic masculinity in sports
https://theconversation.com/hockey-canada-scandal-highlights-toxic-masculinity-in-sports-192712
@DrMichaelKehler @DrKnottFayle @ConversationCA
Why staying safe while running isn’t just a woman’s problem. https://www.abc.net.au/news/2020-12-13/safe-running-not-just-womans-problem-health-fitness-harassment/12920250 1/2
Men who want to increase women runners’ safety: Don’t assault or harass women. Give women space on the paths. Avoid derogatory or sexual comments. Intervene in other men’s sexist and sleazy comments and behaviour. Support women’s rights to take up public space safely & freely 2/2
Much of the work engaging men in ending violence against women is profeminist – informed by feminism and done by or in collaboration with women and women’s organisations. But *which* feminism should profeminist men support? Journal article full text here: https://rdcu.be/bgbsZ [Plus graphic, Burrell Flood, Which Feminism - Dilemmas in Profeminist Men’s Praxis 2019 – Abstract]
Re-shaping attitudes toolkit: Excellent resource for violence prevention advocates and educators on using data on community attitudes for prevention, evaluation, media work, responding to backlash, etc. See https://www.respectvictoria.vic.gov.au/national-community-attitudes-vio…. Developed by @Respect__Vic @ANROWS @VicHealth
Ill-informed consent: How piecemeal relationship and sexuality education is failing our school children. By Bri Lee, May 2021. https://www.themonthly.com.au/issue/2021/may/1619791200/bri-lee/ill-inf… @bri_lee_writer
The sexual harassment inquiry report is revolutionary. Kristine Ziwica on the Australian Human Rights Commission’s Sexual Harassment Inquiry, Respect@Work, March 2020. https://womensagenda.com.au/latest/the-sexual-harassment-inquiry-report… @KZiwica
Pornography: one in eight titles shown to first-time users on the first page of mainstream porn sites describe sexual activity that constitutes sexual violence. New study of the 3 most popular UK porn websites, in the British Journal of Criminology. https://academic.oup.com/bjc/advance-article/doi/10.1093/bjc/azab035/6208896 [Plus graphic, Vera-Gray, Sexual violence as a sexual script in mainstream online pornography 2021]
Why doesn’t porn ever get cancelled? The industry has been remarkably adept at positioning itself as beyond questions of morality. By Sarah Ditum, 2020. https://unherd.com/2020/06/why-doesnt-porn-ever-get-cancelled/ 1/3
Things that "would be instant cancellation offences in any other medium are granted licence in porn because someone, somewhere got an erection from them.” If someone somewhere finds it sexually arousing, then it gets a free pass from ethical or political scrutiny / assessment 2/3
So-called ethical porn “doesn’t matter. It makes up such a tiny proportion of the industry, it’s like putting a chicken in your back garden and claiming you’ve fixed factory farming.” https://unherd.com/2020/06/why-doesnt-porn-ever-get-cancelled/ 3/3
Should we reconsider how we counsel young men about vasectomy
Healthy Male, October 2022
https://www.healthymale.org.au/news/should-we-reconsider-how-we-counsel-young-men-about-vasectomy
To all the young men rejecting the new ‘king of toxic masculinity’, thank you
By Wendy Tuohy
https://www.smh.com.au/national/to-all-the-young-men-rejecting-the-new-king-of-toxic-masculinity-thank-you-20220818-p5baw6.html
Men are embracing ‘positive masculinity’ and say it’s working – despite the backlash
By Wendy Tuohy
https://www.theage.com.au/national/men-are-embracing-positive-masculinity-and-say-its-working-despite-the-backlash-20221026-p5bt1k.html
@MichaelGLFlood @zacseidler @ColeenMacK_AUS @DavidLeser @rob_sturrock @Matt_B_Tyler
Andrew Tate: how the 'manosphere' influencer is selling extreme masculinity to young men, and what can be done about it
By Associate Professor Robert Lawson
https://theconversation.com/andrew-tate-how-the-manosphere-influencer-is-selling-extreme-masculinity-to-young-men-192564
Sexual assaults going unreported as victims fear they will be blamed
Otago Daily Times, New Zealand
https://www.odt.co.nz/news/national/sexual-assaults-going-unreported-vi…
Experts fear rising global ‘incel’ culture could provoke terrorism
Almost 1,000 references to misogyny and violent action are recorded each day on dedicated incel forums
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/oct/30/global-incel-culture-te…
Myth-busting male contraceptives for health professionals
Healthy Male, October 2022
https://www.healthymale.org.au/news/myth-busting-male-contraceptives-health-professionals
Engaging men in violence prevention: I rarely say this, but here is a genuinely innovative set of materials. 7 evidence reviews, on: calling men in, community justice, data science, virtual reality, bystanders, nudges, fatherhood, social norms. All at: https://preventdomesticviolence.ca/category/men-and-boys/
Tweets in September - October 2022
Busting the myth of victimisation
There’s a harmful stigma attached to ‘being a victim’ that even today, shadows survivors of domestic, family, and sexual violence. Interview with Lula Dembele
https://wesnet.org.au/busting-the-myth-of-victimisation-with-lula-dembe… @DLulabele
Calling all men: this is what we can do to help women feel safe exercising in the dark
We have to break the cycle of misogyny that makes women feel at risk: This Girl Can’s guide sets out steps you can take
By Chris Boardman
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/oct/30/women-safe-exercise-in-the-dark
For plenty more on what men can do to minimise the threat we pose to women and girls and the harms we may cause or condone, see http://xyonline.net/content/what-men-can-do-stop-sexism-and-male-violence
It is time to bring the lived expertise of victim-survivors to the centre of work to end domestic and sexual violence. A powerful speech by Lula Dembele at the launch of the National Plan to End Violence Against Women and Children 2022-32
https://www.illawarramercury.com.au/story/7960431/focus-on-perpetrators…
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There must be a clear focus on reducing the perpetration of gendered violence. Until we understand that perpetration of domestic, family and sexual violence is the problem we are trying to solve, we will continue to burden victims as responsible. @DLulabele
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Men have a 'powerful role' in stopping violence against women and it starts with 'calling out their mates'
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-10-29/stopping-violence-against-women-how-men-can-make-a-difference/101551370
The latest research, programming, and policy on sexual violence, domestic violence, and child abuse: All the presentations from the SVRI Forum 2022, a world-leading conference held recently in Mexico, now are up online: https://www.svriforum2022.org/conference-programme/ @TheSVRI
What the UK ratifying the Istanbul convention on gendered violence means for women and girls
https://theconversation.com/what-the-uk-ratifying-the-istanbul-conventi… via @ConversationUK
What happened at the 2022 Men Challenging Sexism (UK) conference:
Here’s a report on the #MenChallengingSexism conference. Discussions of housework, porn, male violence against women, support for feminist activism, and more.
https://xyonline.net/content/what-happened-men-challenging-sexism-confe… @MenVSexism
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I’m delighted to see this grassroots, pro-feminist men’s activism. It reminds me of Men Against Sexual Assault, the network of grassroots men’s anti-violence groups active in Australia over 1989-1993. MASA begun in Melbourne, and in 1990 400 men marched in the streets there.
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We organised rallies, ran workshops in schools, supported feminist events, had 3 or so national gatherings, and more. (Here’s a speech I gave in 1993: https://xyonline.net/content/men-masculinity-and-violence-speech-1993)
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I continue firmly to believe that mobilising men is a key violence prevention strategy. A key means of both personal and collective change.
As I said at a DV Conference, “We have to get men into grassroots men’s groups, on the streets, and in coalitions and networks."
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"We need men doing the work – not just up the front here, holding the microphone, but making the lamingtons and typing the minutes. And yes, we need stroppy activist movements, making noise and trouble and change.”
https://xyonline.net/content/mobilising-men-build-gender-justice-strategies-effective-movement-building
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Engaging men and boys in preventing violence against women: The latest ten-year National Plan from the Australian Government shows an increased emphasis on engaging men and boys in prevention. Under prevention, this is one of the 8 focus areas for action.
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The National Plan states, “Support men and boys in developing healthy masculinities and positive, supportive relationships with their male peers.” (107)
See the full plan at https://www.dss.gov.au/women-programs-services-reducing-violence/the-national-plan-to-end-violence-against-women-and-children-2022-2032
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The national violence prevention framework “Change the Story” (2021) makes the case for shifting patriarchal masculinities as part of prevention. See e.g. pp. 31-33 on the relationship between masculinity and violence against women. Framework here: https://media-cdn.ourwatch.org.au/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2021/11/18101814/Change-the-story-Our-Watch-AA.pdf
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See pp.34- on the gendered drivers of violence against women, including e.g. driver 3, “Rigid gender stereotyping and dominant forms of masculinity”, and driver 4, “Male peer relations and cultures of masculinity that emphasise aggression, dominance and control”, and pp.41-45
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In turn, supporting men and boys to develop healthy masculinities is a key prevention action. See p. 60 and 63 of Change the Story on 8 essential actions, including action 4.
https://media-cdn.ourwatch.org.au/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2021/11/18… @OurWatchAus
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And for a wealth of free resources on engaging men and boys in violence prevention (guides, readings, speeches, manuals, discussions of key debates, bibliographies, my (free) book, etc.), see here: http://www.xyonline.net/content/violence-walking-tour-some-xy%E2%80%99s…
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How We Raise Our Boys Is Key To A Gender Equal Future: Three Leading Advocates Weigh In
https://www.forbes.com/sites/marianneschnall/2022/10/14/how-we-raise-our-boys-is-key-to-a-gender-equal-future-three-leading-advocates-weigh-in/?sh=59e82e3648f6
Get all the latest news & information on Domestic Violence-Informed training delivered by DART Group Australia, a leading specialist team of FDV, sexual violence & practice experts. Go to: https://www.dartgroupaustralia.com.au/training for further details on dates & how to book.
