Miscellaneous

Many years ago a troubling thought began rattling around in my head. What happens when an outdated patriarchal mindset meets nuclear weapons?

That question would not leave me alone. So in 2007 I wrote a small booklet called Sustainable Masculinity. It was nothing grand, just a thin 30-page booklet exploring a simple but uncomfortable idea.

I’d realised that the old patriarchal rule book that has guided male behaviour for centuries was written long before humanity invented weapons capable of wiping out civilisation. And the two may not coexist for very long.

Over years of guiding white-water rafting trips through the wild mountain rivers of southern Oregon, I have witnessed moments that still surge through my memory like the currents themselves. Recollections of black bears, curious otters, and mountain lions mingle with the thunder of helicopters scooping water from the river to battle nearby bushfires.

There is consistent evidence that stereotypical masculine attitudes and norms shape men’s and boys’ behaviour in harmful ways. 

• Men who endorse traditional definitions of manhood are more likely to suffer harm to themselves.
• Men who endorse traditional definitions of manhood are more likely to do harm to others.

The following notes summarise the evidence of associations between men’s conformity to stereotypical masculine norms and a range of outcomes, including:

Long before Covid-19 forced an artificial isolation on me, loneliness has been my companion.  I became aware of this loneliness when surrounded by the men I had spent time with during the last thirty years.  The irony of this did not go unnoticed – being lonely in a crowd is part self-choice, part self-defence.  I kept telling myself that I chose this path of solitude but if truth be told, it chose me.  And until I surrendered to it, the fear of being isolated was worse than the actual reality.

What are the links between guns, violence, and masculinity? This XY collection brings together items highlighting how gun violence is structured in powerful ways by traditional, patriarchal masculinities. Also see XY's complementary collections on "Guns and violence" and on "Mass shootings and masculinity".

(a) Shorter pieces on guns, men, and masculinities

I was asked, as a man, to explain “mansplaining”. That is an assignment fraught with pitfalls.

Cette collection de XY propose des articles qui se concentrent sur les thèmes d’antisexisme et de proféminisme, en français. Vous y retrouverez également un répertoire de groupes et organisations francophones qui ont ces sujets au cœur de leur mandat.

Merci à Caroline Lemay pour la traduction des articles de cette page.

Articles

It goes without saying that we are in a pickle – both socially and environmentally. Global systems that support life are under threat from multiple angles. The ways that we relate to each other are polarising. COVID has changed life as we knew it. In fact, it’s reasonable to think that things are falling apart. For more than two decades, I have been wondering about what is at the root of our troubles. I’ve come to see that beneath the selfishness of global economic systems, lays a deeper problem.

Many aspects of our society have been rightfully scrutinised and criticised for propagating sexist and misogynist attitudes and opinions. Amongst these are the fashion industry, printed media, advertising and certain genres of music.

In 2020 the German Ministry of Families, Senior Citizens, Women and Youth adopted a strategy for  involving boys, men and fathers in gender equality politics. The dossier "Gender equality policy for boys and men in Germany – Implementing an equitable approach to gender equality policy" describes how these policies already address and mobilize boys and men as active subjects as well as beneficiaries. In addition, there is an overview of the current state of research and developments in the field.