a) General references

Note: Also see the section on men’s sexuality, as this includes many references on men’s sexual and intimate relationships.

 

Abbott, Franklin. (ed.). (1990). Men and Intimacy: Personal Accounts Exploring the Dilemmas of Modern Male Sexuality. California: Crossing Press.

Ahmed, Sara. (2004). The Cultural Politics of Emotion. Edinburgh: Edinburgh University Press.

Aldridge, M. E. (2001). Confessional culture, masculinity and emotional work. Journalism, 2(1): 91-108.

Allen, Marvin, and Jo Robinson. (1993). In the Company of Men: Freeing the Masculine Heart. Random House.

Allen, Marvin, with Jo Robinson. (1994). Angry Men, Passive Men: Understanding the Roots of Men’s Anger and How to Move Beyond It. New York: Fawcett Columbine.

Ansley, Chris. (2004). ‘She feels I hold too much in’: Exploring romantic intimacy, mental illness and masculinity. NZMSJ, 1, March.

Balswick, Jack. (1982). Male Inexpressiveness: Psychological and Emotional Aspects. In Kenneth Solomon and Norman Levy, (eds). Men in Transition: Theory and Therapy. New York: Plenum

Balswick, Jack. (1988). The Inexpressive Male. Lexington, Massachussetts: Lexington Books.

Baraff, Alvin. (1992). Men Talk: How Men Really Feel About Women, Sex, Relationships and Themselves. NAL/Dutton.

Becker, Verne. (1992). The Real Man Inside: How Men Can Recover Their Identity and Why Women Can’t Help, Zondervan.

Bendelow, Gillian, and Simon J. Williams. (eds). (1998). Emotions in Social Life: Critical Themes and Contemporary Issues. Routledge. Includes;.
Duncombe, Jean and Marsden, Dennis. ‘Stepford Wives’ and ‘Hollow Men’: Doing Emotion Work, Doing Gender and ‘Authenticity’ in Intimate Heterosexual Relationships.
Prendergast, Shirley and Forrest, Simon. ‘Shorties, Low-Lifers, Hardnuts and Kings’: Boys, Emotions and Embodiment in School.
Seidler Victor J. Masculinity, Violence and Emotional Life.
Seidler Victor J. Masculinity and Emotional Life: Rejection, Fear and Intimacy.

Benenson, J. F., H. Markovits, et al. (2009). Males’ Greater Tolerance of Same-Sex Peers. Psychological Science 20(2): 184-190.

Berlant, Lauren. (1997). The Queen of America Goes To Washington City: Essays on Sex and Citizenship. Durham, NC: Duke University Press.

Berlant, Lauren. (ed.). (2000). Intimacy. University of Chicago Press.

Bianchi, Eugene, and Rosemary Reuther. (1976). From Machismo to Mutuality. New York: Paulist Press.

Bilodeau, Louraine. (1992). The Anger Workbook. Minnesota: Hazelden.

Blazina, C., A. G. Settle and R. Eddins (2008). Gender role conflict and separation-individuation difficulties: their impact on college men’s loneliness. The Journal of Men’s Studies, 16(1): 69(13).

Blazina, Christopher. (2001). Gender Role Conflicted Men’s Poor Parental Attachment and Separation/Individuation Difficulties: Knights Without Armor in a Savage Land. Journal of Men’s Studies, Volume 9 Number 2, Winter

Boscagli, Maurizia. (1992-93) ‘A Moving Story’: Masculine Tears and the Humanity of Televised Emotions. Discourse, 15(2), Winter, pp. 64-79.

Bowman, J. M. (2008). Gender role orientation and relational closeness: self-disclosive behavior in same-sex male friendships. The Journal of Men’s Studies, 16(3): 316(15).

Brennan, Teresa. (2004). The Transmission of Affect. Ithaca, NY: University of Cornell Press.

Cardelle, Frank. (1990). Journey to Brotherhood: Awakening, Healing and Connecting Men’s Hearts. New York/Sydney/London: Gardner Press.

Carrier, Joseph. (1995). De los otros: Intimacy and Homosexuality Among Mexican Men. Columbia University Press.

Carter, Steven. (year?). Men Who Can’t Love.