The Republican Party (USA) celebrates conservative male impunity. It will happily endorse men who are profoundly immoral, violent and abusive towards women, serial liars, and strikingly stupid. While attacking and criminalising women.
@JillFilipovic https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/oct/27/herschel-walker-worst-candidate-republicans
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Republican men "can be proudly incompetent, self-defined imbeciles, moral degenerates and violent misogynists, and they don’t risk their party’s support or conservatives’ ballots". They can force women into abortions while claiming to be anti-abortion. Lie. Cheat. Steal. Etc.
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The "conservative ethos isn’t about any real attachment to family values, moral uprightness, or fetal life, but rather a return to a traditional gender order where men dominate political, social and economic life, and women are financially and socially dependent on them".
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Gender: The basics – A handy book-length introduction to gender, from Professor Hilary Lips (2013), free at: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-08/Lips%2C%20Gender%20-%20The%20Basics%20%282013%29.pdf [Plus graphic, Lips, Gender - The Basics (2013) TOC; Lips, Gender - The Basics (2013) Cover]
Handbook on Resistance to Gender Equality in Academia: This 56-pp handbook focuses on the causes, forms and symptoms of resistance to gender-sensitive implementations. Offers recommendations on different ways of dealing with resistance. See https://www.festa-europa.eu/public/handbook-resistance-gender-equality-academia
Challenging patriarchy: gender equality and humanitarian principles. By Ricardo Fal-Dutra Santos, July 2019. Argues that challenging patriarchy is not only in line with, but also an essential component of, principled humanitarian action. https://blogs.icrc.org/law-and-policy/2019/07/18/gender-equality-humanitarian-principles/
Gender and modesty: Insightful commentary by Deborah Cameron. The gender respect gap, includes the withholding of professional and respect titles from women. The long tradition that a ‘good’ woman should be modest. https://debuk.wordpress.com/2018/06/20/immodesty-becomes-her/ #immodestwomen
Housework: Who Did, Does or Will Do It, and How Much Does It Matter? Fascinating, detailed account of shifts and stabilities in men’s and women’s shares of household labour in the US and elsewhere: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4242525/
In dealing with abuse, family courts are biased towards fathers and against mothers. Study of US cases finds that mothers who alleged fathers’ abuse of children often lost custody to fathers, and far more often than when they alleged partner violence. https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-05/Meier%2C%20Mappin… 1/2 [Plus graphic, Meier, Mapping Gender - Shedding Empirical Light on Family Courts’ Treatment 2017 p. 331]
Family courts are biased against mothers and towards fathers. Study of US cases finds that fathers who alleged alienation were more than twice as likely as mothers to get custody. Even mothers proving fathers’ child abuse didn’t change court outcomes. https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-05/Meier%2C%20Mappin… 2/2 [Plus graphic, Meier, Mapping Gender - Shedding Empirical Light on Family Courts’ Treatment 2017 p. 331]
A statement from victim-survivors
“It is time to transform our pain into action. There can be no more excuses – that it is too hard, we don’t know what to do, it’s too complex."
The powerful opening statement to The National Plan to End Violence against Women and Children. 1/3
"It is everyone’s responsibility to end the perpetration of violence against women and children, and all victims of gendered violence.” 2/3
@icos_aus
"Abuse and violence is a problem for victims, but it is not the victims’ problem. .. We must stop protecting perpetrators with our silence, and through inaction. We must be willing to sit in discomfort. It is time to be brave.” 3/3
https://www.dss.gov.au/women-programs-services-reducing-violence/the-na…
Who is responsible for unwanted pregnancies? Men, a new book argues.
Gabrielle Stanley Blair’s book boldly reframes the abortion debate. The title says it all: ‘Ejaculate Responsibly.’
https://www.washingtonpost.com/books/2022/10/19/ejaculate-responsibly-b…
Virtue school for men: big city push to make Chinese men better fathers and partners after backlash against courses teaching women to be obedient
https://www.scmp.com/news/people-culture/gender-diversity/article/31966…
The old budget paradigm has been bulldozed — women's policies are now in the main game
By Patricia Karvelas.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-10-26/womens-federal-budget-statement-…
Men must prioritise flexibility as highly as women if we’re to achieve true workplace equality
Tarla Lambert, October 17, 2022
https://womensagenda.com.au/partner-content/men-must-prioritise-flexibi…
The Australian Government's new plan to end violence against women is ambitious and intersectional but lacks detail.
https://www.themandarin.com.au/202781-plan-to-end-violence-against-wome… via @TheMandarinAU
How should feminism be defined? I learned of a new feminist group this year, in which feminism was defined as the belief that people of all genders should have equal rights and opportunities. As aimed at equal rights for all genders. I'm troubled by these. 1/7
This definition removes from feminism any specific attention to *women’s oppression or subordination*. It would be like saying about anti-racism that it is 'the belief that people of all ethnicities/races deserve to have equal rights and opportunities'. 2/7
It would be like saying that anti-racism is about 'seeking equal rights for people of all ethnicities'. Can you see the problem here? There are much more feminist definitions of feminism out there, that do not omit or put aside questions of inequalities between women and men. 3/7
For example, in Hannam’s book Feminism (2006), feminism is defined by: 1) a recognition of an imbalance of power, with women subordinate to men; 2) a belief that gender inequalities are social in origin, & can be changed; & 3) an emphasis on women’s autonomy and empowerment. 4/7
Putting this more simply, feminism is defined by the key ideas that women’s social conditions are unfair, socially constructed, and thus open to change. (Hannam's book is here: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2021-03/Hannam%2C%20Femin….) 5/7
Similarly, in her book An introduction to feminism (2016, p. 6), Finlayson emphasises that feminism is defined by recognition of, and opposition to, patriarchy, a system in which men have power over women. (See https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-08/Finlayson%2C%20An….) 6/7
And then there is famous black American feminism bell hooks. She writes that “Feminism is a struggle to end sexist oppression”. See her book Feminist Theory: From margin to centre (1984): https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2021-12/hooks%2C%20Femini… 7/7
Men who identify as feminists are having more — and more varied — sex. New Canadian research. https://www.insider.com/men-who-identify-as-feminists-are-having-more-v… via @thisisinsider
How to become a Feminist dad. Most parenting and pregnancy guidance is targeted at women. Gender specialist Sebastian Molano tells us the lessons he has learned as a new father. By Sebastian Molano, 2018. https://medium.com/words-in-the-bucket/how-to-become-a-feminist-dad-25688740c9f5
Why Gender Equality Is Good for Men's Health and Why This Matters Now
A nice three-page account, with citations, of how gender equality is good for men and men’s health. By Tania King and Karla Elliott.
https://www.ajpmonline.org/article/S0749-3797(21)00086-6/fulltext @Karla_Elliott
The killings and disappearances of Indigenous women across Australia is a crisis hidden in plain sight - ABC News
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-10-24/murdered-and-missing-indigenous-women-four-corners/101546186
Let’s mobilise men to end violence against women. Because: 1) Most of the work is done by women, and that’s not fair. 2) More men means more energy, resources, and wider networks. 3) Mobilisation is one way to change men themselves - men often change through advocacy. 1/2
4) Mobilising men will build help to build the movements and networks which can advocate for social change and hold governments and other institutions to account. See this FREE book, p.388: https://xyonline.net/content/new-book-engaging-men-and-boys-violence-pr… 2/2 [Plus graphic, Flood, Engaging Men and Boys in Violence Prevention 2018 p. 388 Mobilising]
Domestic Violence Prevention and Intervention in Fatherhood Programs: A useful 15-pp brief for practitioners on how fatherhood programs can help prevent and address domestic violence (2020). Recommendations, promising practices, and further resources. https://www.futureswithoutviolence.org/wp-content/uploads/domestic_violence_prevention_intervention_529.pdf
How to respond when you have been accused of perpetrating abuse or violence. Listen. Take seriously the felt experience of those alleging that you have harassed or abused them. Resist the tendency to deny, minimise, or blame. https://xyonline.net/content/when-profeminist-men-are-alleged-have-perp… 1/3
Take part in any formal complaints process, honestly and supportively. Look closely, carefully, and critically at your own behaviour. Be as open as you possibly can to the possibility that you have behaved in ways which were harassing or inappropriate or abusive to others. 2/3
Take responsibility for your actions. Acknowledge any violent or coercive behaviour you have perpetrated and the harm it has caused. Make and enact a commitment to change. https://xyonline.net/content/when-profeminist-men-are-alleged-have-perpetrated-abuse-or-harassment 3/3
Preventing violence against women: a primer for African women’s organizations. This 2019 primer explores a feminist approach to preventing violence against women, outlines current evidence and unpacks key controversies in VAW prevention programming. https://raisingvoices.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/Raising_Voices_Pri…
Domestic violence: definition, prevalence and nature of presentation in clinical practice. DV "can be better understood as a chronic syndrome characterised [...] by the emotional and psychological abuse that perpetrators use to maintain control” https://www.mja.com.au/journal/2000/173/7/domestic-violence-australia-d…
Masculinity + Sexual Violence: What does research say about the links between masculine norms and sexual violence? Useful outline by @equimundo_org, May 2019. https://medium.com/masc-conversations-on-modern-masculinity/what-we-kno…
Preventing sexual violence: Excellent scholarly account of what’s needed: “the development and rigorous evaluation of effective, comprehensive, theory-based primary prevention strategies ... that address risk and protective factors at multiple levels: http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/DeGue%2C%20A%20systematic%20review%20of%20primary%20prevention%20strategies%202014.pdf [Plus graphic, DeGue, A systematic review of primary prevention strategies 2014 - Final para]
Evidence for what works in preventing violence against women and girls: Outstanding collection of reviews and reports, here: https://www.whatworks.co.za/resources/evidence-reviews. See especially the report, “A rigorous global evidence review of interventions to prevent violence against women and girls”. [Plus graphic, Kerr-Wilson, A rigorous global evidence review of interventions to prevent violence against women and girls 2020 – Cover]
Violence prevention programming and policy: Four key challenges: 1) Implementing comprehensive approaches. 2) Transferring initiatives and strategies across contexts and cultures. 3) Implement effective forms of programming. 4) Evaluation. Free chapter: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-06/Flood%2C%20Curren… [Plus graphic, Flood, Current practices to preventing SIPV 2015 – Intro]
Evidence for what works in preventing violence against women and girls: Outstanding collection of reviews and reports, here: https://www.whatworks.co.za/resources/evidence-reviews. See especially the report, “A rigorous global evidence review of interventions to prevent violence against women and girls”. [Plus graphic, Kerr-Wilson, A rigorous global evidence review of interventions to prevent violence against women and girls 2020 – Cover]
Rape: International studies find that significant proportions of men, from 2%, to 10%, to 51%, have ever used sexual violence against a woman. This survey (2011) finds that men’s lifetime reported use of SV was around 9% in most countries. https://www.icrw.org/publications/evolving-men/ 1/3 [Plus graphic, Barker, Evolving Men - Initial Results from the IMAGES survey Jan 2011 Fig 30]
So why do some men perpetrate sexual violence against women? Because of gender socialisation and gender inequalities, in particular. Because of sexual entitlement and gender-inequitable social norms. Authoritative review of scholarship on perpetration: http://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/Jewkes%2C%20Rape%20perpetration%20-%20%20A%20review%20SVRI%202012_0.pdf 2/3 [Plus graphic, Jewkes, Rape perpetration p. 31]
Men’s rape of women: A study among over 10,000 men across 6 countries in Asia and the Pacific finds that the most common motivation for rape was sexual entitlement - men’s belief that they have the right to sex. Full report: http://www.svri.org/what-we-do/research-support/un-multi-country-study-men-and-violence 3/3
Working with men and boys for violence prevention: Social ideals of manhood in many contexts include emphases on power and control. Violent masculinities also reflect social marginalisation and disadvantage. Lancet article, 2014. https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2019-09/Jewkes%20Flood%20Lang%2C%20From%20work%20with%20men%20and%20boys%202014.pdf [Plus graphic, Jewkes Flood Lang, From work with men and boys 2014 – Abstract]
How men’s engagement advances gender equality
Could involving men in women’s empowerment programmes increase their impact? Promising stories from Tanzania and Rwanda
www.cartierphilanthropy.org/news/how-men-s-engagement-advances-gender-e…
@ICRW @handinhandint @womenforwomenUK
Examining How Masculinity Can Damage Relationships & How Men Can Change That
Experts on gender-based violence share how men can redefine societal gender norms and hold themselves accountable.
