There are great resources for encouraging norms of sexual consent and respect among men, building skills in negotiating consent, and so on. Here, we have collected some useful, accessible pieces, immediately below. Further suggestions are most welcome.
- Berkowitz, Alan. Guidelines for consent in intimate relationships. Campus Safety & Student Development, 3(4), pp. 49-64;
- Bussel, Rachel Kramer. (2008). Beyond Yes or No: Consent as Sexual Process. In Yes Means Yes! Visions of Female Sexual Power & A World Without Rape, Eds Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica Valenti. New York: Seal Press;
- Consent+Toolkit;
- Dr NerdLove, Getting A Yes - The Standard of Enthusiastic Consent (2013);
- Dormitz, Mike - Consent and Dating;
- Dormitz, Mike - Consent and Marriage;
- Dormitz, Mike - Consent and Parenting;
- Dormitz, Mike - Consent and Teens;
- Flood, Michael. Hot and Healthy Sex. In Boys’ Stuff: Boys talking about what matters. Eds W. Martino and M. Pallotta-Chiarolli. Allen & Unwin (2001);
- Men Teach Your Friends - Sexual consent. Handout, Kansas State University Women’s Center (n.d.);
- PISC: Partners in Social Change, Summer 2013: Consent;
- Weinberg, Joseph, and Michael Biernbaum. (1993). Conversations of consent: Sexual intimacy without sexual assault. In Transforming a Rape Culture, Eds Emilie Buchwald, Pamela Fletcher, and Martha Roth. Minneapolis: Milkweed Editions;
- Wong, David. 7 Reasons So Many Guys Don't Understand Sexual Consent. Cracked.com, November 2016.
Further pieces on XY that focus on consent include the following:
- White Ribbon NZ's new toolbox for fathers, to support them developing their son’s respectful sexual behaviour: http://www.xyonline.net/content/white-ribbon-nzs-new-toolbox-fathers-support-them-developing-their-son%E2%80%99s-respectful-sexual-b
- Redefining consent (Speech by Stephen Montagna, 2003): http://www.xyonline.net/content/redefining-consent
- What does Consent Mean in a Society that Manufactures Contempt for Women? (Julian Real, 2009): http://www.xyonline.net/content/what-does-consent-mean-society-manufactures-contempt-women-0
- Manufacturing Consent - Is it rape? (Ben Atherton-Zeman, 2009): http://www.xyonline.net/content/manufacturing-consent-it-rape
- Sexual ethics, consent, and violence prevention (Michael Flood): https://xyonline.net/content/sexual-ethics-consent-and-violence-prevention
Videos on consent:
- Consent and tea: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8
- Consent and tea: original version by Thames Police, in an English rather than American accent: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZwvrxVavnQ
- PPFA videos <http://bit.ly/consent101> that explain and model consent. As well as a lesson plan on consent <https://www.plannedparenthood.org/files/2414/4622/8692/Consent_Videos.Consent_Lesson_Plan.pdf>
- Campus Clarity: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=laMtr-rUEmY
- Cycling Through Consent, Wester University, Canada: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-JwlKjRaUaw
Other websites and resources:
- Resources on consent (compiled by The Consent Academy)