Castleman, Michael. (1988). Making Love: A Guide to Sexual Fulfilment For Men - and Women, (Revised edition) London: Penguin

Cate, Rodrey M., and Sally A. Lloyd. (year?). Courtship. Sage.

Chambers, Deborah. (2006). New Social Ties: Contemporary Connections in a Fragmented Society.
Introduction.
Changing Ideas about Social Ties.
Freedom and Choice in Personal Relationships.
Hegemonic Masculine Identities and Male Bonds.
Feminine Identities and Female Bonds.
The Decline and Rise of ‘Community’.
Network Society.
Virtual Intimacy and Online Sociality.
The Politics of Social and Personal Relationships.

Clark, Margaret S. (ed.). (1992). Emotions and Social Behaviour. Sage.

Clothier, Peter. (1997). While I Am Not Afraid: Secrets of a Man’s Heart.

Cohn, A. M., M. Jakupcak, et al. (2010). The role of emotion dysregulation in the association between men’s restrictive emotionality and use of physical aggression. Psychology of Men & Masculinity 11(1): 53-64.

Cole, Edwin Louis. (year?). On Becoming a Real Man. Thomas Nelson.

Conway, Michael. (2000). On sex roles and representations of emotional experience: Masculinity, femininity, and emotional awareness. Sex Roles, Nov., Vol. 43, Iss. 9/10.

Conway, Robert. (1983). Being Male: A Guide for Masculinity in a Time of Change. Sth Melbourne: Macmillan.

Cooper, Mick, and Peter Baker. (1996). Emotions: The Feeling Man. Chapter 2 in The MANual: The Complete Man’s Guide to Life. London: Thorsons.

Cowlishaw, Bridget Roussell. (2002). Subjects Are from Mars, Objects Are from Venus: Construction of the Self in Self-help. Journal of Popular Culture, Volume 35 Issue 1, Summer.

Crawford, June, Susan Kippax, et. al. (1992). Emotion and Gender: Constructing Meaning From Memory. London: Sage .

Cvetkovich, Ann. (2003). An Archive of Feelings: Trauma, Sexuality and Lesbian Public Cultures. Durham, NC: Duke University Press.

Dalbey, Gorden. (1989). Healing the Masculine soul. Melbourne: Word.

De Foore, Bill. (1991). Anger: Deal With It, Heal With It, Stop It From Killing You. Deerfield Beach, Florida: Health Communications.

Dowrick, Stephanie. (1998). Forgiveness and Other Acts of Love.

Doyle, D. D. (2004). Rethinking manhood and intimacy. Reviews in American History, 32(4): 526.

Duncombe, Jean, and Dennis Marsden. (1995). Can men love? – ‘Reading’, ‘staging’ and ‘resisting’ the romance. In Lynne Pearce and Jackie Stacey. (eds) Romance Revisited. London: Lawrence & Wishart, pp. 238-250.

Edgar, Don. (1997). Men, Mateship, Marriage: The Myth of the Male in Love, Sex and Friendship. HarperCollins.

Edwards, Susan. (1995). When Men Believe in Love. Shaftesbury, Dorset: Element.

Ehrenreich, Barbara. (1983). The Hearts of Men: American Dreams and the Flight From Commitment. New York: Anchor Press/Doubleday

Erwin, Phil. (1998). Friendship in Childhood and Adolescence. London & New York: Routledge.

Evans, Mary, and Valerie Hey. (2010). Recovering from Romance: Resocializing Love and Intimacy. European Journal of Women’s Studies, February, 17: 69-73.

Evans, Mary. (2004). Gender and Social Theory. McGraw Hill.
Includes;
The world of intimacy.

Falling Buzzard, Karen S. (2002). The Coca Cola of Self Help: The Branding of John Gray’s Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Journal of Popular Culture, Volume 35 Issue 4, Spring.

Fanning, Patrick, and Matthew McKay. (1993). Being a Man: A Guide to the New Masculinity. Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications

Fischer, Agneta H. (1993). Sex Differences in Emotionality: Fact or Stereotype?. Feminism & Psychology, 3(3).

Floyd, K. (2006). Communicating affection: Interpersonal behavior and social context. Cambridge, England: Cambridge University Press.

Galasinski, Dariusz. (2004). Men and the Language of Emotions.
Men and their Emotions.
Stories of Emotional Masculinity.
‘There is a Concern’ - Strategies of Emotion Talk.
‘No worries’, or the Emotional View of Reality.
Emotions of Fatherhood.
Speaking Helplessly: The Emotions of Unemployment.
Masculinity? What Masculinity?