https://ilymag.com/2022/09/15/examining-how-masculinity-can-damage-rela…
I Promise, It’s Not Lame to Ask a Woman for Permission
Six years ago, Dave Booda was accused of rape. He didn’t defend himself — instead, here’s what happened.
https://medium.com/equality-includes-you/i-promise-its-not-lame-to-ask-…
#MeToo: Must sexual assault be denounced in public every time? No. (“there is power in someone choosing to whom, and how they disclose such an intimate traumatic experience in order to maintain control over their sexual assault story.”) https://theconversation.com/metoo-must-sexual-assault-be-denounced-in-p… via @LaConvC
Why, when and how men rape: A study in South Africa among men aged 18-49 finds 27.6% have raped a woman. Most were motivated by sexual entitlement, also boredom & ‘entertainment’, & as punishment against girlfriends and other women. Most had first raped girls/women as teenagers. [Plus graphic, Jewkes, Why, when and how men rape 2010 – Abstract]
Guns: Review of the data on firearm possession and violent death finds consistent evidence that gun ownership is associated with higher levels of gun-related suicide and homicide. Guns don’t substitute for other means of killing, but increase overall rates. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.avb.2013.07.025. [Plus graphic, Stroebe, Firearm possession and violent death - A critical review 2013 Abstract]
News reporting on men’s killing of women: Often draws on victim-blaming notions, e.g that that men will ‘naturally’ feel aggrieved when women don’t reciprocate their sexual interest. Puts the onus on women to prevent or contain male violence. Rape culture. https://debuk.wordpress.com/2020/07/11/isolated-incidents/
Domestic violence and gender: Some studies find apparent gender symmetry in partner violence, but this may reflect: 1) sampling; 2) narrow focus on physical aggression; 3) snapshots that underestimate men’s perpetration and overestimate women’s. Paper: https://xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.net/files/2020-05/Hamberger%2C%20Me… [Plus graphic, Hamberger, Methodological Contributions to the Gender Symmetry Debate 2016 – Abstract]
What are the drivers of men’s violence against women? What do these causes of VAW look like day-to-day, and what can we do about them? An accessible series of tip sheets from Partners in Prevention (Safe and Equal Victoria): https://safeandequal.org.au/resources/resources-unpacking-the-gendered-… @safe_and_equal [Plus graphic, DVRCV, Gendered drivers of VAW Tip Sheets 2020 - Male peer relations]
Engaging Men and Boys in the Primary Prevention of Sexual Violence: Check out this new book chapter, outlining and assessing this work. Explores the scope and effectiveness of sexual violence prevention efforts among men and boys.
Free in PDF at https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-and-boys-primary-prevention-s… 1/3
Violence prevention work with men and boys must be: 1) feminist: intended to transform gender inequalities; 2) committed to enhancing boys’ and men’s lives; and 3) intersectional.
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Key debates in the work: What are men’s roles in prevention? What forms of violence do we address? How do we shift common norms of masculine sexuality that feed into sexual violence? And so on.
The chapter is free in PDF at https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-and-boys-primary-prevention-s… @the_daily_panda 3/3
Not ‘revenge porn’, but abuse: let’s call it image-based sexual abuse
By Clare McGlynn and Erika Rackley (2016)
https://inherentlyhuman.wordpress.com/2016/02/15/not-revenge-porn-but-a… 1/4
The term ‘revenge pornography’ addresses only one type of image-based sexual abuse, and only one of the many motivations for it.
The term “image-based sexual abuse” is preferable. 2/4
The term “image-based sexual abuse” is preferable to the term "revenge porn". It:
1) Includes many more non-consensual and harmful uses of sexual images (and includes many not motivated by ‘revenge’);
2) Emphasises that these practices are abusive
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The term “image-based sexual abuse” is preferable to the term "revenge porn". It:
3) Emphasises the links between IBSA and other forms of sexual violence;
4) Avoids the misleading and unhelpful term ‘porn’
https://inherentlyhuman.wordpress.com/2016/02/15/not-revenge-porn-but-a… 4/4
Mind the gap: gender differences in time use are narrowing, but slowly
https://theconversation.com/mind-the-gap-gender-differences-in-time-use… via @ConversationEDU
How abusive partners target women in their workplace
By Jenna Price
https://www.canberratimes.com.au/story/7943016/how-abusive-partners-tar…
‘They said: aren’t you that porn star?’ The woman hunting down image-based abuse
https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2022/oct/19/they-said-ar…
Promoting Positive Masculinities for the Prevention of Violence Against Women (Educational Intervention Guide). A 98-page guide to tools and activities. Produced as part of the PositivMasc project
https://positivmasc.ki.se/wp-content/uploads/sites/113/2022/07/EDUCATIONAL-INTERVENTION-GUIDE-PositivMasc-2022.pdf
Also see the profeminist men’s website XY’s collection of curricula (in full text) for engaging men in preventing men’s violence against women and/or building gender equality, here: http://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-preventing-mens-violence-again…
Study Links Female Sex Doll Ownership With Hostility Toward Women
https://theswaddle.com/study-links-female-sex-doll-ownership-with-hosti…
Men who treated their sex dolls as their partners and reported greater anthropomorphisation in their dolls were more likely to objectify and behave with hostility women in real life.
The new state of healthcare in America: one for men and a worse one for women
After the shutting down of women’s reproductive rights, women in anti-abortion states can’t access life-saving medication for everything from chronic pain to lupus to ulcers.
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/oct/12/abortion-new-state-health…
How to ensure gender equality
Investing in caring manhood will always pay forward
by Gary Barker and Brian Heilman from Equimundo.
https://apolitical.co/solution-articles/en/how-to-ensure-gender-equality @equimundo_org
Boyhood and Child, Early, and Forced Marriages and Unions: An Evidence Review
This piece lays out the case for including boys in efforts to promote gender equality and prevent child marriage.
https://www.equimundo.org/resources/boyhood-and-child-early-and-forced-… @equimundo_org
Journeys of Transformation: A program to engage men as allies in women’s economic empowerment in Guatemala
Includes “Lessons on Recruiting and Retaining Men in Gender Transformative Programs”, outcome evaluation, and full training manual.
https://www.equimundo.org/resources/journeys-of-transformation-briefing… @equimundo_org
Rape is rape
Jane Gilmore's excellent, wide-ranging essay on reforms to laws on rape, persistent victim-blaming, consent education in schools, and community support for myths e.g. of false accusations.
https://meanjin.com.au/essays/rape-is-rape/ @JaneTribune
Be a Better Ally
By Tsedale M. Melaku, Angie Beeman, David G. Smith, and W. Brad Johnson
Harvard Business Review, 2020
https://hbr.org/2020/11/be-a-better-ally
On Mirror Mirror, Todd Sampson went on Omegle. It left viewers - and parents - terrified.
(Omegle markets itself as a place where you can "meet great new friends", but it's also where men direct sexualised & coercive commentary to girls and young women.)
https://www.mamamia.com.au/what-is-omegle/
State of Allyship-In-Action Benchmark Study: National study on male allies for gender equality in corporate workplaces. Finds e.g. a gap between men’s and women’s perceptions of how active men are in practising various ally behaviours.
https://www.iwlfoundation.org/allyship-in-action-research-study @IWLinc
The problem with calling it the 'Brittany Higgins trial.'
