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Going to the Dogs: When Men Travel in Packs by Bill Patrick
One day this summer I was sitting on the beach watching groups of young men walk up and down the shore. They followed a rigid heterosexual masculine script, strutting along arrogantly, glaring angrily at other groups of men, and eyeing women with undisguised lust.
Mel Seems Really Mad: The Relationship Between Anger and Abuse by Bill Patrick

As I wrote in a previous post, the media these past weeks has been repeatedly playing taped phone conversations where the famous actor/director/producer Mel Gibson can be heard ranting at his ex-partner Oksana Grigorieva. He threatens to bury Grigorieva “in a rose garden,” and the tapes seem to prove that Gibson hit Grigorieva in the face hard enough to damage her teeth – while she was holding their baby in her arms. His rants are full of racist and misogynist slurs, and one of his favourite words seems to be c***.

Is Mel Gibson "Mad"? (And does it matter?) by Bill Patrick
(This post explores the links between mental illness and abuse. The convoluted link between anger and abuse will be explored in a later post.)
 

Don't Emasculate Me! by Bill Patrick

I knew Lucas* to be a great guy. He is popular. Funny. Extremely bright. Totally sweet. Actively involved in civil rights and social justice work. So it was a great pleasure to see him when he stopped by my office one day at the supervised child visitation centre I was running. He asked a whole bunch of questions about the work we did there, and about dealing with the abusive men who were our clients.

“Wow, it’s quite a program you’ve got here, Bill,” he said after I gave him a tour.

“Thanks! How are things going with you?”

Letting Judgement Cloud Our Emotions: Thoughts on “Rationality” and Violence Against Women by Bill Patrick
You need to calm down. You are just being emotional. You are letting your feelings get the better of you. We need to approach this rationally. Be reasonable. How many times have we all heard these phrases – and even used them ourselves? We in North America are pretty good at keeping things dispassionate. And when people begin to express themselves using strong emotions, we work to shut those people down. To bring them back to “sanity.” To push them back toward “balance."
Martial arts and broadening understandings of masculinity. by Felix Scholz

( As always this can be seen in the original context here )

One of the few 'traditionally' masculine and predominantly homosocial activities I engage in, and have (on and off) for many years, is martial arts/self-defence - and I've found it  really interesting and surprising in terms of engagement with masculinity.

Dealing with a Crisis by Felix Scholz

( As always this can be seen in the original context, and with he original comment threads of critical masculinities blog here )

Remembering and Honoring Chief Wilma Mankiller by Julian Real
Here are a few posts by me, with links back to my blog, as many of my posts contain links to other sources, and it is easier for me to link back here, than to replicate all the links on this website. I apologise for any inconvenience this causes any readers, and welcome you all to read what follows: All three of these links are about the life and work of Chief Wilma Mankiller.