Giardini, Federica. (2010). What’s Love Got to Do With It? European Journal of Women’s Studies, 17: 73-77.

Giddens, Anthony. (1992). The Transformation of Intimacy: Love, Sexuality and Emotion in Modern Societies. Polity Press

Gorski, Terence T. (1993). Getting Love Right: Learning the Choices of Healthy Intimacy. New York: Simon & Schuster.

Gorton, K. (2007). Theorizing emotion and affect: Feminist engagements. Feminist Theory, 8(3): 333-348.

Hicks, Robert. (1991). Uneasy Manhood: The Quest for Self-Understanding. Thomas Nelson.

Hopcke, Robert H. (1990). Men’s Dreams, Men’s Healing: A Psychotherapist Explores a New View of Masculinity Through Jungian Dreamwork. Boston & London: Shambhala.

Horn, A. v., L. Backman, et al. (2010). Empathizing, systemizing and finger length ratio in a Swedish sample. Scandinavian Journal of Psychology 51(1): 31-37.

Hornstein, H. (year?). A Knight in Shining Armour: Understanding Men’s Romantic Illusions.

Jackson, Graham. (1991). The Secret Lore of Gardening: Patterns of Male Intimacy. Toronto, ON: Inner City Press.

Jakupcak, M., K. Salters, K.L. Gratz, and L. Roemer. (2003). Masculinity and Emotionality: An Investigation of Men’s Primary and Secondary Emotional Responding. Sex Roles, August, vol. 49, no. 3-4, pp. 111-120.

Jakupcak, Matthew, Matthew T. Tull, and Lizabeth Roemer. (2005). Masculinity, Shame, and Fear of Emotions as Predictors of Men’s Expressions of Anger and Hostility. Psychology of Men & Masculinity, 6(4), October.

Jamieson, Lynn. (1998). Intimacy: Personal Relationships in Modern Society. Cambridge: Polity Press.

July, William II. (2001). Understanding the Tin Man: Why So Many Men Avoid Intimacy. New York: Broadway Books.

Kelly, Janice R., and Sarah L. Hutson-Comeaux. (1999). Gender-emotion stereotypes are context specific. Sex Roles, Jan., Vol. 40, Iss. 1/2.

Kimmel, Michael S. (2000). Gendered Intimacies: Friendship and Love. Chapter 9 in The Gendered Society. New York & Oxford: Oxford University PressKnights, D. and E. Surman. (2008). Editorial: Addressing the Gender Gap in Studies of Emotion. Gender, Work & Organization 15(1): 1-8.

Kimmel, Michael S. (2000). The Gendered Society. New York & Oxford: Oxford University Press
Includes;
9. Gendered Intimacies: Friendship and Love.

Kritsberg, Wayne, John Lee, and Sheperd Bliss. (1994). A Quiet Strength: Meditations on the Masculine Soul. New York: Bantam.

Kundtz, David. (2004). Nothing’s Wrong: A Man’s Guide to Managing His Feelings. Boston: Conari Press.

Kundtz, David. (year?). Men and Feelings: Understanding the Male Experience.

Kupers, Terry A. (1993). Revisioning Men’s Lives: Gender, Intimacy, and Power. New York & London: Guilford Press

Lazear, Jonathon. (1992). Meditations for Men Who Do Too Much. New York: Fireside/Parkside.

Levant, R. F., R. J. Hall, et al. (2009). Gender Differences in Alexithymia. Psychology of Men & Masculinity July 10(3): 190-203.

Levant, R., M. Halter, et al. (2009). The Efficacy of Alexithymia Reduction Treatment: A Pilot Study. The Journal of Men’s Studies 17(1): 75-84.

Levant, Ronald F., with Gina Kopecky. (1996). Men and Relationships: Coming In Out of the Cold. Chapter 10 in Masculinity Reconstructed: Changing the Rules of Manhood at Work, in Relationships, and in Family Life. New York: Plume.

Lewis, R. (1978) Emotional Intimacy Among Men. Journal of Social Issues, Vol 34, no. 1, pp 108-21.