Bruce Lehrmann is the one on trial, *not* his alleged victim.
https://www.mamamia.com.au/brittany-higgins-bruce-lehrmann/ 1/2
This expresses a wider problem, that domestic and sexual violence often is framed in media, community understanding, and even policy in ways that remove the perpetrator from view. It’s time to reframe the problem as the *perpetrator’s* problem. https://research.qut.edu.au/centre-for-justice/wp-content/uploads/sites… @DLulabele
How media frames stories on gender-based violence matters
https://www.wellandtribune.ca/opinion/contributors/2022/10/05/how-media-frames-stories-on-gender-based-violence-matters.html
Respectful relationships education: The Queensland Government has delivered an updated and upgraded suite of resources for the delivery of respectful relationships education in Queensland schools, including a public online hub for families and students.
https://statements.qld.gov.au/statements/96269
What Men Say In Tinder Bios And What They Really Mean
One woman’s public-service mission to translate the seemingly innocuous phrases used on dating apps
https://primer.com.au/aileen-barratt-tinder-translator-what-men-say/ [Plus graphic, Barratt, What Men Say In Tinder Bios And What They Really Mean 2022 Examples]
Are Men Frozen in Time? We Need to Transform Rigid Masculinities. (Ravi Verma writes, let’s encourage fluid and respectful masculinities where life is not a zero-sum game but a win-win for all.) March 2020. https://oecd-development-matters.org/2020/03/16/are-men-frozen-in-time-we-need-to-transform-rigid-masculinities/ via @wordpressdotcom
Writer Liz Plank Has ‘A New Vision For Mindful Masculinity’ In ‘For The Love Of Men’. 40-minute interview, NPR, December 2019. https://www.npr.org/2019/11/13/778846598/writer-liz-plank-has-a-new-vision-for-mindful-masculinity-in-for-the-love-of-men?utm_campaign=storyshare&utm_source=twitter.com&utm_medium=social
The influence of masculine norms and mental health on health literacy: Study among 16,000 men aged 18-55 in Australia finds that lower levels of health literacy among men are predicted by both conformity to masculine norms and by depression. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1557988319873532[Plus graphic, Milner, The Influence of Masculine Norms and Mental Health on Health Literacy 2019 – Abstract]
What’s A Man? Masculinity in India. A 10-episode podcast series which aims to engage “public and compassionate conversations about what it means to be a man in India today. LINK: https://www.whatsaman.com/
The Mainstream Misogyny of the Nice Jewish Boy. By Joshua Wolfsun, 2017. (On ‘softboys’, nice Jewish men, and the sexism that’s visible in both.) In Lilith (“Independent, Jewish, & Frankly Feminist”). https://www.lilith.org/blog/2017/01/the-mainstream-misogyny-of-the-nice-jewish-boy/
More Than ⅔ of Parents in the United States say Boys Don’t Feel Comfortable Sharing When They Feel Scared or Lonely, Reveals New Research. National survey of parents of boys ages 4-14 in the US. https://www.equimundo.org/resources/fosteringhealthymasculinity/ @equimundo_org
Messaging on masculinity: Message guide for communications and messaging to men, ‘Framing masculinity’. 4 key tips: 1) Don’t pander to the vocal minority. 2) Don’t box men in. 3) Be solutions focused. 4) Use the power of social norming. @VicHealth See www.vichealth.vic.gov.au/breakingstereotypes [Plus graphic, VicHealth, Framing Masculinity Message Guide 2020 – Cover]
For men, 5 key points on gender: 1) Gender shapes everyone’s lives. 2) Australia is gender-unequal. 3) Feminism has made things better. 4) Traditional masculinity feeds into gender inequalities, and limits men’s own lives. 5) Men are part of the solution. https://xyonline.net/content/gender-inequality-men-are-part-problem-and-part-solution
Intimate partner sexual violence: Useful synthesis by ANROWS. IPVS is a high risk indicator of domestic violence. Has serious, lasting effects. Often co-occurs along other tactics of DV. Is poorly understood in communities. Many barriers to reporting. https://d2rn9gno7zhxqg.cloudfront.net/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/30071713/ANROWS-IPSV-Synthesis-Insights-05.2019.pdf [Plus graphic, ANROWS, Intimate Partner Sexual Violence Research Synthesis May 2019 – Cover]
Ten harmful beliefs that perpetuate violence against women and girls. (This violence is rooted in the widely accepted social norms that contribute to gender inequality, including male entitlement, domination, and control over the bodies of women.) https://www.oxfam.org/en/ten-harmful-beliefs-perpetuate-violence-against-women-and-girls @Oxfam
Guns & gun violence: There is a wealth of evidence that more guns means more gun deaths. In areas with higher gun ownership, there are higher levels of gun-related homicide and suicide. This XY collection summarises the evidence, with links to full reports https://xyonline.net/content/guns-violence-and-masculinity-xy-collection
Young Australians’ understandings of violence against women, attitudes towards VAW, and attitudes towards gender have *improved* over 2009-2017. But also troubling levels of ignorance about or tolerance for violence. Excellent @ANROWS report. See here: https://ncas.anrows.org.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/2017NCAS-Youth-SubReport.pdf [Plus graphic, ANROWS, Young Australians’ attitudes to violence against women and gender equality 2019 p. 18]
MRAs (men’s rights activists) be like…
(Image: A man is sitting on a park bench. A woman comes along and says, “I think I deserve to sit on this bench too.” The man throws himself to the ground, crying, “Oh my God I’ve been pushed off! There’s no room for me on *my* bench anymore!”) [Plus graphic, MRAs be like - Park bench]
For accessible critiques of MRAs, see http://xyonline.net/content/mens-rights-collection-accessible-critiques
For academic critiques (in full text), see https://xyonline.net/content/mens-rights-and-mras-mens-rights-activists-academic-critiques
For various other critiques and discussions of MRAs, see https://xyonline.net/category/article-content/mens-fathers-rights
How to make women an economic priority
The Saturday Paper, October 8 2022
https://www.thesaturdaypaper.com.au/opinion/topic/2022/10/08/how-make-w…
The lasting impact of Julia Gillard’s misogyny speech
A new wave of women in parliament is taking up the unfinished fight for equality, channelling the outrage unleashed 10 years ago by Julia Gillard’s famous speech against misogyny.
By Zoe Daniel.
https://www.thesaturdaypaper.com.au/life/2022/10/08/the-lasting-impact-…
Women do an hour more a day of chores and childcare than men, and men on average do an hour more paid work than women.
https://www.smh.com.au/politics/federal/women-do-extra-hour-a-day-of-ch…
Legitimate Sexpectations, by Katrina Marson
A timely start to a fresh debate on sex education (Review)
https://www.canberratimes.com.au/story/7931410/katrina-marson-will-star… @Marson_Katrina
The First 100 Days
It's been roughly 100 days since Roe fell. Here's the devastating tally.
By Jill Filipovic @JillFilipovic
https://jill.substack.com/p/the-first-100-days
The sexual exploitation of Australian children on dating apps and websites: 12.4% of users reported receiving requests to facilitate the sexual exploitation of their own children or children they had access to. Requests for sexual information, videos, etc
https://www.aic.gov.au/publications/tandi/tandi658
Justin Baldoni Releases a Book To Teach Boys About Masculinity, Self-Esteem, and Consent
Baldoni talks about his new kids' book, Boys Will Be Human, therapy, and how playing with his kids has reinvigorated his work life.
https://www.parents.com/parenting/celebrity-parents/justin-baldoni-boys… @parentsmagazine @justinbaldoni
Digital misogyny on the rise
Research shows that misogynist online communities have increased in numbers intensity and become more extreme in the past decade.
https://kjonnsforskning.no/en/2022/09/digital-misogyny-rise
“Men's rights activists don't organize marches; they don’t build shelters or raise funds for abused men; they don't organize prostate cancer awareness events... What they actually do, when they’re not simply carping in comments online, is target and harass women” [Plus graphic, Men's rights activists don't organize marches]
Men taking action to end sexual harassment: there are at least six barriers to men’s action.
Men: 1) Typically have lower levels of understanding and recognition of sexual harassment than women.
2) May feel that sexual harassment is a “women’s issue”.
https://xyonline.net/content/mens-positive-roles-ending-sexual-harassment-overcoming-barriers-and-taking-action 1/4
Men: 3) May respond with defensiveness and hostility to efforts addressing violence and sexual harassment.
4) Often overestimate other men’s comfort with harassment.
5) Fear others’ reactions to intervention.
6) May lack knowledge of or skills in intervention. 2/4
Each of these barriers to action can be overcome. Increase men’s knowledge of sexual harassment and empathy for victims. Show how harassment and violence are a ‘men’s issue’. Use positive, strengths-based messaging. Show that many other men also oppose sexual harassment. 3/4
Men have vital roles to play in preventing and reducing sexual harassment. First, start with ourselves and our own behaviour. Second, speak up and take action. Third, alongside women, help build safe and respectful workplaces and communities.
https://xyonline.net/content/mens-positive-roles-ending-sexual-harassme… 4/4
The world is done with Wife Guys. Thank goodness for that
The story of a philandering star drew attention to an archetype based on our very low standards for straight men
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/oct/01/ned-fulmer-try-gu…
I’m a psychologist – and I believe we’ve been told devastating lies about mental health
Sanah Ahsan
Society’s understanding of mental health issues locates the problem inside the person – and ignores the politics of their distress
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/sep/06/psychologist-deva…
Film classifications should include information about whether sex scenes in films are consensual or coerced.
By Daisy Turnbull. Including on the new initiative by Consent Labs to classify content in film and TV
https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/if-movies-carry…
University colleges have a vital role to play in building cultures of respect and safety on campus.
Talk by Professor Michael Flood
What are the risk factors for sexual violence and harassment in colleges – the factors that make perpetration and victimisation more likely? 1/2
Why are some colleges safer than others? What strategies are effective in preventing and reducing violence and abuse among students? How can we foster positive cultures in colleges, and how do these fit within a whole-of-institution approach to prevention?
https://xyonline.net/content/building-cultures-respect-and-safety-unive…
Blonde review: Dull trauma porn with no idea what it’s trying to say
Andrew Dominik’s biopic is degrading, exploitative and misogynist, yet mercilessly boring
https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/films/news/blonde-revi…
Don’t mess with mums
Family abolition is luxury backlash politics. Victoria Smith criticises Lewis’s book Abolish the Family: A Manifesto for Care and Liberation. @glosswitch
https://thecritic.co.uk/Dont-mess-with-mums/
‘Endangered species’: Do all-boys private schools have a use-by date?
By Wendy Tuohy and Adam Carey
https://www.smh.com.au/national/endangered-species-do-all-boys-private-schools-have-a-use-by-date-20220928-p5blox.html
No men allowed: Women-only spaces increasing in Korea More women are opting for single-sex facilities in Korea, in the context of surging rates of men's voyeurism, stalking, and rape
https://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/nation/2022/09/281_336332.html?utm_source=tw
The #MeToo backlash: how the world went back to tearing women down
By Genevieve Novak, September 29 2022
https://www.theage.com.au/culture/celebrity/the-metoo-backlash-how-the-…
The Incelosphere: Exposing pathways into incel communities and the harms they pose to women and children
The four leading incel forums show extreme hatred of women, racism, glorification of violence, and discussion of pedophilia.
https://counterhate.com/research/incelosphere/
#Aftermetoo – reflective groups for men
This 41-page guide on men’s groups is published by MÄN, a Swedish organisation working to advance gender equality, combat men's violence and redefine masculinity. Among the resources here: https://xyonline.net/content/anti-sexist-mens-groups-xy-collection [Plus graphic, MAN, Aftermetoo – reflective groups for men 2018 – Cover]
Employers will have positive duty to prevent sexual harassment in workplaces, under new legislation.
By Michelle Grattan
https://theconversation.com/employers-will-have-positive-duty-to-preven… via @ConversationEDU
Why some straight men have sex with other men
Sexual encounters with men do not affect how these straight men perceive their identity.
By Tony Silva
https://theconversation.com/why-some-straight-men-have-sex-with-other-men-160140
Why are men having more orgasms than women in heterosexual relationships?
By Nicole Andrejek
https://theconversation.com/why-are-men-having-more-orgasms-than-women-…
Claims and fears that 'men are too feminine and women too masculine' have a long history, dating back at least to the 1800s
https://www.upworthy.com/researcher-shares-men-are-too-feminine-and-wom…
1 in 3 Gay Porn Videos Shows Sexual Aggression or Violence
Some argue that depictions of sexual violence are only an issue in heterosexual porn, but research shows otherwise.
https://fightthenewdrug.org/gay-porn-videos-shows-sexual-aggression-or-… @FightTheNewDrug
Towards a Feminist Agenda on Men and Masculinities.
An inspiring declaration by MenEngage Iberia, Spain, October 2021
https://fundacioniniciativasocial.es/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/AFSHM_D… @MenEngage
More than 1,000 men demonstrate against men's violence in Seville, Spain
(I would love to see far more collective mobilisations by men, in alliance with women, against men's violence against women.)
https://mfj.se/en/articles/2021/11/oever-1-000-maen-i-demonstration-mot-maens-vald-i-sevilla @MenEngage
How does MÄN view the thriving misogyny on certain incel communities?
MÄN, a Swedish organisation working to advance gender equality, combat men's violence and redefine masculinity.
https://mfj.se/en/articles/2021/12/how-does-maen-view-the-thriving-miso…
How Religious Militias and Warrior Mentalities Mix in Rio de Janeiro
Interview with Professor Kristina Hinz @KristinaHinz_
https://insightcrime.org/news/religious-militias-warrior-masculinities-…
Brazil’s policing is a war of men. Civilians are caught in the crossfire
Rio de Janeiro’s security policy, led by a masculine logic of war, subjects people to authoritarian actions with no regard for human rights
By Professor Kristina Hinz @KristinaHinz_
https://www.opendemocracy.net/en/democraciaabierta/brazil-police-a-war-…
How did the patriarchy start – and will social change get rid of it?
Not all human societies have been patriarchal / male-dominated, and patriarchy is not inevitable. Thank goodness.
By Professor Ruth Mace
https://theconversation.com/how-did-the-patriarchy-start-and-will-evolu… via @ConversationUK
Critical race theory and feminism are not taking over our universities
Analysis of 50 introductory syllabi for international relations courses in North America and Europe finds that race and gender studies are silenced or marginalized
https://theconversation.com/critical-race-theory-and-feminism-are-not-t…
‘Toxic masculinity’: what does it mean, where did it come from – and is the term useful or harmful?
New explainer piece by Professor Michael Flood @CrimeJusticeQUT @QUT
https://theconversation.com/toxic-masculinity-what-does-it-mean-where-d…
Spoiler: I avoid the term, as it's so often misheard by men as saying 'men are toxic'. But whatever terms we use, we need ways to name the social norms associated with manhood, critique the harmful attitudes & behaviours some men adopt, and foster healthier lives for men and boys
Worldwide Optimism About Future of Gender Equality, Even as Many See Advantages for Men
https://www.pewresearch.org/global/2020/04/30/worldwide-optimism-about-…
Childcare educators are critical to a child's development, including their longer-term life outcomes. So why do we pay them so little?
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-09-22/childcare-educator-crisis-analys…
What to Teach Young Kids About Gender
Schools should tell children to be themselves. But some districts say too much—and mistake progressive dogma for established fact.
By Conor Friedersdorf
https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2022/09/how-to-teach-gender-i…
Negative feedback is part of academia (and life) – these 6 strategies can help you cope
https://theconversation.com/negative-feedback-is-part-of-academia-and-l… via @ConversationEDU
Watch What Happens When a Woman Tries "Manspreading" on the Subway
By Elizabeth Plank
https://www.mic.com/articles/107614/i-spread-my-legs-on-the-subway-to-prove-an-important-point
1/2
When women take up too much space on the subway, they're often treated with derision — yet when men do it, it's perceived as normal. That's because women are "subconsciously taught that they are meant to take up less space at an early age." 2/2
Protect your daughters? Why not educate your sons?
Dr Jane Meyrick summarises part of her new sexual violence ‘explainer’ book #MeToo for Women and Men
https://xyonline.net/content/protect-your-daughters-why-not-educate-you…
These dads took extended parental leave – and their careers are fine
https://www.afr.com/work-and-careers/workplace/these-dads-took-extended-parental-leave-and-their-careers-are-fine-20220906-p5bfu6
(The piece is behind a paywall, but try pasting the URL into "12-foot ladder", https://12ft.io/)
There are at least two distinct types of violence in intimate relationships: 1) intimate terrrorism (what many would call domestic violence ‘proper’), and situational couple violence (mutually escalating conflicts between partners that lead to violence).
Intimate terrorism (IT) involves a partner seeking to control their partner, often through dominance and possibly violence, while situational couple violence (SCV) does not. In IT, a violent perpetrator uses violence in combination with a variety of other coercive control tactics
A systematic review of 44 studies supports this distinction. And helps us understand differing findings regarding men's and women's use of DV, where some studies find gender symmetry while other studies find that DV is more often by men against women. 3/5
Situational couple violence is perpetrated at comparable rates by men and women. In contrast, IT is most often perpetrated by men against women, is more likely to be frequent and severe, and results in more negative outcomes than SCV. 4/5
Intimate terrorism is rooted in patriarchal norms and control motives. Situational couple violence, instead, is situated in particular conflicts.
See the systematic review here:
https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10896-022-00416-3 5/5
'It's a slippery slope': How young men fall into online radicalization | CBC News https://www.cbc.ca/news/young-men-online-radicalization-1.6585999
How young people understand sexual consent: Research among young people in the UK finds that they were far more focused on the giving of consent than the getting. The getting is barely acknowledged.
Notes from a book chapter by @ProfLizKelly, @VeraGrayF, @AvaKanyeredzi et al
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Their views show “how normative discourses around consent do not connect rape with a failure to *seek* consent.”
Young people saw behaviour through a highly gendered lens: “even where men’s actions were considered rape, young people blamed young women with extraordinary ease."
"The inevitability of ‘boys behaving badly’ meant that young women were held responsible for protecting themselves, and their ‘refusal skills’ become the focus of determining whether or not they consented”. 3/8
Young people also had clear sexual double standards. E.g., about ‘man points’ or male peer status. “the most effective way to accumulate man points was through demonstrating (hetero) sexual prowess: boasting of sexual conquest, collecting ‘sexts’ from young women..." (92). 4/8
Sexual and relationship education “needs to be rooted in discussions of wider social inequalities between women and men, how these play out in expectations of sexual behaviour and how they connect to victim-blaming with respect to sexual violence.” (93) 5/8
Young people reported that in sexuality education there were discussions about coercion, but “the focus here was on young women being able to *resist* pressure, entirely based on the notion that consent is *given* rather than *got*.” (95) 6/8
“SRE that truly aims to prevent sexual violence needs to enable young people to seek and understand consent as an enthusiastic and embodied ‘yes’.” (96) 7/8
Coy, M., Kelly, L., Vera-Gray, F., Garner, M., & Kanyeredzi, A. (2016). From ‘no means no’to ‘an enthusiastic yes’: Changing the discourse on sexual consent through sex and relationships education. In Global perspectives and key debates in sex and relationships education. 8/8
Mobilising men as violence prevention advocates is a key prevention strategy: recruiting, training, and supporting men to make change in their communities. ‘Working Together With Men’ was an innovative Australian project that did this. And now with manual.
https://xyonline.net/content/working-together-men-mobilising-men-violen…
You cannot call for a female rape survivor to be "spat on at every opportunity" and to "fall into a well" *and* make any claim to feminism or social justice. I just stumbled across this deeply disturbing story: https://9breakingnews.com/victorian-womens-trust-board-member-calls-on-… @VicWomensTrust 1/3
*Whatever* your position on whether female rape survivors should be able to access single-sex support spaces, calling for violence against women victims of men's violence is fundamentally at odds with any kind of feminist ethic or principles. I'm deeply troubled to see it. 2/3
The rape survivor explains her position here: https://unherd.com/2022/07/why-im-suing-survivors-network. Note that she supports women’s spaces for both trans women and other women, while calling also for single-sex spaces. Whether you agree or not, to wish violence against survivors is to abandon feminism. 3/3
Do young men in Australia agree with stereotypical constructions of masculinity, and what implications does this have for their lives? What do we know about community attitudes towards men, masculinities, & gender? This seminar reports on two key studies: https://xyonline.net/content/unpacking-and-reconstructing-masculine-nor…
Men: speak up and show your support for safe and legal abortion. Including in the lead-up to International Safe Abortion Day (September 28). Check out the MenEngage campaign, at https://menengage.org/stories/calling-on-men-as-allies-this-internation…. 1/2
Check out resources from @ippf on how to talk about #Abortion as essential healthcare & #HumanRights: https://bit.ly/3DvbllV http://september28.org
#InternationalSafeAbortionDay, #Sept28, #SafeAbortionRegardless #Sept28 2/2
Women who suffer domestic violence fare much worse financially after separating from their partner: new data.
https://theconversation.com/women-who-suffer-domestic-violence-fare-muc… via @ConversationEDU
Evidence review: Mapping the nexus between media reporting of violence against girls
A 68-page review on the media’s normalization of violence and perpetuation of harmful gender norms and stereotypes, by UNICEF and UNWomen.
https://www.unwomen.org/en/digital-library/publications/2022/08/mapping-the-nexus-between-media-reporting-of-violence-against-girls @UNICEF @UN_Women
‘Lack of consent’: push for Australian film classifications to note ‘concerning’ scenes
Campaign for new movie rating launched after affirmative consent laws passed in NSW and Victoria
https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2022/sep/07/lack-of-consent-…
‘Most reprehensible behaviour’ in rugby league? There’s a woman to blame for that. 1/2
https://womensagenda.com.au/latest/most-reprehensible-behaviour-in-rugb… @WomensAgenda @NRL
On the NRL's sexist double standards: Gave a female player (indigenous) very heavy penalties for commenting on the monarchy, and male players relatively light penalties for alleged sexual assault, recreational drug abuse, drug trafficking, violence against women, and manslaughter
Do violence prevention initiatives work? The evidence base is growing, but weak. Few studies measure actual violent behaviour as an outcome, use control or comparison groups, or collect longer-term data. See pp. 50-55 of my book, FREE at https://xyonline.net/content/new-book-engaging-men-and-boys-violence-pr… 1/4
In Australia, very very few programs have had any kind of robust evaluation of impact. Including prominent programs such as MATE Bystander – this has only post-workshop data from participants, and this can’t be used to make robust claims about impact. (Sorry.) @MateBystander 2/4
Minimum standards for evaluation of impact include pre- and post-intervention assessment, measures of impact on violence-related variables, and longer-term follow-up. (For more on 'economy' and 'deluxe' evaluation, see p. 8 and 85-86 of this: https://ro.uow.edu.au/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=2969&context=artspape…). 3/4 [Plus graphic, Flood, LOVEBiTES - An evaluation of the LOVEBiTES and Respectful Relationships programs 2012 - Pre and post
So, are your violence prevention efforts actually making positive change? See here for key manuals on evaluation, including e.g. the excellent “Putting the prevention of violence against women into practice: How to Change The Story” (@OurWatchAus): https://xyonline.net/books/bibliography/27-violence-and-responses-violence/u-violence-prevention/evaluation 4/4 [Plus graphic, Our Watch, Putting the prevention of violence against women into practice 2017 Section 9 Hdg]
White Ribbon Australia’s Digital Barber Shop: A resource hub for men and boys who want to prevent men’s violence against women.
Resources on calling men in, parenting, relationships, sex, violence, etc.
https://www.whiteribbon.org.au/Learn-more/Digital-Barber-Shop @WhiteRibbonAust @WhiteRibbon_UK @WhiteRibbonIRL
Pleasure and intimacy
Katrina Marson brings a dual perspective to her argument in favour of comprehensive sex education.
Review by Alicia Simmonds of Marson’s book, Legitimate Sexpectations
https://insidestory.org.au/pleasure-and-intimacy/
Militarised masculinities: The Women’s International League for Peace and Freedom has released a rich body of research, imagery and film exploring militarised masculinities around the world.
See https://www.wilpf.org/womens-international-league-for-peace-and-freedom-unveils-rich-body-of-research-imagery-and-film-exploring-militarised-masculinities-around-the-world/ @WILPF
Recruiting male allies boosts women at work
When women and men raise their voices together in the workplace, managers are more likely to support gender equity issues, such as equal pay for equal work.
https://phys.org/news/2022-09-male-allies-boosts-women.html via @physorg_com
Silence over football’s links with sexual and domestic violence is deafening | Max Rushden
Sometimes we have to confront things we would rather ignore – only then will football and sport really be for everyone.
https://www.theguardian.com/football/blog/2022/sep/15/silence-football-…
Susan is a professional massage therapist but regularly gets asked for a 'happy ending'
Migrant women in Australia are having to negotiate racialised sexual harassment in their workplaces.
https://www.sbs.com.au/news/article/susan-is-a-professional-massage-the… @CharisChang2 @ANROWS @MSegrave
Why We Should Abolish the Family
The family is a conservative project that limits human flourishing. The family must be abolished.
Lily Sánchez, Current Affairs
https://www.currentaffairs.org/2022/09/why-we-should-abolish-the-family
"I'm so sick of wokeness."
Okay, try it without the wokeness then.
"I'm so sick of not being able to belittle women and minorities."
Feel better now?
[Plus graphic, I'm so sick of wokeness]
Abusers be like: How dare you ruin my reputation by telling people the things I did and said [Plus graphic, Abusers be like]
How to become a feminist dad: four years later
By Sebasto Molano, Defying Gender Roles blog
https://www.defyingenderoles.org/master-in-love/2022/8/5/how-to-become-…
Men needed in care-crisis conversation. (On men's roles in care work, in the USA)
By Gary Barker and Vicki Shabo https://www.nydailynews.com/opinion/ny-oped-missing-from-the-care-crisi…
@equimundo_org
Engaging Men and Boys in the Primary Prevention of Sexual Violence: This new book chapter explores sexual violence prevention work with men and boys. It identifies key principles and explores key debates and tensions. Free in PDF at https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-and-boys-primary-prevention-sexual-violence-book-chapter @the_daily_panda
Sexual violence perpetration among young men is common, with over one-quarter of young men at university having ever perpetrated sexual violence, as this systematic review finds. We must increase investment in understanding and preventing sexual violence perpetration.
[Plus graphics, Anderson, The Frequency of Sexual Perpetration in College Men - A Systematic Review 2021 – Abstract one, Table 6 one]
Is this what a feminist looks like?
An excellent piece by Deborah Cameron on the Queen, and what feminism is and isn't
https://debuk.wordpress.com/2022/09/11/is-this-what-a-feminist-looks-li…
A feminist: someone who believes two things: (1) that women are oppressed as women, and (2) that this can and should be changed through political action.
We should not uncritically equate “being a feminist” with “being a woman who occupies a position of power”
Cameron’s objection to the idea that the Queen was a feminist is about "the extraordinarily patriarchal nature—and I mean “patriarchal” in the strictest and most literal sense—of the institution she was born into and dutifully served throughout her life".
There are significant associations between men, masculinity, and risky driving.
1) Men are more likely than women to show various risky driving behaviours.
2) Men are more likely than women to support and tolerate dangerous or risk-taking driving. https://xyonline.net/content/cars-driving-and-masculinity 1/2
3) Men who agree more with stereotypical norms of masculinity (that men should take risks, be tough, etc) are more likely to be involved in risky driving.
4) Driver-related violence and aggression is most often by young men, against other young men. 2/2
https://xyonline.net/content/cars-driving-and-masculinity.
Reactions to Marin and Albanese show how women's alcohol consumption is treated differently from men's.
https://theconversation.com/reactions-to-marin-and-albanese-show-how-wo… via @ConversationEDU
Understanding, monitoring, and responding to resistance and backlash to gender equality and violence prevention initiatives in organisational and institutional settings
Resources from Our Watch and Respect Victoria, 2022
https://www.respectvictoria.vic.gov.au/understanding-backlash-and-resistance
@Respect__Vic @OurWatchAus
"Efforts to prevent and address #domesticviolence and #sexualviolence must include strategies and initiatives aimed at men and boys." - @MichaelGLFlood @QUT and @AlankaarSharma @ACUmedia for #DisruptiveAsia
Read the piece free here: https://disruptiveasia.asiasociety.org/engaging-men-in-preventing-domes…
Feminism Is Not Just A Women’s Issue
A great piece by @Alaoueslat for NADJA, about masculinity and the role of men in #genderequality and #WomensRights
https://www.nadja.co/2018/02/05/feminism-is-not-just-a-womens-issue/ @NadjaMedia
Asking For It: an eight-part podcast that unpicks rape culture in Australia, released weekly. You can listen to it wherever you get your podcasts, or at https://open.spotify.com/show/57Uo9tj8GrzxUS3eJgMVoW
(I’m on episode 5, on men and sexual consent.)
As another elite boys' school goes co-ed, are single-sex schools becoming an endangered species?
By Professor Amanda Keddie
https://theconversation.com/as-another-elite-boys-school-goes-co-ed-are… via @ConversationEDU
“a whole lot more training and education, if not culture change, is necessary in our police services, and in some of the other services that respond or should respond to victim-survivors and perpetrators.”
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-08-06/family-and-domestic-violence-uni… @CrimeJusticeQUT @QUT
Men accused of abuse rarely suffer the same lifelong consequences as survivors
There is a pattern of “accused abusers avoiding lifelong consequences for serious allegations of sexual violence and emotional torment.”
https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/women/johnny-depp-performance-… 1/3
So many accused abusers are still enjoying a star-studded career
Redemption examples include: Chris Brown, Dustin Hofman, Louis CK, Aziz Ansari, Morgan Freeman, James Franco, and others. 2/3
And, “Let’s not forget that it took 87 actresses to come forward with sexual abuse claims against movie mogul Harvey Weinstein before he was sentenced to 23 years in prison for rape and sexual abuse". 3/3
https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/women/johnny-depp-performance-…
Who's afraid of Amber Heard
https://internetprincess.substack.com/p/whos-afraid-of-amber-heard?utm_… 1/4
On the impossible standards female victims of men’s violence must meet, the cultural fear of angry and aggressive women, and the fact that every woman who alleges abuse, no matter how ‘perfect’ a victim, is vulnerable to the same misogynist attacks and denial directed at Heard
“Johnny Depp is a misogynist, abusive, serially violent wifebeater, and I believe that he owes his cultural victory to a combination of celebrity worship, targeted right-wing propaganda, and vicious, vitriolic misogyny.” 3/4
“Depp’s propaganda machine has effectively obfuscated most of the valid evidence against him, as well as engaged in a large-scale smear campaign designed to paint Heard as a crazy, manipulative abuser determined to take him down at any cost.” 4/4
The Patriarchs' War on Women
“The backlash against feminist progress that’s overtaking the U.S. is part of a global trend. Free and empowered women are a threat to authoritarianism worldwide—and the autocrats know it.”
https://msmagazine.com/2022/04/29/patriarchy-war-on-women-lgbtq-reprodu… 1/5
Around the world, patriarchal authoritarianism is on the rise, and democracy is on the decline.
There are strong links between authoritarianism and patriarchy.
2/5
Patriarchal authoritarians "promote increased state control over women’s bodies; the subordination of women in public office and the workforce; permissiveness toward sexual assault, harassment or abuse; hypermasculine ideals; the criminalization of LGBTQ+ people; tolerance of.."
“Four key domains are under sustained legal and political attack by legislators seeking to set back gender equality: access to reproductive healthcare; workplace equality and economic inclusion; protection from sexual and gender-based violence; and LGBTQ+ rights.” 4/5
“Feminist candidates, women elected officials and feminist policies are fundamental to the health and well-being of democracy.” 5/5
https://msmagazine.com/2022/04/29/patriarchy-war-on-women-lgbtq-reprodu…
Experts question the phrase 'mutual abuse' after testimony in Depp-Heard trial
The phrases "mutual abuse" and "reactive abuse" fail to account for the power dynamic in abusive relationships, some experts say.
https://www.nbcnews.com/pop-culture/celebrity/experts-question-phrase-m…
Stop Protecting “Good Guys”
Men’s sexist behaviour to women too often is excused or condoned because they are “good guys”.
https://hbr.org/2022/08/stop-protecting-good-guys 1/5
The “good guy” defence: minimizing, excusing, or deflecting the sexist or harassing behavior of a man by appealing to his status as a “good guy”. It appeals to his alleged innocence. It invalidates the woman’s experience of his behaviour and prevents his accountability. 2/5
Research finds “networks of complicity” in some organisations, in which perpetrators surround themselves with networks of colleagues who minimise and excuse their behaviour: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/337963973_Networks_of_complici… 3/5
5 ways to be a *genuine* good guy
1) Improve your situational awareness.
2) Check your own impulse to gaslight. Validate and gather more information about the woman’s experience.
3) Hold other men accountable.
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4) Use positive reinforcement.
5) Integrate these conversations into your organisation’s culture.
https://hbr.org/2022/08/stop-protecting-good-guys 5/5
One-in-eight women working in emergency services experienced sexual harassment, Victorian report says
https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2022/sep/05/one-in-eight-wom…
Most boys who commit sexual assaults have been exposed to violence at home, Queensland study shows
https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2022/sep/06/most-boys-who-co…
Refugee and migrant women are often excluded from mainstream domestic violence services and policy https://theconversation.com/refugee-and-migrant-women-are-often-exclude… via @ConversationEDU
The Truth About Single Mothers And Domestic Violence: How we’re punishing women for leaving violent relationships
By Jess Hill
https://primer.com.au/single-mothers-violence/ @jessradio
How the jobs summit shifted gender equality from the sidelines to the mainstream
By Dr Leonora Risse
https://theconversation.com/how-the-jobs-summit-shifted-gender-equality… via @ConversationEDU
Research shows it's harmful to smack your child, so what should parents do instead?
By Professors Daryl Higgins and Sophie Havighurst @HigginsDaryl
https://theconversation.com/research-shows-its-harmful-to-smack-your-ch… via @ConversationEDU
Gendered views on drinking: A tale of two prime ministers
Gendered expectations around alcohol are far from equal, including perceptions of the acceptability of drinking in women compared to men.
https://phys.org/news/2022-09-gendered-views-tale-prime-ministers.html via @physorg_com
Andrew Tate's views are reaching teens, but they probably don't like his ideas, psychologist says
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-09-02/how-to-talk-to-kids-about-andrew…
Teachers Warn That Misogynist Andrew Tate Has 'Radicalized' School-Age Boys
As kids head back to classrooms, educators are horrified to find that Tate is their male students’ biggest idol.
https://jezebel.com/andrew-tate-influence-boys-teachers-1849447030
It Took Going To Prison To Recognize My Toxic Masculinity. Here's How I Finally Changed.
"While trying to live up to this flawed version of masculinity, I caused serious harm to others, my community and myself."
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/toxic-masculinity-prison-emotional-healt…
Coercive control: How proposed new laws will work
How might recognising coercive control as a form of violence save lives? Dr Kate Gleeson explains the proposed amendments to the NSW Crimes Act and the NSW Domestic Violence Act.
https://lighthouse.mq.edu.au/article/august-2022/coercive-control-how-p…
What women coppers conceal
Britain's police forces still drip with misogyny
By Julie Bindel
https://unherd.com/2022/08/male-coppers-are-rotters/ @bindelj
Wolves: The “alpha wolf” does not exist, at least not in the wild. In the wild, wolf packs simply consist of two parents and their offspring, in lifelong monogamy.
Older, misleading research had been only on wolves in captivity, in zoos. https://gizmodo.com/why-everything-you-know-about-wolf-packs-is-wrong-5…
Not All Men: A Brief History of Every Dude's Favorite Argument
By Jess Zimmerman @j_zimms
https://time.com/79357/not-all-men-a-brief-history-of-every-dudes-favor…
(Also see this XY collection of critiques of #NotAllMen: https://xyonline.net/content/engaging-men-violence-prevention-key-resou…)
Masculinity and Violent Extremism: I'm delighted to announce publication of this new book, with co-authors @DrJoshuaRoose, Alan Greig, Mark Alfano @moral_psych, and @SimonCopland
https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-3-031-10497-8 1/2
The book "gives a persuasive account of the role of masculinity in far right, jihadism and anti-women movements".
It is "a must read for anyone wanting to understand the role masculinities play in violent extremist groups of diverse ideologies—far right, Islamist and far left". 2/2
Women are credited less in science than men
The gap in the number of publications produced by women and men in science is in part the result of unacknowledged contributions: women in research teams are less likely than men to be credited with authorship.
https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-022-04966-w?fbclid=IwAR19B5sX7UiPOZeUhVmQeg9JXpOCb3VCn3JH6zGuCcB8CBkKLrI1ywbPfDk [Plus graphic, Ross, Women are credited less in science than men 2022 – Abstract]
Also see the piece, Sexism in the Academy: An excellent, detailed account of how male dominance in the academy and scholarship is sustained (2019). https://nplusonemag.com/issue-34/essays/sexism-in-the-academy/ via @nplusonemag.
I summarised it here: https://twitter.com/MichaelGLFlood/status/1359271844671459328
Understanding abuse: The Ryan Giggs trial in the UK shows we still need to educate juries about coercive control.
By Jean Hatchet @JeanHatchet
https://thecritic.co.uk/understanding-abuse/
Festivals must do more to address sexual violence.
34% of female respondents and 6% of male respondents had been sexually harassed or assaulted at a festival in the previous few years. 9% of women and 1% of men had been sexually assaulted. https://theconversation.com/festivals-must-do-more-to-address-sexual-vi… @ConversationUK
Preventing sexual violence: Best practice in prevention requires comprehensive and coordinated implementation that addresses the societal drivers of sexual violence. Must be based on evidence. Must use a spectrum of strategies. See this detailed review: https://xyonline.net/content/best-practice-prevention-sexual-violence-a…
The gender pay gap: what it is, what drives it, and what to do about it.
Here is a handy explainer from WGEA, including addressing some common myths and misconceptions...
https://www.wgea.gov.au/the-gender-pay-gap @WGEAgency
New guide to help engage men and boys to be part of the solution in ending violence against women, by @OurWatchAus. #MenInFocus offers practical and evidence-based strategies including how to foster self-awareness, build empathy and motivation
https://www.ourwatch.org.au/resource/men-in-focus-practice-guide-addres…
Lessons Learned in Gender Transformative Health Programming: A Rapid Literature Review
This research brief reviews evaluated evidence on how best to achieve gender equality and health outcomes through gender transformative programming.
https://www.igwg.org/2022/08/lessons-learned-in-gender-transformative-h…
How young Australians conceptualise domestic violence and abuse
This research report explores how young people define and make sense of domestic violence, including how they distinguish DV from other unhealthy relationship behaviours.
https://20ian81kynqg38bl3l3eh8bf-wpengine.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/upl… @ANROWS
The Problem With Men Who Date Much Younger Women
Leonardo DiCaprio gets older. His girlfriends are forever 21.
By Jill Filipovic @JillFilipovic
https://jill.substack.com/p/the-problem-with-men-who-date-much
High proportions of Australian woman have experienced sexual violence, including 51% of women aged 24-30, as new data from the Australian Longitudinal Study on Women’s Health (ALSWH) documents. See the full report and infographics here: https://www.anrows.org.au/publication/a-life-course-approach-to-determining-the-prevalence-and-impact-of-sexual-violence-in-australia-findings-from-the-australian-longitudinal-study-on-womens-health/ @ANROWS
Women experience sexual violence at greater rates than previously thought, new Australian report finds
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-08-31/women-experiencing-higher-rates-… @ANROWS
Have you ever felt afraid or unsafe during sex with a partner?
This website is for women who are worried about sex and consent in their relationships. It is a space to find information and connect with support services. Anonymous, inclusive and safe.
https://www.beyondsilence.org.au/
Respectful Relationships: A Resource Kit for Victorian Schools
A toolkit by the Victorian Department of Education and Training, Victorian State Government (2020)
http://fuse.education.vic.gov.au/ResourcePackage/ByPin?pin=2JZX4R
Expect Respect Education Toolkit
An online toolkit containing a series of lesson plans for primary and secondary students aged 4-18, plus supporting resources, produced by Women’s Aid UK
https://www.womensaid.org.uk/what-we-do/safer-futures/expect-respect-ed…
@womensaid
Sexual assaults are at an all-time high. Why talking to your child about abuse is so important
ABC News, August 19 2022
https://amp.abc.net.au/article/101337538
Andrew Tate radicalised young men like me - and he won't be the last…
https://www.thecourier.co.uk/fp/opinion/3629545/andrew-tate-young-men-a… via @thecourieruk
[It's behind a paywall, but go to https://12ft.io/ to get behind the paywall.]
Public policy engagement guide: a toolbox for researchers
A 24-pp guide from the Public Policy Institute, University of Western Australia.
https://apo.org.au/node/319153
A dancing female prime minister is pilloried for partying. Meanwhile, in Australia …
That leaked videos of the Finnish Prime Minister partying have become a global talking point says more about us than it does about the young female leader.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-08-28/sanna-marin-finnish-pm-partying-…
Sexual violence in South Africa: where are the male victims?
Professor Louise du Toit argues that there is a feminist case for addressing male victims of sexual violence.
https://theconversation.com/sexual-violence-in-south-africa-where-are-the-male-victims-186161 @TC_Africa
The Manual for Facilitators of Male Advocate Clubs to Prevent Violence against Women and Girls (in English and Vietnamese). A primary prevention program that empowers men to adopt non-violent masculinities and gender equitable attitudes. @UN_Women
https://asiapacific.unwomen.org/en/digital-library/publications/2017/04…
To Accelerate Social Change, Approach Philanthropy With a Feminist Lens
By Angelika Arutyunova and Leila Hessini https://www.ipsnews.net/2022/08/accelerate-social-change-approach-phila…
Andrew Tate isn’t just another misogynist with an online following. Here’s why you need to pay attention.
Grid takes a look at why Tate’s influence in the manosphere and particular brand of hate is dangerous.
https://www.grid.news/story/technology/2022/08/23/andrew-tate-isnt-just… @DrJoshuaRoose
Gender inequalities: Men are part of the problem and part of the solution
Gender inequalities are sustained in part by men – by how many men think, by how many men behave, by how men relate to women and how they relate to other men.
https://xyonline.net/content/gender-inequality-men-are-part-problem-and… (Speech)
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Male privilege is personal: most men have acted in sexist ways
I’m a nice guy, right? But in countless ways, like most men, I’ve perpetuated sexism and maintained gender inequalities. Looking back over my life, I can see times when…
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Men benefit from male privilege, whether we want to or not. When I send in my CV with a male name. When I open my mouth in a meeting. When I read the news. Etc. But, this privilege is naturalised and normalised. It’s invisible.
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Men are part of the *solution*. Men have a vital role in building gender equality.
Many men already live in gender-just ways: they respect and care for the women and girls in their lives, and they reject sexist norms of manhood.
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Some men already play a role in fostering gender equality, as public advocates.
Men will benefit from progress towards gender equality. In our health, our relationships and friendships, our workplaces, and our communities.
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There is plenty of work to do to build a more gender-equal culture. And men – men who care for women, men who care for justice and equality, and men who care for the wellbeing of our communities and society – have a vital role to play.
https://xyonline.net/content/gender-inequality-men-are-part-problem-and…
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Creating Compassionate Communities: Check out this one-day event coming up on October 12. Lots of fascinating discussion of issues of trauma and violence and of how to foster respect, equity, and compassionate communities. Join by livestream or in person. https://events.humanitix.com/creating-compassionate-communities-0ctbgfx7
Respectful Relationships Education - A suite of resources for a whole school community approach produced by @OurWatchAus, supporting organisations in the prevention of violence against women.
https://www.ourwatch.org.au/What-We-Do/Respectful-relationships-educati…
Intersectionality and social justice in programs for boys and men. A free eprint of this new journal article is available here: https://www.tandfonline.com/eprint/QXWIRWSFJEFDZEKHBP3R/full?target=10…
Don't blame women for low libido. Sexual sparks fly when partners do their share of chores – including calling the plumber. 1/2
https://theconversation.com/dont-blame-women-for-low-libido-sexual-spar… via @ConversationEDU
Women in equal relationships (in terms of housework and the mental load) are more satisfied with their relationships and, in turn, feel more sexual desire than those in unequal relationships. 2/2
How NOT to end up a 'lonely, single man': Tracey Cox shares brutally honest advice, from getting real about your pulling power to avoiding 'grey area' cheating - and focusing on your partner's orgasm first
https://mol.im/a/11135061 via @Femail
Take Action For Gender Equality and Respect
A guide to support secondary school aged students to reflect on what gender equality and respect means to them, engage with their peers on gender issues, and take action to create change in their community https://www.inspiro.org.au/blog/take-action-for-gender-equality-respect…
Religious leaders can motivate men to cede power and reduce partner violence
When faith leaders in premarital counseling emphasised the need for balanced power and decision-making, there was a decrease in DV and an improvement in relationships for both. https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.2200262119
Louise Perry’s book, “The Case Against the Sexual Revolution”: Julie Bindel says there is much to recommend it, but she also has some serious criticisms. https://unherd.com/2022/06/in-defence-of-loveless-sex/ 1/5
The book neglects and seems ignorant of feminism’s long history of critiques of patriarchal heterosexuality and feminism’s emphases on female sexual pleasure. 2/5
(A key account of feminism’s emphases on both pleasure and danger is given by Carole Vance in her influential essay, free in PDF here: https://xyonline.net/books/bibliography/25-sexuality/g-women-and-sexual….) 3/5
Bindel rejects Perry’s solutions, a return to traditional monogamous marriage. She criticises Perry’s pessimistic views of men, and that we can only contain men’s violent behaviour through marriage. 4/5
Bindel criticises as naïve Perry’s strategies for how women can avoid sexual violence, given the common dynamics of men’s rape and abuse of women in relationships.
Instead, Bindel reasserts a radical feminist vision of a world free of sexual violence.
https://unherd.com/2022/06/in-defence-of-loveless-sex/ 5/5
The Tricky (And Necessary) Business Of Being A Male Advocate For Gender Equality
By Catherine Ashcraft and Wendy DuBow
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https://www.fastcompany.com/3046555/the-tricky-and-necessary-business-o…
Why Male Advocates? For at least two reasons.
1) Increasing diverse participation is not a women’s issue, but a business issue and a human issue. Also, men themselves benefit from increased diversity.
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Why Male Advocates? 2) Men in workplaces often hold a majority of formal and informal positions of power, so they are able to have a great deal of influence on the current climate.
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What should men be advocating for?
1. Advocate for changing the environment. In general, male advocacy is not about men advocating for or helping specific women.
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2. Advocate for individual and systemic change. First, there are lots of fairly simple or straightforward ways individual men can interrupt biases they see happening in the moment.
But this is not enough. Also advocate for altering systems.
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Other Things To Consider
1) Listen. Listen to the experiences of their female colleagues
2) Don’t assume all women want to participate in diversity efforts. (There are understandable reasons why women may distance themselves from diversity efforts.)
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3) Reframe negative reactions as valuable opportunities for developing empathy.
4) Realize that stereotype threat (fear of confirming a negative stereotype) can apply to male advocacy.
5) Approach advocacy with a “growth mind-set”.
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6) Be aware of the limitations of the male-female framing of this conversation. E.g., men and women share similarities, and the differences among men and among women often are bigger than the differences between them.
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https://www.fastcompany.com/3046555/the-tricky-and-necessary-business-o…
The real reason why there are so few tradeswomen
The construction, building and maintenance sectors remain resolutely male dominated, which is unsurprising, given sexism is rife in vocational education and training classrooms.
https://www.afr.com/work-and-careers/education/the-real-reason-why-ther…
Everyone has a role to play in preventing men’s violence against women, including men and boys. @OurWatchAu have released a new guide with practical strategies on engaging men and boys to help stop violence before it starts #MenInFocus https://www.ourwatch.org.au/resource/men-in-focus-practice-guide-addressing-masculinities-and-working-with-men-in-the-prevention-of-mens-violence-against-women/
Understanding backlash and resistance
Understanding, monitoring, and responding to resistance and backlash in organisational and institutional settings.
Our Watch report for Respect Victoria
https://www.respectvictoria.vic.gov.au/understanding-backlash-and-resis… @OurWatchAus @Respect__Vic