Lombardo, William K., Gary A. Cretser, and Scott C. Roesch. (2001). For crying out loud--the differences persist into the ‘90s. Sex Roles, Oct., Vol. 45, Iss. 7/8.

Martin, Bill, Sharyn Roach Anleu, and Maria Zadoroznyj. (eds.). (2003). Journal of Sociology, Special Issue: ‘Commercializing Emotions’, December, Volume 39, No. 4.
Kylie Jarrett / Labour of Love: An Archaeology of Affect as Power in E-Commerce (335-351).
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Raelene Wilding / Romantic Love and ‘Getting Married’: Narratives of the Wedding in and Out of Cinema Texts (373-389).
Ian Woodward / Divergent Narratives in the Imagining of the Home amongst Middle-Class Consumers: Aesthetics, Comfort and the Symbolic Boundaries of Self and Home (391-412).
Rebecca Hazleden / Love Yourself: The Relationship of the Self with Itself in Popular Self-Help Texts (413-428).

May, Larry. (1998). Anger, Desire, and Moral Responsibility. Chapter 1 in Masculinity and Morality, Ithaca & London: Cornell University Press

Mazis, Glen A. (1993). Trickster, Magician and Grieving Man: Reconnecting Men With Earth. Santa Fe, New Mexico: Bean & Co.

McGill, Michael E. (1986). The McGill Report on Male Intimacy. Perenial Library.

Middleton, Peter. (1992). The Lost Language of Emotion. Chapter 6 in The Inward Gaze: Masculinity and Subjectivity in Modern Culture. London: Routledge

Moore, Thomas. (1998). The Soul of Sex: Cultivating Life as an Act of Love.

Naifeh, Steven, and Gregory Smith. (1984). Why Can’t Men Open Up? Overcoming Men’s Fear of Intimacy. New York: Clarkson N. Potter.

Ngai, Sianne. (2005). Ugly Feelings. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press.

Nowinski, Joseph. (1991). Men, Love and Sex. Thorsons.

Nowinski, Joseph. (1993). Hungry Hearts: On Men, Intimacy, Self-Esteem, and Addiction. New York: Lexington Books.

Oransky, M. and J. Marecek. (2009). I’m Not Going to Be a Girl: Masculinity and Emotions in Boys’ Friendships and Peer Groups. Journal of Adolescent Research 24(2): 218-241.

Oransky, M. and J. Marecek. (2009). I’m Not Going to Be a Girl”: Masculinity and Emotions in Boys’ Friendships and Peer Groups. Journal of Adolescent Research, 24(2): 218-241.

Osherson, Samuel. (1992). Wrestling With Love: How Men Struggle With Intimacy With Women, Children, Parents, and Each Other. New York & Toronto: Fawcett Columbine

Pasick, Robert. (1992). Awakening From the Deep Sleep: A Practical Guide for Men in Transition. San Francisco: Harper.

Patrick, S. and J. Beckenbach. (2009). Male perceptions of intimacy: a qualitative study.(Report). The Journal of Men’s Studies 17(1): 47(10).

Patrick, Shawn, and John Beckenbach. (2009). Male perceptions of intimacy: a qualitative study. The Journal of Men’s Studies, 17(1).

Pease, Bob (2012) The politics of gendered emotions: disrupting men’s emotional investment in privilege. Australian Journal of Social Issues, vol. 47, no. 1, pp. 125-142.

Pease, Bob. (2002). Men and intimacy: Masculinities, emotions and relationships. Chapter 6 in Men and Gender Relations. Melbourne: Tertiary Press.

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Probyn, Elspeth. (2005). Blush: Faces of Shame. Minneapolis: University of Minnesota Press.

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Zackariasson, M. (2009). Angry Young Men? Masculinities and Emotion among Young Male Activists in the Global Justice Movement. The Journal of Men’s Studies 17(1): 31-46.

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Includes.
Cox-May, Valerie. Mateship and Relationships: The Challenge of Emotional Connection for Australian Men.
Drummond, Murray. The Changing Meaning of Relationships in the Lifecourse of Male Athletes.
Giblett, Noel. Men and Relationships Services: Putting the Cart Before the Horse? Papering Over the Cracks?.
Melvin, Terry and Gee, Tony. On the Backfoot: Men, Relationships and Accessing Services.
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Journals

Emotion Review (Sage, 2008-)

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships